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A-Foundational - B-Basic - C-General - D-Pain - E-Conflict - F-Power - G-Structural - H-Love

You will find these principles organized into eight distinct types.

Foundational Principles lay the basis for anankelogy as a unique science. These create the foundation for the discipline study of need. As objective phenomena, many aspects of our needs can be examined by the scientific method.

Basic Principles ground aspects of your experience with needs in the science of anankelogy. These establish anankelogy as a unique social science.

General Principles add wisdom to experiencing needs anchored in the science of anankelogy. These provide insight into what this new profession of need-response can do that other professional fields cannot.

Pain Principles start applying anankelogy to be more "need-responsive" in our lives. These apply primarily at the personal human problem level.

Conflict Principles offer some insight for negotiating disputes you have with others. These apply primarily at the interpersonal human problem level.

Authority Principles apply anankelogy to the legitimacy of those in positions of influential power. These apply primarily at the power human problem level.

Law Principles apply anankelogy to the point of having laws and unwritten norms. These apply primarily at the structural human problem level.

Love Principles cap these need-focused concepts with mutual respect for each other's needs. These give context to all the other types as we function best when we support others to function their best. One word for such positive regard is love.

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<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Which do you think is more likely?</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">We must respect those in positions of power over us to extrinsically maintain the social order.</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">OR</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">We must reserve “power” for what restores full wellness to intrinsically sustain the social order.</p>
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<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Anankelogy</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">The concept of influential power depends largely on the greater power of our underlying natural needs. Apart from needing another’s approval, for example, no one has any influential power over me. The deeper power of nature driving my need for another’s opinion of me fuels the existence of influential power.</p>
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<p class="font_8">When indigenous people speak of power, they typically refer to this deeper power of nature driving our needs. Nonindigenous discourse tends to regard the “power” of social influence on par with the “Power” of nature. Without nature’s power to compel us to depend on others, there is no influential social power.</p>
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<p class="font_8">The more we flow with the greater power of nature to resolve our needs, the less potent the “power”of social influence. The less our needs resolve, the more vulnerable we are to the influence of those we trust to hold things together. The more those in influential positions of power impede resolving our needs, their “power” presents more like a privileged weakness.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Only when <em>power</em>leads you to resolve your needs can that power be respected in full. Social influence that manipulates us away from resolving needs, and coerces us to endure more suffering, lacks <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/engage-1"><strong>legitimacy</strong></a>. When forcing us to settle for less than our full functioning wellness, it is <em>power</em>in name only.</p>
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<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Need-response</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">The other social sciences generally accept the conventional definition of power. They see power as compelling social influence. Anankelogy’s <em>nature-based paradigm</em> requires a deeper view of power.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Anankelogy and need-response recognize the deeper forces of nature shaping our needs. Apart from the greater power of nature driving our needs, there would be no lesser power of social influence.</p>
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<p class="font_8">The more we try to control nature, the more we alienate ourselves from the power of nature to resolve needs. The more alienated we become from resolving our needs, the more drawn to social influence to cope with the resulting pain.</p>
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<p class="font_8">The more we settle for the lesser power of social influence to manage the pain, the fewer of our needs can actually resolve. <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/d04-pain-principle"><strong>Pain is not the problem as much as the threats our pain exists to report</strong></a>. The more we allow social power to distract us from our pain and needs, the more that <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/d05-pain-principle"><strong>pain likely returns</strong></a>. <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/d01-pain-principle"><strong>There is no such thing as pain apart from unmet needs</strong></a>, but we generally <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/d07-pain-principle"><strong>prefer our familiar yet dull pain</strong></a> of unmet needs over the sharper pain of unknowns of fully resolving a need.</p>
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<p class="font_8">In other words, social power easily robs us from enjoying natural power.</p>
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<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Reactive Problem</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">The less your needs resolve, the more your body persists in grabbing your attention with intensifying emotional pain. To cope with that pain to address needs beyond your control, you naturally seek some kind of relief from outside of yourself.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Professional pain-relievers come along and offer you hope. You latch on. You’re soon pleased by gaining some relief. Any relief will do. Now you’re hooked.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Your psychiatrist hooks you on <a href="https://www.cancer.gov/publications/dictionaries/cancer-terms/def/selective-serotonin-reuptake-inhibitor"><strong>reuptake inhibitors</strong></a>, so you never have to resolve the needs causing you depression. Your favorite news outlet hooks you on <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Outrage_porn"><strong>outrage porn</strong></a>, so you never have to resolve the needs driving the conflict. Your political leaders hook you on <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-eimbi"><strong>indulgent side-taking</strong></a>, so you never have to resolve your need for community cohesion or address your painful feelings of isolation. You give them “power” over your unresolved needs.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Your unresolved needs persist to alarm you with ongoing pain. The longer you feel alienated from others, for example, the more you suffer loneliness and agonizing despair. So you return to your familiar source of pain relief. You socially give “powerholders” your permission to influence you. And for some reason we call this “power”.</p>
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<p class="font_8">But such social influence is actually weakness. We have it tragically backwards. We resign to regarding such potent social influence as “power” when it would not even exist if we related better to nature’s power driving our needs.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Settling for the “power” of social influence exposes us to manipulation, exploitation, coercion, and <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/3-stages-of-slipping-into-symfunction-capture"><strong>settling for alternatives to resolving needs</strong></a>. All in the name of power.</p>
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<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Responsive Solution</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">Let’s now get right to how this principle can solve that problem. . For now, this serves as placeholder text. When I find the time, I will post the full deal here.</p>
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<p class="font_8">How does this speak to your experience of needs?</p>

F04 Authority Principle

Power is not really ‘power’ unless resulting in resolved needs.

Any authoritative power not resolving needs acts more like a coercive force. The more those in position of power serve their own interests at odds with the affected needs of the powerless, the less legitimate their influence. The power of the socially influential only exists because of the deeper power of nature shaping our objective needs. The more any social power invests their social influence to resolve nature-created needs, the more meaningful and legitimate its influence. Otherwise, it’s often guilty of coercive exploitations.

<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Which do you think is more likely?</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">It’s hopeless to convince the powerful to respond better to your needs.</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">OR</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Affirming the needs of the powerful can incentivize them to affirm yours.</p>
<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Anankelogy</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">If you are in a position of power, then you likely realize this truism: <em><strong>You don’t know what you don’t know</strong></em>. You likely also appreciate the challenge of seeking answers if you don’t even know what to effectively ask.</p>
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<p class="font_8">You could invite feedback to your leadership’s effectiveness, but you likely only hear crickets. Those subject to your authority likely keep their distance. And they often hold you to unrealistic expectations, like hoping you can read their minds to know their day-to-day needs.</p>
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<p class="font_8">You likely hold unrealistic expectations of them. You expect them to follow your orders without question. Or at least with minimal resistance, so you accomplish the demands of those in authority over you.</p>
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<p class="font_8">You tend to bias the needs of those in higher authority over the needs of those reporting to your authority. But <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/c06-general-principle"><strong>all natural needs sit equal before nature</strong></a>. Your subordinates cannot adequately function for you if too many of their <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-2dtoq"><strong>vulnerable needs</strong></a> get ignored.</p>
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<p class="font_8">As far as you know, you can be doing a top-notch job. But abruptly hell breaks loose. What went wrong? You’re doing everything right, as far as you know, and something still falls apart.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Need-response can help you in ways no other professional resource can. We incentivize those you impact to <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/engage-2#viewer-6d0mo"><strong>speak truth to power</strong></a> to respectfully provide you useful impact data. This incentivizes you to <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/engage-2#viewer-6d0mo"><strong>listen to those impacted</strong></a>. Only need-response cultivates this win-win environment.</p>
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<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Need-response</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">Need-response can complement law enforcement. Or compete with unresponsive law enforcement. Likewise, it can either complement your authority or compete with it, based on the objective outcomes produced.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Need-response asserts the higher authority of resolving needs. If those you impact <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/4-levels-and-nuance-of-the-functionality-array#viewer-3t3d8"><strong>optimally resolve</strong></a> more needs than you in measurable ways, we invite your support or challenge your legitimacy.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Without the discipline of need-responsiveness, authorities everywhere rapidly lose sufficient legitimacy in the eyes of the impacted. The <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Liberal_international_order"><strong>rule based international order</strong></a> appears to be collapsing. Elites relying on manipulation to corral compliance no longer works. The standards for impacting us continue to rise.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Need-response seeks to support a new mindset of leadership. Instead of hating on elites or rebelling against authorities, need-response reaches out to unresponsive leaders to provide the anankelogical tools to be more measurable responsive.</p>
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<p class="font_8">That may require some massive shifts in your understanding of once widely accepted norms. For example, the manipulation of representative democracy into something that no longer represents the interests or needs of the people. Your needs and our needs cannot be manipulated by feigned choices.</p>
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<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Reactive Problem</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">Reality is not a democracy. The <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/a01-foundational-principle"><strong>objective fact</strong></a> of each other’s needs, and each other’s priority of needs, cannot be legitimately subjected to a ballot.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Attempts to coerce others to change what their <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-eimbi"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a> risks undermining the true intent of democracy. Save democracy for shaping policies to respond to needs. And not to attempts to contest the needs themselves.</p>
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<p class="font_8">The more you <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/e10-conflict-principle"><strong>reactively resist</strong></a> with authority, the more pushback you inevitably get. <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/e06-conflict-principle"><strong>Violence is not the answer</strong></a>, even if ordered from above.</p>
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<p class="font_8">A violent authority cannot legitimately call for nonviolence while benefiting from their violence against those they insist shall stay nonviolent. <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cui_bono%3F"><strong>Cui bono?</strong></a> Quite the opposite, that incites a struggle for self-preservation that risks slipping into violence.</p>
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<p class="font_8">When an authority incites such desperate reaction and then tries to crush it, anankelogy asserts that it loses its exclusive claim for the use of violence. You can find this principle baked into the <a href="https://portal.ct.gov/sots/register-manual/section-i/declaration-of-independence-us-constitution#:~:text=But%20when%20a%20long%20train,guards%20for%20their%20future%20security."><strong>U.S. Declaration of Independence</strong></a>. And grounded in passage of the <a href="https://constitutioncenter.org/the-constitution/amendments/amendment-ii/interpretations/99"><strong>2nd Amendment</strong></a>.</p>
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<p class="font_8">While you may mean well, and act with the best of intensions, your imposition of authority tends to extract value instead of creating value. The less those you impact can resolve their needs, the less capable they can function well enough to meet your expectations for social order.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Institutions everywhere are losing sufficient legitimacy the more they alienate themselves from self-awareness. Whenever any authority benefits from holding back those under their thumb, revolution could be sparked right around the corner.</p>
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<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Responsive Solution</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">Let’s now get right to how this principle can solve that problem. . For now, this serves as placeholder text. When I find the time, I will post the full deal here.</p>
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<p class="font_8">How does this speak to your experience of needs?</p>

F05 Authority Principle

Legitimacy of authority can be lost when imposing a hidden cost.

The more those in positions of authority rely in impersonal norms and less engaging social structures, the more they risk imposing some costs not immediately obvious to them. Those under thumb of such pressures tend not to vocalize their frustrations, to avoid risking retribution. The more an authority realizes it invisibly extracts such value, the better it can retain its legitimacy.

<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Which do you think is more likely?</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Authority proves necessary in our lives to avoid slipping into chaotic anarchy.</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">OR</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">The more we can resolve needs on our own, the less we rely on authority.</p>
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<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Anankelogy</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">When was the last time you relied upon authority to enforce your need to eat something? Probably never. When was the last time you relied upon authority to enforce your need to access food safe to eat? Probably all of the time.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Your requirement for food that you cannot grow yourself triggers your <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-css6a"><strong>social needs</strong></a>. And that goes for anything you require to function that involves others. Unresponsive authorities can have the most painful impacts on your vulnerable social needs.</p>
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<p class="font_8">The more you rely on others you do not personally know, like produce suppliers, the more authority creeps in to have a word about it. Laws exist to ensure your groceries will not kill you. Authorities exist to enforce such laws.</p>
<p class="font_8">But all of this occurs on an impersonal level. The more vulnerable to the demands of authority to get what your life requires, the more authority can get in the way of what you actually need.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Modernity comes with the <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Creeping_normality#:~:text=Creeping%20normality%20(also%20called%20gradualism,often%20unnoticeable%2C%20increments%20of%20change."><strong>creeping normality</strong></a> of increasing vulnerability to authorities for everyday requirements. The less you can fully resolve your needs because of such impersonal authorities, the more your pain naturally increases. Authorities often step in to manage your pain, with little if any incentive to remove cause for that pain.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Anankelogy recognizes the current trend of growing disillusionment with the <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Liberal_international_order"><strong>rule-based order</strong></a>. Much of the cynicism stems from the problem of <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-c1aik"><strong>avoidant adversarialism</strong></a><strong>.</strong> Authorities likely coerced you to oppose what seems to be your immediate sources of pain. Yet the pain persists.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Authorities then encroach into areas where you could be free to resolve more needs, if only they were more supportive. Authorities rarely realize how their complicit in keeping you trapped in ongoing pain. Need-response can help you break free and find liberation.</p>
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<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Need-response</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">Need-response answers the problem of <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-c1aik"><strong>avoidant adversarialism</strong></a> with <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-73t7k"><strong>engaging mutuality</strong></a>. Authorities hold power over you in certain social situations. They tend to take an adversarial stance toward you, because they can. They tend to avoid the discomfort they cause you, because they can.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Need-response identifies the two sides in these power relations for analysis. It recognizes powerful authorities as “<a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-c1aik"><strong>ascribed impactors</strong></a>” (<strong>AI</strong>). They impact the relationship more than impacted by it. If under that authority figure, you are recognized as a “<a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-14a3p"><strong>reporting impactee</strong></a>” (<strong>RI</strong>). You tend to be impacted by the relation more than impacting it.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Need-response equalizes such power relations with its <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/7-ways-need-responders-equalize-power-relations#viewer-3t3d8"><strong>Impact Parity Model</strong></a>. It uniquely opens the eyes of each side to the affected needs of the other side. <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/a01-foundational-principle"><strong>Needs are objective facts</strong></a>, so it pays to identify and address the needs of others you impact.</p>
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<p class="font_8">The more the <strong>RI </strong>affirms the <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-eimbi"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a> of the <strong>AI</strong>, we anticipate less reaction from such impactful authorities. The more the <strong>AI</strong> then respects the affected needs of the <strong>RI</strong>. It’s a win-win relationship after that.</p>
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<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Reactive Problem</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">The more we settle for easing needs over resolving them, the more we stay in <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/3-stages-of-slipping-into-symfunction-capture"><strong>some level of pain</strong></a>. And the less we can fully function. The longer we cannot fully function, the closer we slip into painful <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/4-levels-and-nuance-of-the-functionality-array#viewer-6d0mo"><strong>dysfunction</strong></a>.</p>
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<p class="font_8">The less we can remain pain free by resolving all or most of our needs, the more we attach to ways to cope with the mounting pain. We may slip into outbursts to try to desperately get rid of the pain. We may even wander into behaviors infringing on others. We can become emotionally abusive, or perhaps even covertly if not overtly violent toward others.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Authorities then step in. The less your needs can freely resolve, the more authority seems absolutely necessary to pick up the pieces. The more you feel helpless to control your reactions, the more you likely acquiesce to authorities getting more involved.</p>
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<p class="font_8">In our culture of hyper-individualism, you feel utterly powerless. You likely see authority is unquestionably necessary to keep in check each other’s irresponsible reactions. You scarcely realize how these impulsive overreactions exist largely as a fiction of our own modernist creation. We wouldn’t suffer such malaise if our leaders encouraged more responsiveness to each other’s needs.</p>
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<p class="font_8">The more we suffer in pain, the more we overreact and infringe upon others. The more we overreact, the more we defer to authorities. The more we defer to authorities, the less our needs resolve. The less our needs resolve, the more we suffer in pain. Rince and repeat.</p>
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<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Responsive Solution</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">We can safely assume authorities typically remain unaware of their coercive influences. They will likely show how they mean well, but lack sufficient discipline to support resolving your <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/a01-foundational-principle"><strong>objective needs</strong></a>.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Need-response facilitates a process to equalize this power relation. <strong>RI</strong> <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/engage-2#viewer-6d0mo"><strong>speak truth to power</strong></a> in ways that incentivize <strong>AI</strong> to <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/engage-2#viewer-6d0mo"><strong>listen to those impacted</strong></a>. Instead of relying on <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-c1aik"><strong>adversarialism</strong></a>, both sides apply <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/20-character-refunctions-restoring-wellness"><strong>character refunctions</strong></a> to convey <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-d8lb2"><strong>mutual regard</strong></a> for each other’s <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-eimbi"><strong>inflexible</strong> <strong>needs</strong></a>.</p>
<ul class="font_8">
  <li><p class="font_8">As you likely respond better to <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/20-character-refunctions-restoring-wellness#viewer-fx7q915397"><strong>humility</strong></a>, you humbly relate to authority figures.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">As you likely respond better to <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/20-character-refunctions-restoring-wellness#viewer-34f4e379465"><strong>empathy</strong></a>, you empathize with the needs of authority.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">As you likely respond better to <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/20-character-refunctions-restoring-wellness#viewer-ei270375446"><strong>grace</strong></a>, you’re gracious toward the shortcomings of authority.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">As you likely respond better to <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/20-character-refunctions-restoring-wellness#viewer-cwbga375501"><strong>fair treatment</strong></a>, you fairly treat authority.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">As you likely respond better to <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/20-character-refunctions-restoring-wellness#viewer-7awry90043"><strong>honesty</strong></a>, you remain honest and open to authority.</p></li>
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<p class="font_8">Each <strong>RI</strong> assess the <strong>AI</strong>’s responsiveness to such demonstrated traits. Then rates the <strong>AI</strong>’s demonstrated reciprocity. Or demarks the <strong>AI</strong>’s reputation if reacting poorly. This translates into <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-73t7k"><strong>earned legitimacy</strong></a>.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Legitimacy favors the <strong>AI</strong> whose authority leads to the most resolved needs among the <strong>RI</strong>. <strong>AI</strong> earn more legitimacy the more they relate to the actual needs of those under their social influence. This process incentivizes authorities to cocreate measurable wellness outcomes.</p>
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<p class="font_8">That includes esteeming authorities more highly when they effectively transform social structures tobe more responsive to every one’s needs. Bonus points for enabling RI to freely and fully resolving their <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-73t7k"><strong>exposed needs</strong></a>. We vouch for their earned legitimacy the more the demonstrably help those impacted to more fully resolve their needs, remove their pain, and restore their wellness.</p>
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<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Responding to </strong><em><strong>your</strong></em><strong> needs</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">How does this principle speak to your experience of needs? Post in our <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/forum"><strong>Engagement forum</strong></a> your thoughtful response to one of these:</p>
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  <li><p class="font_8">I cannot envision any authority figure that I know to ever go along with something like this.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">If power corrupts, isn’t the problem simply having too much authority?</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">But what if I am truly helpless to authorities because of a disability?</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">I need to see this work effectively for someone like me before I trust it could work for me.</p></li>
</ul>
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F06 Authority Principle

Authority proves less necessary where needs freely resolve.

The more internally motivated and enabled to honor the needs of others, the less you have to be externally motivated by pressures from impersonal authority. But where needs persist unresolved, some authority typically emerges to address the gap. When becoming routine, such authority risks disincentivizing our mutual motivations. That risks diminishing our mutual respect and our love.

<p class="font_7" style="text-align: center">Which do you think is more likely?</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Every law exists as a literal extension of authority to maintain the social order.</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">OR</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Every law serves as a metaphor for the public-facing needs it exists to address.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Anankelogy</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">We widely agree that no one sits above the law, not even elected rulers nor constitutional monarchs. We widely agree that we all sit equal under the authority of law, so that no one can rise to influential power and dictate their arbitrary will to us.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">But taken to extremes, authorities coerce us to submit to laws to serve their own ends. If no one is literally above the law, does this allow those we trust to create, interpret and enforce the law to effectively sit above us? Can any law legitimately require you to go against your ability to function well enough to obey these laws?</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">You could never obey a law that required you to hold your breath for five minutes, or forced you to replace drinking water with wood alcohol, or required you to defy gravity at will. You cannot make gravity go upward to fit some arbitrary law. You cannot obey any law that prevents you from being able to continue obeying laws, since you would soon no longer be around to obey laws.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Law-based authority loses its legitimacy the more it undermines your capacity to effectively respond to the needs all laws exist to serve. For example, the more you get exorbitantly fined to the point you can no longer afford to survive, the less such authority serves its need-responsive purpose.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Similarly, you cannot easily submit to laws requiring you to rearrange your <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/a02-foundational-principle"><strong>priority of needs</strong></a> to fit someone else’s preferences. Yet that is exactly what toxic laws require from many of us. Laws speak to our flexible behaviors and never to the objective reality of our inflexible needs, nor to our inflexible priorities. That fuels a huge chunk of our political polarization.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Need-response</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">Anankelogy recognizes how your natural needs do sit above the law. Whatever naturally exists prior to human governance—to which laws are created to serve—sits above those laws. We cannot force the objective reality of nature to serve the subjective whims of human wants and desires, no matter how powerful the authority insisting on such demands.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">How we act puts the impact of our behavior under the law. But the natural needs and natural priority of needs actually sit <em>above</em>the law. If obeying every law prevents you from being able to fully function, then the problem is not you but the law. . Or what anankelogy identifies as <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/5-elements-of-toxic-legalism"><strong>toxic legalism</strong></a>.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Reactive Problem</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8"><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/5-elements-of-toxic-legalism"><strong>Toxic legalism</strong></a> easily overlooks the subservience of flexible law to inflexible needs. <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/5-elements-of-toxic-legalism"><strong>Toxic legalism</strong></a> risks undermining the purpose of law in five key ways.</p>
<ol class="font_8">
  <li><p class="font_8"><strong>Hyper-individualism</strong>. The law aptly presumes individual moral agency. Legalism expects you to individualistically obey laws while neglecting the impactful context of socioenvironmental factors restricting your full moral agency. Legalism expects you to be an island.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><strong>Hyperrationality</strong>. Our laws spring from what <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Max_Weber"><strong>Weber</strong></a><strong> </strong>called <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rational-legal_authority"><strong>rational-legal authority</strong></a>, Legalism expects you to rationally decide what is best for others without personally relating to their emotionally charged needs. Legalism incentives you to rationalize.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><strong>Relief</strong>-<strong>generalizing</strong>. We keep laws intentionally vague to be broadly applicable. And the law generally emphasizes harm reduction. Legalism incentivizes overgeneralizing for relief from the pain of your unmet needs, often to the point of neglecting such needs. Those unmet needs Legalism perpetuates pain you feel you must repeatedly avoid.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><strong>Avoidance</strong>. We keep laws intentionally impersonal to curtail their biased enforcement. The more personally the enforcer knows you, the higher the chance they’ll overlook your infractions. And that’s just not fair. Legalism turns such careful detachment into careless alienation. It normalizes disengagement. It expects the law to be enough to address almost any situation. This incentivizes you to hold unrealistic expectations towards others, who likewise hold unrealistic expectations of you. Legalism avoids personally engaging each other’s ongoing needs.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><strong>Adversarialism</strong>. We keep laws intentionally adversarial toward lawbreakers. Laws incentivize public respect for your exposed needs by promising to punish any noncompliance. Legalism normalizes such hostilities to the point of hindering cooperation and mutual understanding of each other. It has you continually viewing others as acting in bad faith when they actually could have good intentions toward you. You squash their good intentions when adversarialism prods you to distrust them and oppose them on a whim. Legalism prematurely pits us against each other in ways that promote mutual defensiveness.</p></li>
</ol>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">The more we mindless assert the supremacy of law, the more we objectify and dehumanize each other. Often to the benefit of law-based elites. And grave costs to our wellbeing.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Responsive Solution</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">Need-response doesn’t disregard law, but goes beyond mere impersonal laws. Need-response fulfills the purpose of law by directly engaging the needs laws exist to serve.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Need-response answers the problem of <em>toxic legalism</em> by countering each of its five excesses.</p>
<ul class="font_8">
  <li><p class="font_8"><strong>Replaces hyper-individualism with psychosocial balance</strong>. Need-response respects every individual within the context of impactful social systems and impactful environments beyond one’s personal control. Need-response balances an internal focus with an external focus to identify all contributors to a problem. Instead of objectifying you as an island, you’re treated holistically.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><strong>Replaces hyper</strong>-<strong>rationality with respected vulnerability</strong>. Need-response encourages us all to acknowledge and affirm the less rational objective needs. We separate out how their expressed subjectively in our emotions. We make it safe for each other to drop their guard and honestly admit their challenging experiences. Instead of hiding behind reasoned arguments, you openly relate vulnerably to each other’s inflexible needs.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><strong>Replaces relief</strong>-<strong>generalizing with relevant specifics</strong>. Need-response inspires you to let go of distracting generalizations to appreciate more of the nuance affecting your needs. It cultivates your <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/engage-1#viewer-dmf5t"><strong>relational orientation</strong></a> from outmoded generalizations toward relevant specifics affecting your needs. Instead of legalism’s overextended vagueness, you drill down to the specifics necessary to resolve needs, remove pain and restore wellness.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><strong>Replaces avoidance with engagement</strong>. Need-response inspires you to benefit from the purpose of your pain, to resolve more needs that can remove cause for pain. It cultivates your <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/engage-1#viewer-6d0mo"><strong>easement orientation</strong></a><strong> </strong>from relieving your pain toward embracing your natural pain as an essential process for resolving your needs. Instead of legalism’s overblown avoidance, you get to know each other’s overlooked needs so you can resolve them, remove their pain and restore each other’s wellness.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><strong>Replaces adversarialism with mutuality</strong>. Need-response inspires you to switch from reflexively opposing your foes to intuitively distinguishing their unchosen needs from their chosen responses to them. It cultivates your <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/engage-1#viewer-43bud"><strong>conflict orientation</strong></a> away from mutual defensiveness toward mutual understanding, mutual engagement, and potential for mutual support. Instead of legalism’s overreach sparking perpetual mistrust, you develop the mutuality essential to more fully resolve each other’s needs, remove cause for each other’s pain and mutually restore each other’s wellness.</p></li>
</ul>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">After all, <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/g03-law-principle"><strong>laws by themselves do not resolve needs; we do</strong></a>. Laws can be as arbitrary as much as the subjective ways you behave toward your needs. The needs themselves start as objective fact. And that sets our inflexible needs above flexible law.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Need-response upends the norms expecting compliance to laws by asserting the higher standard of properly resolving each other’s needs. Legalism’s harm reduction standard too easily perpetuates pain by neglecting the underlying needs prompting our pain. Need-response serves the needs for which laws exist.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">No one’s impactful behavior sits above the law. But then no law sits above one’s objective needs behind that behavior. Accountability is less about compliance to manipulable law, and more to the bottom line of our measurable wellness outcomes. The better we can resolve our own needs without hindering others—or by supporting each other’s needs—the more the issues of law can naturally take care of themselves.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Responding to </strong><em><strong>your</strong></em><strong> needs</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">How does this principle speak to your experience of needs? Post in our <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/forum"><strong>Engagement forum</strong></a> your thoughtful response to one of these:</p>
<ul class="font_8">
  <li><p class="font_8">You try disobeying a law and see what happens!</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">Following laws seems so much easier than trying to figure out each other’s fickle needs.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">I doubt if Teddy Roosevelt meant the law itself must sit above human existence.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">The law sits above rhetorical needs; laws can govern if trusting water from a bottle or faucet.</p></li>
</ul>
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<p class="font_8"><br></p>

G01 Law Principle

While no one sits above the law, no law sits above your needs it exists to serve.

Constructs of law serve as a metaphor for needs. Apart from exposed needs, there are no human laws. The more enforcement of laws goes against what others inflexibly need, the less measurably legitimate that enforcement of law. Violent law enforcement that provokes you to defend your threated safety, for example, slips easily into illegitimacy when authority expects passive compliance. You cannot blindly obey any law that ultimately denies you of your ability to obey laws.

<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Which do you think is more likely?</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Laws literally govern us and hold us accountable, so we don’t slip into chaotic anarchy.</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">OR</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Laws do not literally govern but guide us by incentivizing how we respond to each other’s needs.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Anankelogy</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8"><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/what-in-the-world-is-anankelogy-and-why-should-anyone-care"><strong>Anankelogy</strong></a>illuminates how “law” serves as a metaphor for <em>need</em>. When declaring something as against the law, you’re really saying that it goes against some need. Theft is against the law, for example, because you need exclusive access to your property. Citing a law typically compels more respect for that need than directly expressing your need.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">“Please don’t take my things without asking” carries less of a punch than declaring, “You broke the law when you stole my things!” If the law is on your side, you can stay guarded and not expose your vulnerabilities. You let the law speak for your needs.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">This reinforces alienation. We let <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/g05-law-principle"><strong>laws impersonally convey our needs</strong></a> to avoid the vulnerability of our <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/b02-basic-principle"><strong>emotions personally conveying our needs</strong></a>. It’s easier to defend a “rationally” produced law than our seeming irrational needs.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Our <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a> control our actions far more than our flexible laws. Laws guide our actions to respect each other’s inflexible needs. It’s simply easier to say we are governed by rational laws than admit we are actually governed by irrational needs.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">The more we believe we are literally governed or controlled by laws, instead of merely guided by laws, the further we slip into <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/5-elements-of-toxic-legalism"><strong>toxic legalism</strong></a>. The more we force our inflexible needs to fit flexible laws, the less well we become. Anxiety and depression overrule our coerced conformities. Your inflexible needs cannot be ignored for the sake of any law.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Need-response</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">The further we drift from the needs our laws exist to serve, the easier we slide into <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/5-elements-of-toxic-legalism"><strong>toxic legalism</strong></a>. We slip into overgeneralizing. We remain alienated from each other. We easily become more hostile toward each other.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">On the surface, we trust laws to keep our interactions dispassionate. Under that veneer, we often usurp the pro-social purpose of law for selfish gain. When they desperately react to our legally privileged self-interest, which negatively affects their <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a>, we can smear them as lawbreakers, as criminals, as terrorists. As if our legally-privileged reactions matter more than their violated needs.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">“Why don’t they remain rational,” you could ask, “and use nonviolent means like the ballot and judiciary to file any complaint?” In other words, let the laws suit their needs so you don’t have to personally relate to them. You can then overlook how the “law” of runaway legalism repeatedly denies their needs.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Need-response fills the many gaping holes of <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/5-elements-of-toxic-legalism"><strong>toxic legalism</strong></a>. Replacing selfish exaggerations with relevant specifics, alienation with engagement, and adversarial attitudes with mutual understanding and respect. Because the more you can resolve your personal needs, the less you’re driven by impersonal laws.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Reactive Problem</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">The more you force yourself—or become coerced—to comply with any law going against your <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a>, the more your body will rebel. Depression likely results. Anxiety often sets in. Pain abounds. Addictions to somehow cope with it all likely follows.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">The less your needs resolve because your forced to comply with some antagonistic law, the more pain you will suffer. The more you suffer in agony, the more compelled to desperately seek relief. This may include some illegal actions.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Law enforcement may step in to punish your lawbreaking behavior. It goads you to comply with norms that violate your integrity. But is not equipped to care. Its impersonal approach typically remains blind to how it contributes to your lawless behavior. Especially if benefiting from your noncompliance. They vicious cycle repeats.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">When any impersonal law enforcement benefits from the need-violating conditions it helps create, anankelogy identifies this as <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/relativizing-right-and-wrong-is-empirically-wrong#viewer-3t3d8"><strong>empirical evil</strong></a>. How they benefit and your level of harm can both be measured, along with a correlation between the two.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Responsive Solution</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">Need-response counters this tendency toward <strong>toxic legalism</strong> with <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/relativizing-right-and-wrong-is-empirically-wrong#viewer-8n0d9"><strong>empirical uprightness</strong></a>. Which replaces toxic incentives discouraging wellness to now improving wellness. Instead of blindly trusting cited laws to fix a situation, need-response adds the discipline to address the specifics overlooked by generalized laws.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">That discipline includes empirically measuring the level of actual harm from coerced compliance. And empirically measuring how enforcers benefit from such depersonalizing coercion. Even if they see themselves being completely professional and doing a good job.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">The more enforcers benefit from impeding your ability to honor the needs of others, the more they can rationalize their coercive pressures as the trusted sole solution. Perverse incentives reinforce their ill treatment of rule breakers, while lacking incentives to encourage thriving.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Need-response incentivizes flourishing over mindless compliance. It puts <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a> over flexible laws with what it calls <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-dcbm3"><strong>citationization</strong></a>, or more simply “law-fit”. This reconnects us all to the original purpose of our laws, and that is to encourage mutually honoring each other’s needs. But instead of relying solely or heavily on laws or their enforcement to respect each other’s needs, <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/you-shall-love"><strong>love</strong></a><strong> </strong>incentivizes us to honor the needs of others as our own.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Responding to </strong><em><strong>your</strong></em><strong> needs</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">How does this principle speak to your experience of needs? Post in our <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/forum"><strong>Engagement forum</strong></a> your thoughtful response to one of these:</p>
<ul class="font_8">
  <li><p class="font_8">How can a society exist without laws?</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">How can our needs govern us into doing stupid, harmful things to others?</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">Will need-response try to replace law enforcement?</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">What would happen if need-response itself becomes too impersonal to be effective?</p></li>
</ul>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
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<p class="font_8"><br></p>

G02 Law Principle

Our laws do not govern but guide; our needs govern.

The more you have a particular need that runs counter to a particular law, the less that law can actually govern you. Laws can only guide your actions toward respecting the needs of others. The objective fact of your core needs literally governs your behavior more than the relatively subjective constructs of law. Forcing yourself to fit some law at odds with your inflexible needs could result in anxiety and depression.

<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Which do you think is more likely?</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Quietly following all the given rules will allow us all to thrive.</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">OR</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Linking cited rules to expectations can allow more of us to thrive.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Anankelogy</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8"><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/g05-law-principle"><strong>Laws impersonally convey needs</strong></a> in ways letting you avoid vulnerability. If some law exists to address your every need, you never have to be fully aware of your own needs. You simply wait for others to obey all laws in order to satisfy whatever you expect from them.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">But how is that working? Since laws cannot address your specific needs, dependence on laws set you up for disappointment.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">We mindlessly let “law” stand in for “need”. I say it’s against the law to steal, for example, when I really mean that I need to freely access my property without fear of it being expropriated by others. Short of serving some need, no one actually cares about a law.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Laws keep our public behavior more predictable. To ideally serve our needs. But the law can never be detailed enough to address all of our publicly affected needs.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Passive compliance tends to pull us further from knowing our specific needs. Alienation from ourselves creeps in. To avoid exposing our sense of powerless in society, we cite law to suggest enforcement regimes will compel respect for our <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-73t7k"><strong>exposed</strong></a><strong> </strong>and<strong> </strong><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-xq4102334"><strong>vulnerable needs</strong></a>.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Along the way, we normalize not communicating the details of our specific needs. Others should somehow know what not to do to us. Nondiscrimination laws, for example, should warn others when they are being unfairly discriminatory. But the law itself cannot force others to be culturally competent towards minorities they hardly know.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">We increase our frustrations with others when our hope in law repeatedly disappoints. We typically cling to our expectations to legalistic norms to ease the mounting discomfort of our unmet needs. We tend to react by clinging more tightly to our disappointing legalistic norms, ad nauseum.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Need-response</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">Need-response presents an attractive alternative to impersonal hostilities of legalistic activism: <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/replace-activism-with-responsivism"><strong>responsivism</strong></a>. Responsivism is <em>the belief and practice of responding directly to each other’s needs instead of relying upon impersonal laws</em>.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Responsivism counters the tendency of <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/5-elements-of-toxic-legalism"><strong>toxic legalism</strong></a> to perpetuate the problem we vainly trust laws to fix.</p>
<ol class="font_8">
  <li><p class="font_8"><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/replace-activism-with-responsivism#viewer-3t3d8" target="_self"><strong>Activism easily sparks extremism; responsivism nurtures balance</strong></a>.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/replace-activism-with-responsivism#viewer-6d0mo" target="_self"><strong>Activism generally hides behind rationality; responsivism engages deeper feelings</strong></a>.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/replace-activism-with-responsivism#viewer-dmf5t" target="_self"><strong>Activism evades reality; responsivism engages reality</strong></a>.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/replace-activism-with-responsivism#viewer-769rb" target="_self"><strong>Activism perpetuates pain; responsivism removes pain</strong></a>.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/replace-activism-with-responsivism#viewer-43bud" target="_self"><strong>Activism provokes mutual defensiveness; responsivism incentivizes mutual support</strong></a>.</p></li>
</ol>
<p class="font_8">The more you try to pressure others with the weight of the law, the more they often push back. Their <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a> trump the social demands of cited laws. Your pressure provokes them to dig in their heels. <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/e10-conflict-principle"><strong>What you reactively resist your reflexively reinforce</strong></a>.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Reactive Problem</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8"><strong>Toxic legalism</strong> functions like a <a href="https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/monkey_trap"><strong>monkey trap</strong></a>. It’s hard to let go of something so familiar that you rely upon. The less it serves your needs and leaves you in pain, the more tightly you cling to it for familiar comfort. Your attachment may persist even after stepping back and realizing it isn’t helping you all that much.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">You think less about what the law is supposed to do, and blindly hope your obedience keeps you out of trouble. Or keeps everything okay.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">You trust the law works something like social glue, holding society together. It should motivate people to do the right thing, whatever that may be.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">When expected to follow the law, or even some widely agreed upon social norm, you typically react with compliance. You don’t want any trouble. You do your best to at least outwardly obey.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Responsive Solution</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">Responsivism unpacks such cited rules with <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-dcbm3"><strong>citationization</strong></a>, or “<a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-eedkq1991"><strong>law-fit</strong></a>”. Whenever anyone expects or insists that you follow their trusted norms, whether written laws or popular social norms, you invite them to <em>link that law with a need they expect it to serve</em>.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Without being defensive, you amicably ask, “<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cui_bono%3F"><strong>Cui bono</strong></a>?” That’s Latin for, “Who benefits?” Is your compliance only to serve them, or some institution at your expense? Or to maintain social order that you ostensibly also benefit?</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Or you could ask them, “<a href="https://translate.google.com/?hl=en&amp;tab=TT&amp;sl=la&amp;tl=en&amp;text=quid%20opus%3F&amp;op=translate"><strong>Quid opus</strong></a>?” Which is Latin “for what need?” You break the spell of passive compliance with this active response to the underlying needs of cited rules.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Informally at first. But gradually more formally if necessary to compel a response to the affected needs. With either need-responsive question, you encourage them to give the <em>why </em>for their normative <em>what</em>. You let them know you seek to internalize the rule, so you can meaningfully follow it. In good faith.</p>
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<p class="font_8">This basic practice allows us to incentivize one another to better identify and address the needs that laws can never fully identify or address. Instead of repeated disappointment of imposed norms, we cultivate more mutual understanding and need-honoring <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/you-shall-love"><strong>love</strong></a>.</p>
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<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Responding to </strong><em><strong>your</strong></em><strong> needs</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">How does this principle speak to your experience of needs? Post in our <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/forum"><strong>Engagement forum</strong></a> your thoughtful response to one of these:</p>
<ul class="font_8">
  <li><p class="font_8">But I still must work with legal institutions and not against them willy nilly.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">I can’t break the law just because I don’t see how it fits any need.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">I prefer to see how this works for others who ask <em>cui bono</em> or <em>quid opus</em>.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">What if need-response itself gets bogged down with legalistic norms?</p></li>
</ul>
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G03 Law Principle

Our laws do not resolve needs; people do.

The more we count on impersonal laws to resolve our impersonal needs, the more disappointed we likely will be. Laws can only inform us how to respect the needs of others. Even when motivating us out of threat of fines or jail time, we must internalize some way to act on the intent of such laws. The further we move beyond the law’s harm reduction minimal standard, the more we can fully resolve our needs.

<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Which do you think is more likely?</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Hold accountable anyone defying social norms.</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">OR</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Better understand why some violations of norms are better than kneejerk compliance.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Anankelogy</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">The “law” does not exist to apply to every specific need you have. No law requires you to breathe, or dictates you must first show appreciation for others before you expect their appreciation of you, or obliges you to sleep laying down instead of standing up.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Laws apply only to general situations. Covering too many details risks making a law inapplicable or unenforceable.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">No law requires you to put your keys somewhere you can remember. No law requires you to submit an itinerary to local authorities stating what you specifically expect you’ll be doing every minute of next Tuesday. No law requires you to know exactly when you’ll be using the restroom in the course of the next several days. No law requires you to be healthier a year from now.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Anankelogy recognizes how laws must remain vague, impersonal, and adversarial.</p>
<ul class="font_8">
  <li><p class="font_8"><strong>Laws are kept </strong><em><strong>vague</strong></em>to apply to almost any situation. Which risks being too general to apply to you and your specific needs.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><strong>Laws are kept </strong><em><strong>impersonal</strong></em>to avoid partiality. Which risks alienating you and your specific needs.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><strong>Laws are kept </strong><em><strong>adversarial</strong></em>in their enforcement to punish offenders. Which risks premature hostility toward you and your specific needs.</p></li>
</ul>
<p class="font_8">Anankelogy’s answer to these <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/5-elements-of-toxic-legalism"><strong>built-in limits of law</strong></a> is <strong>need-response</strong>.</p>
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<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Need-response</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8"><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/need-response"><strong>Need-response</strong></a>prioritizes our <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a> over our flexible laws. The needs came first. And laws can never keep up with our every need. Nor should they.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">As <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aleksandr_Solzhenitsyn"><strong>Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn</strong></a> pointed out: “I have spent all my life under a Communist regime and I will tell you that a society without any objective legal scale is a terrible one indeed. But a society with no other scale but the legal one is also less than worthy of [humanity]. A society based on the letter of the law and never reaching anything higher fails to take advantage of the full range of human possibilities.”</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">In other words, legalism impedes human flourishing. The opposite extreme of lawlessness is legalistic tyranny, which ironically hinders your capacity to faithfully oblige every rule.</p>
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<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Reactive Problem</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">Anankelogy identifies this excessive role of rules as <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/5-elements-of-toxic-legalism"><strong>toxic legalism</strong></a>. You either respond effectively to needs or settle for legalistic norms…</p>
<ul class="font_8">
  <li><p class="font_8">to avoid dealing with people’s specific needs with comforting generalities,</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">to ease discomfort of vulnerably relating to messy needs, and then</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">expect established norms to provide an easier path to easing the pain of our unmet needs.</p></li>
</ul>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Motivated_reasoning"><strong>Motivated reasoning</strong></a> biases legalists to preserve the familiar yet stifling status quo. To maintain this easier path, legalists tend to resist…</p>
<ul class="font_8">
  <li><p class="font_8">any belief-disturbing nuance,</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">discomforting engagement, and then</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">prematurely oppose others outside of their norms of legally privileged pain avoidance.</p></li>
</ul>
<p class="font_8">In short, norm-compliant legalists frequently resist <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/steph"><strong>those with the wisdom and answer to remove causes of pain</strong></a>. They’re often trapped in a <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/3-stages-of-slipping-into-symfunction-capture"><strong>zone of mounting pain</strong></a>, and dare not rock the boat lest they risk more pain.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Such legalists easily slide into the <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Creeping_normality"><strong>creeping normalcy</strong></a>of managing their gradually increasing load of emotional pain. By not recognizing the reported needs behind these uncomfortable emotions, they ironically suffer more emotional pain as those unmet needs painfully insist on some attention.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">But the more they overlook the needs that their pain exists to report, the more they’re prone to <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/from-wellness-to-illness-in-5-phases#viewer-2kj4r"><strong>fall back into their managed levels of pain</strong></a>. Legalists tend to resist full wellness. The pain required easily triggers discomfort they feel they must avoid.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">To them, <em>good</em> is defined generally as avoiding pain. Painful wellness efforts seem <em>bad</em>. They often react to painful norm-transgressing efforts to fully resolve needs.</p>
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<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Responsive Solution</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8"><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/g01-law-principle"><strong>While no one sits above the law, no law sits above the needs for which they exist to serve</strong></a>. You cannot easily change your <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a> to fit flexible laws. The more can directly resolve needs, the <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/f06-authority-principle"><strong>less dependent on norms or authority</strong></a>.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Need-response holds us to a higher standard than mere legal compliance: resolving needs to improve measurable wellness outcomes. Such as reducing anxiety and depression. And enabling more our potential to be reached.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Need-response can inspire us to <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/applied-anankelogy#viewer-2inm"><strong>stretch our comfort zone</strong></a>, to equip us to resolve more needs. So we can courageously endure the discomfort of stepping outside of comforting norms.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Instead of selfishly trying to avoid the mounting pain of our unresolved needs, need-response incentivizes us to honor each other’s needs as our own. The more we step outside of ourselves to meaningfully help others to resolve their needs, the more empowered they are to honor our needs.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">You can call this <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/you-shall-love"><strong>love</strong></a>.</p>
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<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Responding to </strong><em><strong>your</strong></em><strong> needs</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">How does this principle speak to your experience of needs? Post in our <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/forum"><strong>Engagement forum</strong></a> your thoughtful response to one of these:</p>
<ul class="font_8">
  <li><p class="font_8">How can we tell the difference between selfish norm-violating and responsive norm-violating?</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">What do you say about those who get punished by legalists for trying to resolve more needs?</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">How can we measure legalist efforts and responsive wellness efforts?</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">How can you resist the government authorities who enforcing stiflingly anti-wellness norms?</p></li>
</ul>
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G04 Law Principle

It is against the grain of law to fully resolve needs.

Laws remain rather vague to apply widely, often focusing on harm reduction. The more dependent on laws to reduce harm or a perceived threat of harm, the more you become a legalist instead of responsive. You then become less attentive to fully resolving needs. Only by properly resolving each other’s needs can we remove threats of harm. The more you acclimate to laws, public policies and social norms to deliver familiar forms of comfort, the more you resist the more responsive who endure the natural discomforts of fully resolving needs. The more the responsive go beyond minimal standards of law to fully resolve needs, the more legalists push back to protect their familiar pain-avoidant norms.

<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Which do you think is more likely?</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Trust social norms and enforcement by rational authorities to keep our emotions in check.</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">OR</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Resolve our needs more fully to cultivate our emotions to act more properly apart from norms.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Anankelogy</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">While <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/b02-basic-principle"><strong>emotions </strong><em><strong>personally</strong></em><strong> convey needs</strong></a>, laws <em>impersonally</em> convey needs. While emotions alert you to needs from within, laws alert you to needs from without. While emotions draw attention to mostly your own affected needs, laws draw attention mostly to the needs of others.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Apart from needs, there are no human laws. Your needs and my needs create purpose for laws. So let’s focus more on the needs our laws exist to serve.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">The more we rely on laws, the less we get to know each other’s particular needs. We may vainly expect laws to address everything others do that affect us. Then face repeated disappointment.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Need-response aims to complement—or compete if necessary—our overburdened legal institutions. The judiciary and politics were never created to address all of our needs.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Religion and community traditionally covered what the law could not. Modernity upends the central role of religion in many societies. And replaced our sense of local community with normalized alienation. Need-response presents the potential to fill that gap.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Need-response</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">Need-response aims to complement legal institutions, like the judiciary and political institutions. We introduce them to the grounding principle of <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a>. In other words, that <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/a01-foundational-principle"><strong>every need exists as an objective fact</strong></a>.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">We define “need” narrowly with social science rigor. Anankelogically defines need as <em>anything essential for functioning</em>. You require water to exist, so you <em>need</em> water. You don’t require the bottle to hold that water, as you can get it other ways, so this anankelogically not a need, but merely a preference.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Essentially, a “need” is <em>movement to enable functioning</em>. We draft and enforce laws to motivate cooperation for enabling each other’s functioning. Laws tend to serve as external motivators, in contrast to love as the most powerful internal motivator. And that can create a problem.</p>
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<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Reactive Problem</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">The more dependent on laws to convey our needs, the greater the disappointment. Especially when counting on the popular adversarial approach enflaming many of our conflicts.</p>
<ul class="font_8">
  <li><p class="font_8">We impersonally expect others to take full responsibility for their actions, ignoring the context of their limited options.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">We impersonally insist others suppress the emotional intensity of their unmet needs, vainly expecting rationality to hide such uncomfortable realities.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">We impersonally demand others accept our self-affirming generalities, neglecting the nuance shaping each other’s specific needs.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">We impersonally avoid the unpleasant realities of how we affect their inflexible needs, overlooking how unmet needs traps us in pain we keep hoping in vain to avoid.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">We impersonally oppose others in the name of taking a firm stance, unwittingly provoking each other’s defensiveness when compelled to dig in our heels to guard our inflexible needs.</p></li>
</ul>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Our adversarial legal institutions of the judiciary and politics fail to recognize these patterns. While their legalists mean well, they often reinforce conflicts with their adversarial approach. Need-response offers a compelling alternative that can actually lead to more peace and security, by addressing each other’s underlying needs.</p>
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<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Responsive Solution</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">With its more disciplined approach to address <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a> fueling conflicts, need-response raises itself to a higher moral standard than mere law enforcement. To incentivize responsiveness to each other’s inflexible affected needs, need-response introduces <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/response-enforcement-in-7-progressing-steps"><strong>response enforcement</strong></a>.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">As currently envisioned, <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/response-enforcement-in-7-progressing-steps"><strong>response enforcement</strong></a> progresses in seven stages.</p>
<ol class="font_8">
  <li><p class="font_8"><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/response-enforcement-in-7-progressing-steps#3t3d8" target="_self"><strong>Revisit best practices.</strong></a> We look at ethical standards, industry best practices, licensing boards and such. In contrast to the legalist approach, we cultivate a nonadversarial process.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/response-enforcement-in-7-progressing-steps#dmf5t" target="_self"><strong>Exhaust established accountabilities.</strong></a> We also invite any internal accountabilities to responding to affected needs. If unresponsiveness to inflexible needs, we move beyond legalist options.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/response-enforcement-in-7-progressing-steps#6d0mo" target="_self"><strong>Introduce "law-fit".</strong></a><strong> </strong>We tie any cited norm or law to the needs it’s meant to serve. We melt the alienation of impersonal laws.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/response-enforcement-in-7-progressing-steps#43bud" target="_self"><strong>Coordinate civil disobedience</strong></a><strong>. </strong>If still unresponsive to inflexible needs, we attract widening support to defy illicit norms. We challenge impersonal laws to resolve needs as much as need-response can.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/response-enforcement-in-7-progressing-steps#donvm" target="_self"><strong>Escrow tax liabilities</strong></a><strong>. </strong>We put our money where our mouth is. We deposit our tax liabilities into an independent account, automatically released to public coffers when they accountably respond to the public needs they exist to serve.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/response-enforcement-in-7-progressing-steps#8n0d9" target="_self"><strong>Launch a scorn campaign</strong></a><strong>. </strong>We hold all authorities personally and professionally accountable to wellness outcomes. We shun the resistant. We may ostracize the stubborn. And potentially mortify (or count as dead to us) the most violent of illicit authorities.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/response-enforcement-in-7-progressing-steps#qked" target="_self"><strong>Go full on response enforcement</strong></a><strong>. </strong>We must resolve inflexible needs by any proper means necessary. We hold all, including ourselves, to empirically measurable wellness outcomes. If legalists resist such accountability, they lose legitimacy to affect us at all.</p></li>
</ol>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">As Jefferson wrote in the U.S. Declaration of Independence: “Prudence, indeed, will dictate that governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shewn, that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable, than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed.”</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Instead of abolishing any current government or shifting to a new form of governance, need-response positions itself as a competive alternative to legalism. It can either complement or compete with law enforcement. We cannot sit idle as <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/5-elements-of-toxic-legalism"><strong>toxic legalism</strong></a> destroys humanity.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Need-response has yet to test these options. But something like it is desperately needed to fill the gaps exposed by our failing impersonal law-based institutions. Because your <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible personal needs</strong></a> matter much more than flexible impersonal laws.</p>
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<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Responding to </strong><em><strong>your</strong></em><strong> needs</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">How does this principle speak to your experience of needs? Post in our <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/forum"><strong>Engagement forum</strong></a> your thoughtful response to one of these:</p>
<ul class="font_8">
  <li><p class="font_8">We still need laws to preserve law and order, don’t we?</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">Who keeps need-response professionals accountable to affected needs?</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">How can a nonadversarial alternative be more effective than adversarial justice?</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">I can a competitive alternative helping but suspect the powers that be would shut it down.</p></li>
</ul>
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G05 Law Principle

Laws impersonally convey needs.

The less we personally know about the needs of others, the more we rely on impersonal laws to guide our actions toward them. Where emotions personally convey our needs, established norms impersonally convey our needs. Laws are kept vague to apply in various situations, and impersonal to avoid favoritism. Consequently, laws cannot convey our needs as powerfully as our emotions.

<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Which do you think is more likely?</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">You must take a firm stance on every issue so that others don’t take advantage of you.</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">OR</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Only by affirming the inflexible needs on every side of an issue can we find sustainable solutions.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Anankelogy</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">Defensive posturing easily ignites a defensive posture in return. Reacting to injustice with a counter injustice is no justice at all. Hurting those who hurt you ultimately hurts us all. <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/e09-conflict-principle"><strong>The measure applied sets the standard replied</strong></a>.</p>
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<p class="font_8"><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/e02-conflict-principle" target="_self"><strong>Opposing each another's inflexible needs never solves a moral conflict</strong></a>. Such mutual opposition typically perpetuates the conflict, as <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/e10-conflict-principle"><strong>both sides must dig in their heals to guard their accosted wellbeing</strong></a>. Compromise on one or both sides may provide a temporary peace, only to explode later as those ignored painful needs refuse to be ignored.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8"><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/g03-law-principle"><strong>Laws by themselves do not solve conflicts; people do</strong></a><strong> </strong>by how they responsibly address each other’s affected needs. Not by how they oppose each other. That almost always leads to ruin, often privileged by law, yet easily blamed on the other side.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">The adversarial structure of our law-based institutions pulls us toward mutual annihilation. The typical winner in a court or ballot contest gains relief, but no disciplined path toward sustainably resolving their needs. The ignored <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a> of the losing side persist to spur more conflict.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">These adversarial institutions convincingly present themselves as the only available solution to this conundrum. Consequently, we are persuaded to rely more on laws and authorities to provide fleeting relief from these perpetuated conflicts. We overlook how these institutions benefit from keeping us embattled against each other.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Adversarialism incentivizes these institutions to trap us into mutual conflict. To pit us against each other. To divide us. To claim only one side can be right, while the other wrong—overlooking disconfirming nuance. And obscuring the amorality of our <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a>.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">We need an alternative to this battle fatigue. We need something that more effectively addresses our affected needs. We need a visionary new profession that incentivizes greater responsibility to our many neglected <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a>.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Need-response</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">Need-response is that new profession. Instead of serving laws, it serves your needs for which laws exist. <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/f06-authority-principle" target="_self"><strong>Authority proves less necessary where needs can freely resolve</strong></a>.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Instead of pitting us against each other as legalism does, need-response incentivizes each side to <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/engage-1"><strong>engage</strong></a> and honor the inflexible needs of the others. It cultivates our potential to be more <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/you-shall-love"><strong>loving</strong></a><strong> </strong>to each other.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Instead of spurring destructive selfishness as legalism does, need-response draws all sides out of their shells to <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/engage-1"><strong>engage</strong></a><strong> </strong>and honor each other’s needs. It’s set to redirect self-interest into shared interests.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Instead of hiding behind rational arguments as legalism does, need-response cultivates a shared environment of <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/engage-2"><strong>mutual engagement</strong></a>, where each can safely drop their guard and vulnerably know each other and themselves.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Reactive Problem</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">Law-based adversarial systems easily pull us into opposing each other’s <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a>. This spurs what anankelogy identifies as <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-89tlg"><strong>oppo culture</strong></a>, which normalizes opposing each other in ways that squander our potential to be more loving to each other.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Opposing another’s errors is one thing, but opposing their <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a> is a greater error. Since <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/a01-foundational-principle"><strong>every need exists as an objective fact</strong></a>, it is <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/nine-examples-of-anankelogically-objective-morality"><strong>objectively wrong</strong></a> to oppose such needs.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Legalism privileges you to rely on generalizations. You then overlook the specifics essential to resolve needs. What seems right can actually be wrong, protected by law.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Legalism privileges you to avoid the natural discomforts of resolving needs. It offers pain relief, which guarantees more pain as the unaddressed needs trigger more pain. What you trust to relieve your pain seems totally right, but is actually wrong while protected by law.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Legalism privileges you to oppose each other’s <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a>. This surely triggers their defensiveness, which then provokes yours. You insist you’re right to protect yourself as is your legal right, but you ultimately suffer in ways protected by law.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">The further both sides overgeneralize to avoid uncomfortable specifics of each other’s needs, each tends to believe their pain-easing norms represents the defensible truth. Both sides are wrong when insisting they are right.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Both sides can end up believing and pursuing the opposite of what is true and have it backed up law. The Old Testament prophet Isaiah identifies this “moral inversion” (Is. 5:20 NIV): “Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter.”</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">If you take a political stance so extreme that you oppose another’s inflexible need as your “right”, then you are wrong. If you seek to win an adjudicated conflict by opposing another side’s inflexible need as your legal right, you are wrong. When both sides oppose the other’s inflexible need under <a href="https://www.law.cornell.edu/wex/color_of_law"><strong>color of law</strong></a>, both sides are wrong.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">But politics and the judiciary encourage you to be wrong. Two wrongs don’t make a right, but they sure can be privileged by some law. And more laws get created to keep both trapped in such conflicts, to keep them relying on legalism to cope with the grinding pain that it helps create.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Tragically, the more we get sucked into this morass, the less likely we can see it for what is honestly is: a self-destructive form of legalism. If this is all we know, and depend upon it for protection, we easily latch onto it even as it costs us from reaching our higher potential.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Responsive Solution</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">Need-response counters such <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/5-elements-of-toxic-legalism"><strong>toxic legalism</strong></a> by emphasizing <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a> over flexible laws. It tries to this in at least three ways.</p>
<ol class="font_8">
  <li><p class="font_8"><strong>Degeneralize</strong>, to get to relevant specifics to resolve <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a>. Does a legalist approach overgeneralize? Or get to relevant specifics of the affected needs?</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><strong>Dealienate</strong>, to engage each other’s identified <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a>. Does an applied legalist approach evade discomfort? Or willingly engage others no matter how unpleasantly challenging?</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><strong>Depolarize</strong>, to mutually understand and support resolving each other’s <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a>. Does the tried legalist approach instantly take sides? Or affirm <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a> before questioning how they’re addressed?</p></li>
</ol>
<p class="font_8">Need-response asserts the higher authority of properly resolving needs in <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/you-shall-love"><strong>love</strong></a>. We can improve our wellness the more honor the needs of others as our own, to incentivize more resolved needs. <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/f03-authority-principle"><strong>Laws exist to serve our inflexible needs, not legalist institutions</strong></a>.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Need-response holds itself accountable to <em>improving measurable wellness outcomes</em>. All legalist systems lack such accountability. Psychotherapy tends to perform better, but in the name of personal agency it routinely overlooks external contributors to poor wellness outcomes.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">If impeding our attempts to properly resolve needs under privilege of law, we hold such legal authorities and psychotherapeutic authorities to the same level of accountability. Or we must insist they step aside—or coordinate their efforts with ours—to resolve needs to improve wellness outcomes, for which laws exist to serve.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Wellness outcomes from resolving needs matters more than laws. <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/5-elements-of-toxic-legalism"><strong>Toxic legalism</strong></a> is <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/relativizing-right-and-wrong-is-empirically-wrong"><strong>empirically wrong</strong></a>. Two or more legally privileged wrongs will never make things right. What can make things right is a more loving approach that results in more fully resolving needs, resulting in greater levels of measurable wellness.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Responding to </strong><em><strong>your</strong></em><strong> needs</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">How does this principle speak to your experience of needs? Post in our <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/forum"><strong>Engagement forum</strong></a> your thoughtful response to one of these:</p>
<ul class="font_8">
  <li><p class="font_8">Who or what keeps these need-responders accountable to prioritizing <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a>?</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">Conflicts tend to emphasize some needs while ignoring others, with or without laws.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">I cannot envision a society where the rule of law is not paramount.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">Not all legalism is toxic, right? There must be some good to emphasizing the role of law.</p></li>
</ul>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Instead of selecting one of these, post your own engagement feedback about your experience with the subject of this principle. Remember the aim is to improve our responsiveness to each other’s needs, toward their full resolution. If you’re new at posting here, first check the guide below.</p>

G06 Law Principle

Two wrongs don’t make a right, but sometimes they make a law.

The more both sides to a policy debate resort to generalizing, the less both sides address what either side specifically needs. Messy political processes often produce compromise that disappoint both sides. Adversarial justice does little to address the specific needs fueling adjudicated conflicts. Neither adjudicated or political side can fully resolve their affected needs. Or remove their pain. Or fully function. The results often help the norm enforcers more than those these norms exist to serve. You can be legally right, and still be empirically wrong. Which legally privileges damaging wellness outcomes.

<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Which do you think is more likely?</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">The higher standard to love one another is merely an aspirational ideal that no one actually meets.</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">OR</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Loving others simply requires the bold step to honor another’s needs on par or more than our own.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Anankelogy</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">Here is where we explore this principle in relation to academic anankelogy. For now, this serves as placeholder text. When I find the time, I will post the full deal here.</p>
<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Need-response</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">Need-response positions itself as the only profession to prioritize platonic love over laws, over medical or cognitive processes, or over anything unable to promise <em>measurably improved wellness outcomes</em>.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">With the safe generalization of love, we can peel back the popular myth of <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-380l0"><strong>popgen</strong></a><strong> </strong>self-interest. You can replace its inclination toward rationalized selfishness with <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/engage-affirm-each-other-s-unchosen-needs"><strong>mutual regard</strong></a> for each other’s affected needs. You can replace its inclination toward rationalized self-righteousness with humbling get to know how each other impacts one another’s <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a>.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Legalism spurs you to generalize. It prompts you to cling to your assumptions as defensible facts. Which easily pulls you down into painful falsehoods. And trap you in dark caverns of myopia.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Love inspires you to be specific. It encourages you to use your initial generalizations as stepping stones to relevant nuance. To step beyond fleeting concerns to see the big picture and embrace the deeper value of us all.</p>
<p class="font_8">Anankelogy recognizes a range from a healthy kind of generalizing to a deeply problematic kind.</p>
<ul class="font_8">
  <li><p class="font_8"><strong>provisional generalizing</strong> – when you recognize your generalities include unidentified specifics, ready to replace them with applicable specifics.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><strong>popular generalizing </strong>(popgen) – when you accept popular generalities as fact, ignoring any disconfirming specifics and rationalizing exceptions to what’s apparently widely supported.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><strong>relief-generalizing </strong>(relief-gen) – when your trusted generalities crystallize into hardened beliefs you rely upon to relieve you of the pain of your unmet needs, trapping you in pain.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><strong>oversimplification</strong> – when you extremely exaggerate, often to the point of believing as indisputable fact the oppositive of what is accurately true.</p></li>
</ul>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">The more you anchor your trusted generalities to the steadfast generalization that all lives possess innate value, the easier it can be to transition from questionable generalities to relevant specifics to more fully resolve needs.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Reactive Problem</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">The less your needs resolve, the more drawn to relying on questionable generalizing to cope. Your ability function starts going down. You go from what anankelogy calls “peakfunction” to “symfunction” that compromises your wellness.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">The less you can function (i.e., the less well you are), the more you opt for alternative that partially eases your needs. Whenever what you specifically need cannot be accessed, you settle for the next best thing. You then slide into what anankelogy identifies as “<a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/3-stages-of-slipping-into-symfunction-capture"><strong>symfunction capture</strong></a>” in three gradual steps.</p>
<ol class="font_8">
  <li><p class="font_8"><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/3-stages-of-slipping-into-symfunction-capture#viewer-3t3d8"><strong>Symfunction creep</strong></a>: you go from fully resolving all needs to partially easing some needs.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/3-stages-of-slipping-into-symfunction-capture#viewer-dmf5t"><strong>Symfunction strain</strong></a>: you go from partially easing some needs to partially easing most needs.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/3-stages-of-slipping-into-symfunction-capture#viewer-6d0mo"><strong>Symfunction trap</strong></a>: you go from partially easing most needs to fully resolving only a few needs.</p></li>
</ol>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">This slippery slope helps to explain how many of us suffer <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/3-stages-of-slipping-into-symfunction-capture#viewer-43bud"><strong>dysfunction</strong></a>. The less your needs can resolve, the more they alert you with emotional and physical pain to compel your attention. We often cope by trusting comforting generalities.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">When we can full function because our needs resolve more fully, we can recognize most generalities include unseen specifics affecting our lives. As we lose our capacity to function fully because of fewer resolved needs and mounting pain, we start accepting watered down versions as fact.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">These things must be true, we tell ourselves, so I can avoid further suffering. But the more we cling to our generalizations and miss relevant specifics to resolve our needs, the further we stay in pain of our unresolved needs. It becomes harder to recognize and affirm the innate value of all life when losing confidence in our own value if tied to our ability to function.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Responsive Solution</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">Affirming the innate value of another has a way of pulling you out of your shell. When consumed with agony from feeling overwhelmed by your own unmet needs, try doing what you can for what someone else may need. No matter how small. You may find the results refreshingly liberating.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">You may not have the specifics necessary to make any significant impact. But starting with the generalization that they are worthy of your attention and care brings out the best of humanity. Their appreciation can do wonders for taking a weight off your shoulders.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Need-response instills this discipline to first generalize the worthiness of others before trying to call attention to your own. You address others using a format of positive-negative-positive.</p>
<ul class="font_8">
  <li><p class="font_8">Positive: You <strong>a</strong>ffirm the inflexible needs of the other.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">Negative: You <strong>b</strong>ring up how their actions affect your needs.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">Positive: You <strong>c</strong>lose by pledging to continue this good faith mutual approach.</p></li>
</ul>
<p class="font_8">You generalize in both senses of the word.</p>
<ol class="font_8">
  <li><p class="font_8">You keep it on the simple side. Skip any complexities. If relevant, save those for later.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">You apply to another what you apply to all. You apply it to yourself. You show you’re fair.</p></li>
</ol>
<p class="font_8">You let the power of love open doors and solve more problems. To resolve more needs. To remove more pain. To restore more wellness. Let <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/you-shall-love"><strong>love</strong></a>serve as your safest generality.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Responding to </strong><em><strong>your</strong></em><strong> needs</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">How does this principle speak to your experience of needs? Post in our <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/forum"><strong>Engagement forum</strong></a> your thoughtful response to one of these:</p>
<ul class="font_8">
  <li><p class="font_8">Not everyone is receptive to my bold offers of kindness, and some mysteriously react in anger.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">I find it very increasingly difficult to love those who seem unable to honestly love themselves.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">Life is complicated, so I have to start with my trusted generalizations just to get by.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">Who’s to say what is a relevant detail and what’s just to distract from what truly matters?</p></li>
</ul>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Instead of selecting one of these, post your own engagement feedback about your experience with the subject of this principle. Remember the aim is to improve our responsiveness to each other’s needs, toward their full resolution. If you’re new at posting here, first check the guide below.</p>

H01 Love Principle

Your safest generalization is to love.

Our understanding of anything naturally begins with a generalized overview. Then we drill down to specifics the more relevant to our needs. Or we latch onto comforting generalizations to ease the pain of our unmet needs. We then trust unsafe generalizations, which dodges the specifics essential to resolve our needs and remove our pain. Love liberates us. Love upholds your innate value to fully resolve your needs. Love inspires us to honor the needs of others as our own. Love remains your go-to generalization to thrive.

<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Which do you value more in your life right now?</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Being smart.</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">OR</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Being loved.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Anankelogy</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">Anankelogy introduces <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-css6a"><strong>social love</strong></a>. That’s the <em>act of prioritizing a proper response to another's need as being as important or more important than your own need(s)</em>. Whether you feel like it or not. This can inspire others to respond better to your needs.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">You affirm another’s need, independent of your feelings. And independent of their emotional reaction. They could be resentful toward you, even hostile, but you still take the bold step to identify and address their inflexible need or needs.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">You leave rationality out of it for now, because needs exist independent of rationality. Rationality or intellect applies best for how we respond to any need. Not to the inflexible need itself.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Your emotions convey your needs with little regard for reasoning. And the more threatened you feel, the more intense your emotions. While challenging, you can dispassionately respect another even while feeling disrespected. It’s a worthy discipline.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">While feeling upset, you can still affirm their needs. You could still feel a bit defensive at the time. You give them reason to drop your guard. You show them you’re not so hostile toward the needs they cannot change. You cultivate trustworthiness to be somewhat more honest, a little more vulnerable, a bit more exposed.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">You drop any rational arguing that no longer serves you in this moment. You shift gears. You switch from appealing to reason to appealing to their potential to be more loving, more empathetic, more gracious, more understanding, and more patient.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">You do the same for them, to encourage them to drop their rational arguments. To give them the confidence to no longer hide behind reasoning. You reach deeper to show how much you care about the inflexible needs inside them that require not reasoned defenses; they simply are.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">The power of this <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-css6a"><strong>social love</strong></a> can break down barriers, heal emotional wounds, respect the unseen impacts of trauma, and draw out more of humanity and potential to be more loving to each other. No reasoned arguing or rational decision-making proves necessary.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Need-response</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">Emotions get a bad rap when acting upon our more intense emotions. But the bulk of your emotions guide your daily routines. They rarely lead you astray, as your emotions report what satisfactorily worked before.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Your emotions effectively convey your needs moment by moment in your routine situations. When an unmet need compels your emotions to urgently do something, you may regret the decision. You wish you took a little more time to consider your options. You wish you would’ve been more rational.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Rational decision-making applies more to novel situations than those routine situations we face minute by minute each day. For example, you rarely make purely rational choices when driving to work each day.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">You typically get to work on automatic pilot, following your gut instincts. Your emotions get you there because you can trust your emotions to report how to safely get you to work following the same effective routine as every day before.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Rational thinking kicks in when you must take a detour. You then have to focus more and make a decision on a different option.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Rationality emerges as important in a modern society rich with novel situations. But most of our decision-making has less to do with rational choices than optional choices.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">If we see no option to fully resolve a need, we opt for the next available thing—automatically. Usually with little if any reflection. And often with little if any bad consequences. We ride with our instincts on what seemed sufficiently satisfactory as before.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Reactive Problem</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">Modernity presents many novel situations. What worked before suddenly applies poorly in many of the new situations we face. We now must stop and think about it more often. And handle the regret when past gut reactions lead to frequent trouble.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Our propensity to keep things manageably simple spurs us to generalize. So we emotionalize our rational thinking. We give rise to <a href="https://www.dalal.org.uk/Introductory%20Chapter%20to%20CBT.pdf"><strong>hyperrationality</strong></a>, which ascribes socially plausible reasons for our need-driven emotions.</p>
<p class="font_8">Then we cling to this idea that people are easily persuaded by <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disinformation"><strong>disinformation</strong></a><strong> </strong>and <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misinformation"><strong>misinformation</strong></a>, or even <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Malinformation"><strong>malinformation</strong></a>. That itself is misinformation, or perhaps disinformation, or maybe even malinformation.</p>
<ul class="font_8">
  <li><p class="font_8"><strong>misinformation</strong> = false information <em><strong>not intended</strong></em> to harm or manipulate</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><strong>disinformation</strong> = false information <em><strong>is intended</strong></em> to harm or manipulate</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8"><strong>malinformation</strong> = true information out of context <em><strong>intended</strong></em> to harm or manipulate</p></li>
</ul>
<p class="font_8">Such hyperrational thinking ignores the deeper more vulnerable truth of our needs. Actually, we are less persuaded by the information itself and more by what in it that seems most responsive to our needs. Focusing on the information alone easily feeds the problem of hyperrationality that ignores our vulnerable needs. But who benefits?</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Who gains by selfishly denying our underserved needs in ways that fuel our desire to spread compelling narratives? To whose advantage do we normalize selfishness and self-righteousness as rationally good? Who profits the most when overrating rationalities while undercutting our potential to be more understanding and loving toward each other?</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Or put another way, which powers that be could be most threatened if we resolved more of our needs? Who’s incentivized to thwart us from responding more effectively to one another’s vulnerable needs?</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Responsive Solution</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">It doesn’t take a genius to spread warmth with a caring smile. All our expectations of intellectual prowess easily miss the greater potential for our deeper human connections with each other.</p>
<p class="font_8"><br></p>
<p class="font_8">Yes, intellect matters. But intellect alone does not keep families and communities meaningfully together. The deeper qualities of life that holds us together costs little in rational capital. The young exuberant child with a learning disability, for example, can spread far more love than the cold professor too preoccupied to warmly smile at his anxious students.</p>
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<p class="font_8"><a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/you-shall-love"><strong>Love</strong></a><strong> </strong>can resolve far more needs than mere intellect. Anankelogy recognizes <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/20-character-refunctions-restoring-wellness#viewer-uoocz379478"><strong>love</strong></a><strong> </strong>as a <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/20-character-refunctions-restoring-wellness"><strong>character refunction</strong></a> along with other noble responses like <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/20-character-refunctions-restoring-wellness#viewer-2uctl13360"><strong>gratitude</strong></a>, <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/20-character-refunctions-restoring-wellness#viewer-ei270375446"><strong>grace</strong></a>, <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/20-character-refunctions-restoring-wellness#viewer-ic16m377974"><strong>resilience</strong></a>, <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/20-character-refunctions-restoring-wellness#viewer-34f4e379465"><strong>empathy</strong></a><strong> </strong>and <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/20-character-refunctions-restoring-wellness#viewer-gmbo6379423"><strong>patience</strong></a><strong>.</strong>It doesn’t require deep knowledge to thank others, to try to understand others more, or to be patient with them. It simply demands more love of honoring the needs of other as our own.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Yes, having intelligence for how to think about our needs is good. Having wisdom for how to respond to our needs is much better. Having love to uplift our potential to resolve each other’s needs is unbeatable.</p>
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<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Responding to </strong><em><strong>your</strong></em><strong> needs</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">How does this principle speak to your experience of needs? Post in our <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/forum"><strong>Engagement forum</strong></a> your thoughtful response to one of these:</p>
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  <li><p class="font_8">I find it easier to love others once I know at least one personal unconditionally loves me.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">What some people call love seems more like appreciation, or desire, but not actual love.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">I still value good reasoning over feigned love, but I get the point.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">I sense social pressures pull us to value rationality more than our personal views about it.</p></li>
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H02 Love Principle

Intellect is overrated where love is underperformed.

When confronted with something that hits close to home, it’s easy to then intellectualize it. To avoid discomfort of being vulnerable to others, we often prioritize rational knowledge over the less rational and messy side of being fully human. But flip the script. Go beyond trying to intellectually understand the things we do by trying to better understand each other. Then observe the power of love do some amazing things.

<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Which do you think is more likely?</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">Since no one is above the law, we all must submit to every authority.</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">OR</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center">The ultimate authority stems from being able to function well enough to respect each other.</p>
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<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Anankelogy</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">The more your needs fully resolve, the less of any role authority plays in your life. When <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/glossary#viewer-css6a"><strong>social</strong> <strong>love</strong></a> incentivizes you to respect the needs of others in ways inspiring them to respect yours, you fulfill the purpose of authority.</p>
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<p class="font_8">You model a greater authority. The more your internal motivation of love enables you to fully function, the less you require any external motivating pressure of authority.</p>
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<p class="font_8"><a href="https://socialsci.libretexts.org/Bookshelves/Sociology/Introduction_to_Sociology/Sociology_(Boundless)/15%3A_Government/15.01%3A_Politics_Power_and_Authority/15.1F%3A_Rational-Legal_Authority"><strong>Rational-legal authority</strong></a> typically assumes an <a href="https://dictionary.apa.org/extrinsic-motivation"><strong>extrinsic motivation</strong></a>. You’re expected to respect the requirements of law out of fear of punishment if you don’t.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Once drawn to a situation, authorities typically doubt your respect for needs that laws exist to serve. If they must get involved and you’re assumed to violate some rule, then you must deserve some kind of harsh treatment to motivate your conformity to law and order.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Consequently, law enforcement typically overlooks <a href="https://hbr.org/2023/03/understand-the-power-of-intrinsic-motivation"><strong>intrinsic</strong></a><strong> </strong><a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5364176/"><strong>motivations</strong></a>. Such authorities generally presume that you only respect the needs of others if facing a reprimand. Such a presumption gets baked into law enforcement culture. Which easily blinds them from your intrinsic love-incentivizing motive to treat the needs of others as your own.</p>
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<h2 class="font_2"><strong>Need-response</strong></h2>
<p class="font_8">Need-response seeks and encourages <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/need-responders"><strong>need-responders</strong></a><strong> </strong>with a love-inspired intrinsic motivation to more fully resolve needs. Especially among lawyers and counselors disillusioned by the shortcomings of law-based and psychological-based services and institutions.</p>
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<p class="font_8">If you’re motivated more from a platonic love to honor the needs of others as your own, you’re naturally less concerned about minutia of laws or arbitrary demands of authorities. You see beyond mere cognitive processes or social order.</p>
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<p class="font_8">You habitually fulfill the purpose of laws—which is to serve needs—by how you routinely and properly respect the needs at hand. The purpose of authorities then gets intrinsically fulfilled.</p>
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<p class="font_8">With intrinsic motivation of your love, you likely rise above the minimal standards of law. You stretch beyond the law’s emphasis on harm reduction to resolve unmet needs that cause harm. You intuitively realize how resolving needs more fully removes cause for harm.</p>
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<p class="font_8">The more incentivized by love, the more compelled to transcend those social norms that limit full human potential. If necessary, you risk transgressing some social taboos to properly resolve needs. You may even be willing to risk jail to stand up for a cause of systemically overlooked needs. Love compels you to a higher standard than mere law and order.</p>
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<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Reactive Problem</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">Shortsighted authorities abound. <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confirmation_bias"><strong>Confirmation bias</strong></a><strong> </strong>and <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tunnel_vision_(metaphor)"><strong>tunnel vision</strong></a> easily blinds them to their own projected <a href="https://www.scu.edu/government-ethics/resources/what-is-government-ethics/the-personal-lives-of-public-officials/"><strong>ethical issues</strong></a>, projected <a href="https://bigthink.com/the-present/moral-failings-of-leaders-collapsed-even-the-best-societies-finds-study/"><strong>moral failings</strong></a>, projected <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_cognitive_biases"><strong>cognitive biases</strong></a>, projected <a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-practice/201301/50-common-cognitive-distortions"><strong>cognitive</strong></a><strong> </strong><a href="https://www.jamesfitzgeraldtherapy.com/cognitive-distortions-list/"><strong>distortions</strong></a>, project <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_fallacies"><strong>logical</strong></a><strong> </strong><a href="https://utminers.utep.edu/omwilliamson/engl1311/fallacies.htm"><strong>fallacies</strong></a>, and their own projected <a href="https://www.growthtactics.net/extrinsic-motivation-examples/"><strong>extrinsic</strong></a><strong> </strong><a href="https://www.undp.org/sites/g/files/zskgke326/files/publications/GPCSE_PSM.pdf"><strong>motivations</strong></a>.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Nature compels balance wherever imbalance creeps in. The more a society slides toward imposing social norms, the more nature compels some within that society to counter such repressive norms. They find some proactive way to respond more effectively to the needs those norms exist to serve. Wellness compels it.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Shortsighted authorities may easily misinterpret these norm-defiers as lawbreakers, and totally miss their higher commitment to transcend imposing norms to directly serve our needs. Instead of appreciating the deeper love motivating this fulfillment of law’s purpose to serve needs, such authorities may seek to punish such need-serving nonconformists, to coerce them into line as they expect others would force them into fearful conformity.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Their rush to squash need-serving nonconformists blatantly squanders the human capital to develop more of our full human potential. The <a href="https://www.lawfaremedia.org/article/julian-assange-to-plead-guilty-to-violating-espionage-act"><strong>lawfare against Julian Assange</strong></a> despite the <a href="https://www.lawfaremedia.org/article/no-evidence-assange-induced-manning-leak"><strong>lack of evidence that he ever induced Chelsea Manning to leak</strong></a> provides a clear example, after he helped alert us to <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States_war_crimes#War_on_Terror"><strong>U.S. war atrocities in the Iraq</strong></a>. <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/principles-1/g04-law-principle"><strong>Fully resolving needs often goes against the grain of law</strong></a>.</p>
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<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Responsive Solution</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">Anankelogy recognizes many need-serving nonconformists as “<a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/steph"><strong>transspirits</strong></a>”. I am one. A transspirit intuitively transcends divisive social norms to connect at a deeper level, to resolve needs. Even if resisted by the authorities.</p>
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<p class="font_8">History provides many examples. Dr. King. Ghandi. Saint Paul. Jesus, Siddhartha Gautama, Lao Tzu, Hillel the Elder, and many more. Each transcended established norms to connect deeper with life, to address needs more fully and directly. Even if risking retribution from the authorities.</p>
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<p class="font_8">As Jesus put it in Matthew 5:27: “I did not come to abolish the law but to fulfill it.” To properly resolve the <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/inflexible-needs"><strong>inflexible needs</strong></a> which laws exist to serve presents as a greater authority than merely complying with arbitrary social norms. To resolve needs incentivized by love works far more effectively than placating authorities out of fear of possible punishment.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Such <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/steph"><strong>transspirituality</strong></a><strong> </strong>prioritizes</p>
<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center"><em>love</em> to resolve needs that supports improving wellness</p>
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<p class="font_8" style="text-align: center"><em>law</em> to relieve pain that risks perpetuating unwellness.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Need-response asserts the higher effective authority of such transspirits, of those mastering love over laws. It assesses authorities’ responsiveness to our needs. It accredits authorities with “<a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/engage-1/"><strong>earned legitimacy</strong></a>” when their impact results in <em>improve wellness outcomes</em> among their constituents.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Need-response empirically rates any involved authorities at the lowest level of <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/engage-1"><strong>earned legitimacy</strong></a>, which is <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/post/engage-2#viewer-donvm"><strong>offensive illegitimacy</strong></a>. If processed in a <em><strong>need-response action</strong></em>, this could warrant a more severe <em><strong>response enforcement</strong></em>.</p>
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<p class="font_8">Any self-righteous reaction, no matter how violent or nonviolent, can be deemed as <em><strong>validation</strong></em> of <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/need-responders"><strong>need-responders</strong></a><strong> </strong>dedicated bravery to resolve needs over power-hungry self-serving authorities lacking legitimacy to impact the public.</p>
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<p class="font_8">By sharp contrast, the <em>transspirit</em> seeks to properly resolve needs with love. Properly means they make sure resolving one set of needs does not negatively impact other needs. Love means they honor the needs of others as if they were their own needs—recognizing we are all connected, so the needs of others ultimately are their own needs.</p>
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<p class="font_8">In short, there is no greater human authority than properly resolving needs with love.</p>
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<h3 class="font_3"><strong>Responding to </strong><em><strong>your</strong></em><strong> needs</strong></h3>
<p class="font_8">How does this principle speak to your experience of needs? Post in our <a href="https://www.anankelogyfoundation.org/forum"><strong>Engagement forum</strong></a> your thoughtful response to one of these:</p>
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  <li><p class="font_8">The more I try to respect others, the more some offensively disrespect me.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">While some authorities may indeed by shortsighted, I hate to be in a world without authorities.</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">How can I tell the difference between a need-serving nonconformists and a selfish lawbreaker?</p></li>
  <li><p class="font_8">I’d like to see how this works for others and the reactions they get before I stick my neck out.</p></li>
</ul>
<p class="font_8">Instead of selecting one of these, post your own engagement feedback about your experience with the subject of this principle. Remember the aim is to improve our responsiveness to each other’s needs, toward their full resolution. If you’re new at posting here, first check the guide below.</p>

H03 Love Principle

There is no greater human authority than resolving needs with love.

The more you can effectively resolve your needs while supporting others to resolve theirs, the less cause for human authority to intervene. Such authorities typically emerge to address those needs not already resolved. The more you can stay atop of your needs, while engaging and supporting others to resolve their needs, you negate the role of impersonal authorities in your life.

A-Foundational
B-Basic
C-General
D-Pain
E-Conflict
F-Authority
G-Law
H-Love
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