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1. Balancing masculine rationality with feminine emotionality

Do you see yourself championing rationality to keep your emotional impulses at bay? Or do you experience yourself as emotionally intelligent, who's wisely in touch with your own feelings?

Masculine focused

If you're more rational than emotional, your needs best met with a more emotional emphasis naturally seeks some balance. One way nature prompts you to fill this void is through sexual energy, to compel you to pursue the complementary emotionality you currently lack. Whether stereotypically in a woman or perhaps in an emotionally attuned man.

The less you integrate your rational qualities with emotional maturity, the more prone to swing between extremes of irrationality and unemotionality. For example, _________

The more you blend your rational qualities with emotional maturity, the more needs you can resolve and remove cause for pain. For example, becoming both reasonable and intuitive enables you to _________

Feminine focused

If you're more emotional than rational, your needs best met with a more rational emphasis naturally seeks some balance. One way nature prompts you to fill this void is through sexual energy, to compel you to pursue the complementary rationality you currently lack. Whether stereotypically in a man or perhaps in a rationally minded woman.

toward balance

Cyclic balancing of these gender-associated traits

Vacillating between opposing extremes

When locked into opposing extremes, you can be irrational one moment and then unemotional the next. You suppress your emotional outbursts to appear respectfully rational.

You angrily yell at your son. Then collect yourself to sternly warn him with a straight face. He sees you act calm but likely wonders when that volcano may explode again.

Immaturity traps you into swinging between extremes of emotional outbursts and hyperrationality. Maturity spurs you to complement these seemingly opposing sides.

Balancing complementary sides

The more balanced your life, the more you can integrate being reasonable with being intuitive. Each time you act reasonably for the situation and experience good results, the more you can trust your feelings, your intuition, to inform you of what best to do.

You mature as you face challenges with both the option of being reasonable and being intuitive. You instantly temper your intuitive feelings of annoyance with reasonable ways to address the situation. You respond more to threats than react.

Oscillating toward a balanced center

Encountering the holistic center

Your responsiveness becomes both intuitive and reasonable. You automatically blend these complementary qualities in your routine decisions. They no longer contradict.

You learn you can trust your gut to express what you know is unacceptable to you. Your intuition reliably guides you to remove those threats of what's unacceptable, in ways others can trust as reasonable. You can now resolve more needs, remove more pain, and restore more wellness.

Transspiritually compelled holism

As a transspirit, I am spiritually compelled to transcend conventional opposites. Instead of a complementary opposite person outside of myself pulling me into balancing my reasonableness and intuition, an inexplicable force of nature within pulls me to balance these traits.

This explains my asexuality. Much as the Apostle Paul described himself, I've never burned with sexual desire for another. And much like that New Testament writer, I relate to others on their own terms instead of imposing my own. I too spiritually stretch beyond the imposing divide between male and female.

I am both masculine and feminine. I am both liberal-progressive and conservative. I am both complainant and defendant. I must be unitarily both, to more fully resolve needs and reach more of humanity's potential.

Those insisting on one-or-the-other get easily tripped up by life's paradoxes. Their emotional attachment to a comforting familiarity of opposites tends to blind them. They often uncritically trust the veneer of contradictions, which easily obscures some profoundly complementary sides.

From the myopia of their painfully unresolved needs and consequential diminished capacity to function, they tend to misinterpret every contradiction as mutually exclusive. They judge by appearances. They can't see the forest for the trees.

They rely on adversarialism. Many of them oppose my transspiritual existence. They vehemently guard their familiar norms of opposing sides. They indulge in side-taking when unwarranted.

They resist any discomfort of having their oppositional norms questioned. They avoid engaging me, who has the liberating wisdom that can free them from their pain. Some even project their avoided pain onto me.

...all my life...

...falsely accused, wrongly convicted, falsely imprisoned for a dozen years, lifetime sentence as a sex offender despite being asexual with no prior or subsequent history of criminality...

As a sage gifted with wisdom, I

reactivity of conformity enforcers (legalists) - Sf captured

It's good to hold onto being reasonable and not let of being intuitive. For the one who integrates both can resolve far more needs, remove more pain, and reach more of life's potential.

Conventional reaction to transspirituality

The more attached to conventional norms, the more one tends to guard the comforting familiarity of pragmatism creep.

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