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Responsive Depolarization

Depolarize politics with empathy and love

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Turn political conflict into opportunities for mutual support.

No need to debate when you can vulnerably relate.

It's not about different beliefs.
It's not about who has the better argument.
It's not about who is right or wrong. 
 
It's about inflexible needs.

It's about the objective fact of having a different priority of needs. The more you can vulnerably relate your vulnerable needs, the less you get pulled into pointless debate.

Turn political conflict into opportunities for mutual understanding and respect.

Status quo politics remains a
win-lose
proposition. The winner at the ballot gets to
relieve their pain
at the expense of the losing side.
All sides get sucked into

endless conflict

Everyone loses something.
Harmony Politics offers a
win-win
alternative. All sides get opportunity to
remove their pain
by resolving needs prompting their pain.
All sides get incentivized to

perpetuate peace

Everyone gains something.

Sample pages

This interactive spreadsheet tool was originally called Harmony Politics. It provides a viable path to depolarize our politics, with empathy and love.

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Scroll through these sample pages at the left to see how a fresh copy appears. Enter your own experience into it, and see it come alive with refreshing insights.

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Download your copy to see for yourself. Ne email capture. No commitments. Totally free.

What if our stubborn political differences stem from an inflexible orientation?

Gay conversion fails. Forcing lefthanders to write righthanded fails. Coercing an introvert to be extroverted fails. Perhaps political debating is a thinly veiled rejection of each other’s orientation.

Let's Unpack Politics - psychosocial nee

Neither side is better than the other

Anankelogy recognizes the objective fact of one's different priority of needs. If your urban life goads you to rely on government assistance, or if your rural life reaches more of its potential with less government involvement, you objectively function better when resolving your priority needs. Political beliefs cannot change that.

What drives your political orientation?

Let me thank you

 

Whether you lean politically left or lean right, in between or not at all, 

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thank you.

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Thank You to both sides

 

Has anyone thanked you lately? For how your particular politics contribute value to all of our lives? Whether you lean politically left, or lean right, I personally thank you now.

Do you lean left?

If leaning liberal,

you naturally prioritize your need for

  • societal inclusion, 

  • laws against discrimination, 

  • equal treatment, and the like.

 

If living in a heavily populated location, like a big city, you find yourself more vulnerable to the needs of others. Your situation orients you to need widespread cooperation over localized efforts.

 

Liberalism gives expression to your inner orientation that prioritizes your need for social equality. Instead of others debating your views, let them appreciate your vulnerable priority of situational needs. 

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Sample pages for left leaning

If you identify as more liberal or progressive, your pages will look something like this.

 

You can always change the setting to view how the pages appear to conservatives.

Do you lean right?

If leaning conservative,

you naturally prioritize your need for

  • family cohesion, 

  • property rights, 

  • self-sufficiency, and the like.

 

If living in a sparsely populated location, like a rural town, you find yourself frequently fending for yourself. Your situation orients you to need localized efforts over widespread cooperation.

 

Conservatism gives expression to your inner orientation that prioritizes your need for personal freedom. Instead of others debating your views, let them appreciate your vulnerable priority of situational needs.

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Sample pages for right leaning

If you identify as more conservative, your pages will look something like this.

 

You can always change the setting to view how the pages appear to liberals and progressives.

Empathize with the inflexible needs on both sides of every politicized issue. Here are eight to lead the way.

 

Step beyond the misapplication of "bothsidesism" that dismisses the need for empathizing with all sides.

 

Honor the needs of others as you would have them honor your own. Than call that love. 

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Raising the standard

Harmony Politics raises the bar. Instead of indulging in side-taking that divide us into defensive camps, let this tool nurture our capacity to love one another more.

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Break free from the tap of selfish politics. Replace it with the power of love, of honoring their politicized stance as you would have them honor your own.

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We can solve far more political problems by honoring each other's needs than opposing them.

Key Politicized Issues
Depolarizing with love

You don't have to feel any love to respect their needs as you would have them respect your own.

 

Others don't have to feel any warmth toward you in order to respect your different priority on politicized issues.

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Learn how to be more loving toward others with a different political stance by downloading your own copy of Harmony Politics now.​

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Currently requires MS Excel or reader to utilize.

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