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Donate a gift to help grow this vision. Help us provide free tools to support each other's wellness needs. Receive weekly updates on how it's helping others. Donate Now Help grow this vision First name Last name Email Donate in the name of Enter the amount you wish to pay: $ Help grow this vision Facebook X (Twitter) WhatsApp LinkedIn Pinterest Copy link No one should have to pay to solve a problem created by others. Invest in spreading love Choose your own amount to help the Anankelogy Foundation build this vision for a better world. Help grow this vision to provide free tools to incentivize supporting each other's wellness needs. You automatically receive updates on the latest use of these tools. Let them inspire you to try one yourself. Opt out at any time. See our privacy policy . Help spread some love. Our free services No one should have to pay to solve a pressing problem created by others. Especially if paying for a legal or psychological solution that actually solves little. Consider these examples. A counseling client pays for therapy out of pocket to get help coping with her frequently irate and coercive boss. She learns self-help techniques to not personalize her boss's tirades. A tenant hires a lawyer to compel their landlord to fix a leaky roof in time before the next rainstorm. After the tardy repairs, they receive notice that their rent will soon increase. A wrongly convicted innocent burns up his retirement fund to hire an attorney to help him appeal his case in federal court. The court denies review on technical grounds. Now consider these more effective alternatives, f ree to the suffers. The worker addresses their problematic boss with our mutually supportive "Professionally Responsive" interactive messaging tool. She incentivizes her boss to invest in her productivity by being more supportive of her overlooked needs. Win-win. The tenant challenges a gap in the law using our "Powerfully Responsive" messaging tool. They inspire lawmakers to relate better to the actual impact of their authority. They learn how to improve laws to serve needs. Win-win. The innocence claimant flips the script on adversarial justice by using our "Responsive Innocence" tool. He identifies the needs of the those who falsely accused him. He directly addresses the needs for which laws exist to serve, and invites the courts to do the same. Now adversarialism itself faces accusation. But is offered understanding and compassion, to model to judicial officials how to they can improve their legitimacy. Win-win. Nothing is literally free, of course. These tools cost someone to mak e them. Namely me, Steph Turner, the founder of anankelogy and of need-response. And these merely touch on a few. Direct services, like online support for how to best use the tools, also comes with a price. Eventually, powerholders who benefit from this more amicable alternative are to carry more of the costs. You can help grow this pioneering approach for improving wellness. With your gift, we can continue developing this process of mutually addressing each other's affected needs. Thank you for helping me to ultimately help you. Our current needs Everything must start start somewhere. And sometimes start over. Repeatedly, if necessary. But it may not get far without your help. Viability If this works Before committing myself to establishing a nonprofit organization, I am market testing this alternative service. Pitch It Not another nonprofit Once it gains traction, I aim to partner with a more established nonprofit. And perhaps invite them to take it over. Catch-22 Stuck in limbo While I have a MPA with an emphasis in nonprofit management, I cannot escape the many paradoxes holding me back. Your Support Back to viability Your donation will help demonstrate the viability of the vision. Then I can pitch it to others who can make it more of a reality. What people say Tyler Simmons, renter Hit a wall dealing with my landlord until I tried this alternative. Much better responses when I showed how I cared as much about their needs as my own. Don Walker, business owner We created a much better outcome than settling a lawsuit. If I ever get sued again, I will have to reefer the complainant to this more amicable alternative. Simone, activist This proved to be a much more effective way to get lawyers to address our legal needs. I strongly recommend this need-response to anyone.

Who is Steph Turner? What does Steph do" And can Steph do anything for me? Why trust Steph? The world's first anankelogist and professional need-responder. I aim to earn your trust by offering you a way to understand your needs like never before . Who I Am I am a transspirit. I am spiritually compelled to transcend divisive categories. This compels me to connect more deeply with all life. I intuitively recognize that whatever I do to others I ultimately do to myself. My indigenous heritage informs me how we are all deeply connected in the web of life. And I am spiritually gifted with wisdom. I am a spiritual conduit for profound insights. I humbly receive deep understanding about our needs, which you cannot find anywhere else. In ways I cannot adequately explain, anankelogy comes from somewhere beyond. What I Do I create tools to help you resolve needs. Check out responsivism to find a tool that can serve you. I also write on Medium to share anankelogy to the world. This includes sharing the application of anankelogy in the new envisioned profession of need-response. What I Can Do For You I can help you better understand your own needs. And to appreciate the needs of others. I can help you resolve more needs, remove more pain, and restore more wellness. How? Click on the upper right button "New? Start here!" to start your responsive journey. Welcome aboard! Steph's project portfolio Go to portfolio

Wellness campaign A wellness campaign is an organized program to enable the relatively powerless to speak truth to power, while incentivizing the powerful to listen to those they powerfully impact. The campaign builds momentum in five phases. Its revolutionary design can offer you more hope to resolve needs more effectively than other available options. Maybe a wellness campaign can serve your needs better than other standard options. Compared to psychotherapy or legal advise, a wellness campaign can address the neglected needs driving all of our problems . To be sure, there is a place for psychotherapy and for getting legal advise. These can support a full wellness campaign. These standard options are designed to address personal problems or interpersonal conflicts. Politics was designed to address structural problems, but has become a structural problem. So why not try a service trying to solve all levels of human problems ? Personal problems : should be able to solve on your own with a little help. Interpersonal problems : solvable with some cooperation with the other. Power problems : solvable by those in positions of authority or "power". Structural problems : solvable by transforming obstructive social norms. A wellness campaign is designed to address each level of human problems in its progressing five phases. Five phases of your wellness campaign and the problem level addressed by each phase of the campaign 1. BASE phase : build your foundation start addressing pe rsonal problems 2. ALLY phase : onboard your partner start add ressing interper sonal problems 3. TEAM phase : onboard peer support continue addressing interpe rsonal problems 4. GROW phase : onboard the influentia l start addressing power problems 5. GOAL phase : speak truth to power start addressing structural problems 1 Your BASE phase Your wellness campaign begins with your professional need-responder laying down a firm foundation with you. At this early stage, you work with your professional need-responder one-on-one. 2 Your ALLY phase Your wellness campaign typically builds with a strong ally at your side. You identify the ally you can trust to speak on your behalf, and can make decisions in your absence. You can usually skip this phase. 3 Your TEAM phase Your wellness campaign builds significant momentum as you cultivate peer support. Instead of assumed privacy of the therapist-client or attorney-client relationship, you invite others you know to invest in your wellness goals. 4 Your GROW phase Your wellness campaign grows legs as it onboards those with significant influence and resources to help you reach your goals. You develop the skills to inspire the influential to mutually resolve needs with the power of love. 5 Your GOAL phase Your wellness campaign reaches its zenith when you can freely resolve your wellness needs with growing support. You incentivize those who powerfully impact your needs to earn legitimacy by enabling positive results for all. All programs Exoneration Services Wellness Initiative Anankelogy Need-Responder development No available programs The programs of five phases will be listed here when available. 0. Wellness preview BASE phase ALLY phase TEAM phase GROW phase GOAL phase What's involved in this five-phased program? Click this button below to discover the details that go into each phase. Five phases of your wellness campaign Start or join a wellness campaign Campaigner : starts a campaign Where psychotherapy offers you treatment and lawyers offer you legal assistance, need-response offers you a wellne ss campaign . You identify how institutions and their powerholders poorly serve your needs. You counter not by adjusting to what you cannot change nor by challenging them directly bu t by reaching out to them to identify and respect their needs, as you would have them respect your needs. Patron, supporter, or follow er : join a campaign Or you can join a wellness campaign already started by a campaigner . You can patronize the campaign with your direct support and engagement. Or you can support the campaign with less involvement. Or you can follow the campaign by receiving regular updates. Instead of leading the way to spread this new kind of professional love of mutually respecting needs, you can help spur this campaign with your mutual support. Campaigner Patron Supporter Follower Ready to start your adventurous journey? Whether a campaigner or patron or supporter , here is where we can all meet together online. Public Exoneration $ 199.99 199.99$ Every month Solve your stubborn problem of overlooked innocence by mutually resolving needs 30 day free trial Start Free Trial Grow your “responsive reputation” with love Learn to speak truth to power with courage See how to resolve conflicts with mutual respect Resolve more of your needs Remove more of your pain Reach more of your potential Receive growing support to solve a major problem Lead a team creating transformative change WC Contributor $ 24.99 24.99$ Every week Invest in campaigner's success 7 day free trial Start Free Trial Grow your “responsive reputation” with love Learn to speak truth to power with courage See how to resolve conflicts with mutual respect Resolve needs, remove pain, & raise potential See how a campaign can serve you Receive regular campaign updates Join weekly online session Give input on campaign decisions Vote on campaign decisions Follow along in online program WC Supporter $ 7.49 7.49$ Every week Invest in campaigner's goal 7 day free trial Start Free Trial Grow your “responsive reputation” with love Learn to speak truth to power with courage See how to resolve conflicts with mutual respect Resolve needs, remove pain, & raise potential Receive weekly progress reports See how a campaign can help you Join weekly online session Give input on campaign decisions WC Follower $ 0 0$ Follow the campaign's development and discover what such a campaign could do for you Free Plan Select Grow your “responsive reputation” with love Learn to speak truth to power with courage See how to resolve conflicts with mutual respect Resolve needs, remove pain, & raise potential Receive weekly progress reports See how a campaign can help you Ready to start your adventurous journey? Whether a campaigner or patron or supporter , here is where we can all meet together online. Wellness campaign online sessions Available Online Read More Loading days... Book Now Explore Plans Before you make any commitment ... try our quick preview program to orient you t o what it's about. WELLNESS WARMUP Try this free 4-step program to see if a wellness campaign is right for you. Learn more Start Now

Saybackr Speak Truth to Power - Listen to Those Impacted STTP LTTI Build support to speak your truth to power with the power of love Try our conciliatory approach to inspire those in authority over you to listen to how they impact you. Incentivize their support of your growth needs. Saybackr can help. Honor needs of those in power to incentivize them to listen to you Listen to those you impact toimprove your competencies As someone with responsibility toward others under your authority, you lack sufficient impact data to lead effectively. You don't know what you don't know. Saybackr can help. Improve your competencies as a leader with our conciliatory path Saybackr creates a bridge between the powerless and the powerful, to resolve needs Power relations tend to overlooked your needs Powerholders tend to rely on untested assumptions. The more they overlook your needs, the less effective their leadership. Both sides lose. Those in power need better impact data Powerholders don't know what they don't know. Many remain ignorant of jawboning those into subservience , who only comply to avoid risk of retribution. Both sides lose. Saybackr bridges these two complementary needs Saybackr provides impact data by engaging those impacted. More of your needs received due respect. Both sides win. Saybackr is AF's first "need-responsive" project. This revolutionary platform aims to serve the many needs overlooked by our legalistic institutions. Both the judicial system and politics routinely fail to help us resolve our many exposed needs, leaving us in despair of our increasing anxieties and depression. Instead of pitting parties against each other to offer relief to the winning side, Saybackr brings all sides together to relate more personally to each other's impacted needs. Its conciliatory process links powerholders and the relatively powerless to personally address their needs in good faith. The relatively powerless hold the powerful accountable to their publicly impacted needs. Powerholders earn legitimacy to outperform other leaders. Together, both sides replace destructive norms of alienation with each other's greater potential for love. WELCOME Saybackr is to serve as a hybrid public and private good. The Anankelogy Foundation sets the standards. It enforces "social love" as the higher standard. It economically incentivizes the public good of public wellness, by ensuring each involved demonstrates improved wellness outcomes before any service provider receives full payment. Value Relating serves as its first contracted private provider. Other for-profit providers are expected to identifying wellness needs that can be better served by this conciliatory and engaging model. Think of a doctor getting well paid while serving a nonprofit hospital. But instead of relieving pain, the need-responder provider removes cause for pain by helping to resolve the underlying needs. Saybackr provides the primary platform for this new profession of need-response . Here is where need-responders coordinate wellness campaigns that bring the powerful and the vulnerable together to mutually support each other. Saybackr welcomes already existing entities to learn how to utilize this fresh new approach to better serve its mission. Need-response can be complementary or competitive to other entities such as legal institutions or psychological institutions. We welcome everyone to see how this new platform can serve the many underserved needs of our failing institutions. We welcome you to help spread the love of respecting the needs of others as your healthiest self would have them respect yours. Saybackr presentation in Google Slides Problem Putting norms first Your needs tend to be poorly served by institutions. They tend to put norms first, which somehow should satisfy your needs. Most institutions based in law (namely politics and judiciary) pit us against each other with their categories of convenience. Let's face it, our problems cannot be fully solved by selfishly opposing each other as "accuser" and "accused" or as "conservative" and "liberal". Such "toxic legalism" fails to serve our needs. We need something to address our specific needs. Something that will effectively reduce rates of severe anxiety and major depression. Something worthy of our trust to reduce pain and addictions. Something worthy of our potential to be more loving to each other. Welcome to need-response as that refreshing alternative, and the Saybackr platform that brings this new hope to our hurting world. What is this "toxic legalism" problem? Solution Putting needs first Instead of opposing each other to pursue some elusive win-lose outcome, in court or at the poll, let's pursue mutual support of each other's affected needs to create win-win outcomes. Let's stop trying in vain to fit adversarial categories that serve elite-led institutions more than the needs of the people they exist to serve. Social problems rarely get solved by simply opposing each other. Let's serve our needs over serving their institutions. The more we can fully resolve our needs, the more we can reduce anxiety, decrease depression, and lower addiction rates. Saybackr exists to bring you the need-responsive alternative to our failing institutions. Saybackr can do a better job of restoring us all to wellness, by addressing our specific needs. Saybackr puts our needs ahead of impersonal norms. Saybackr inspires us to reach more of our potential to love one another in peace. Replace legalistic activism with responsivism Problem prioritizing impersonal norms If in conflict with others, our institutions of law pit us against each other. Both adversarial justice and oppositional politics put divisive norms ahead of our personal needs. Ideally, these norms keep us honest by forcing us to face the good arguments of the other side. In practice, however, prioritizing our differences does more to provoke our defensiveness, keep us alienated from each other, and reinforce our problems. This easily results in increased anxiety and depression, among other problems. Our institutions ultimately fail. We no longer trust our institutions or their leaders. What we trusted to solve our problems now creates more problems. Mutual Antagonism If you lose in court or at the ballot, your painful needs remain unresolved. If you win, you may only get some relief from the pain of your unmet needs. Either way, mutual antagonism keep you from fully resolving your needs. Which easily traps you in pain. Antagonistic Powerholders Government or other authorities rely on impersonal laws to keep us in check. They remain removed from the actual impacts from their contentious norms. These divisive norms privilege the socially powerful to intimidate you from fully resolving your needs. Which diminishes the effectiveness of their leadership and compromises the legitimacy of their authority. Society as a whole suffers from a failed judicial system and from polarizing politics unresponsive to their specific needs. Solution prioritizing personal needs Saybackr provides a disciplined process for all involved in conflict, including powerful authorities, to carefully recognize, interpersonally relate, and more effectively resolve each other’s specified needs. This conciliatory process incentivizes each involved to measurably resolve their affected needs. In practice, this replaces the norms of mutual defensiveness with mutual understanding, mutual engagement and mutual support. All involved take an active role to more fully resolve needs, which removes causes for pain and underlying maladies, while raising individual and shared functioning. This conciliatory process aims to replace everyday outrage with more of our potential for love. Mutual Supports Instead of opposing each other, we learn more about each other’s inflexible needs. Instead of struggling in isolation, we support each other’s affected needs. Instead of evoking pain, we nurture each other’s potential for greater love. Supportive Powerholders Instead of relying heavily on impersonal laws, Saybackr holds all powerholders accountable to their impact on publicly exposed needs. This conciliatory process supports powerholders to earn their legitimacy by how well they measurably help resolve needs. The relatively powerless incentivize the powerful to be more responsive to their publicly exposed needs. The more these powerholders can be linked to extraordinary outcomes, the greater their brand of leadership. How It Works Saybackr provides a conciliatory process to incentivize all involved in a public conflict to more fully resolve their affected needs. Step 1 Powerless builds social support for resolving shared need, then launches crowdfunding campaign Step 2 Powerholders incentivized to invest in cause, then receive impact data and credentials for demonstrated leadership Step 3 Powerholders and powerless work together in a conciliatory process to support resolving each other’s needs Value Model When platform users launch campaign to resolve needs, they hire private providers to optimize their reach to powerholders. Together, they utilize platform and its features to crowdfund their campaign to more fully resolve their shared needs. Saybackr collects 10% of each crowdfunded campaign, and charges a set monthly amount for each hosted private provider. Any excess after covering costs goes to a "pool" for site users to invest in their cause of resolving shared needs. Read More Free to join, hires professional advocacy providers site users Billed monthly to use site, charges users separately hosted providers Receives 10% of each crowdfunded campaign Saybckr Overarching Purpose 1 For the powerless The relatively powerless struggle with addictions often to cope with pain from powerholders. They need a an effective alternative to toxic legalism that fuels their pain. More Info 2 For the powerful The relatively powerful unlikely know how they contribute to the addictions of the vulnerable. We provide an attractive approach to turn negative into positive impacts. More Info 3 For society Our institutions fail from relying too heavily on impersonal norms. Saybackr offers a bold and refreshing alternative, to support everyone's wellness needs. More Info Why Now? wrongful convictions polarized politics distrusted institutions growing anxiety deepening depression increasing loneliness deaths of despair societal collapse?

Need-response consists of a community of need-responders. Learn how this new profession fills gaps left open by legal professions and other helping professions. Learn how you can become a need-responder. Learn how you can hire a need-responder. Need-responders The Anankelogy Foundation is seeking to qualify a growing team of need-responders. What is a need-responder? Someone who properly responds to needs to resolve them, instead of the usual reaction to ease our painful feelings of unresolved needs. You can be a need-responder. Eventually, we want to provide you with the opportunity to hire one. Qualified need-responders must 1. endure natural discomfort of resolving needs, 2. replace mutual hostilities with a conciliatory process of mutual respect, 3. incentivize powerholders to support the needs of the relatively powerless, and 4. prioritize resolving needs over destructive impersonal social norms. We help you qualify in all four of these areas. Interested? 1. Need-responders answer institutional decline . Need-responders fill a service gap left open by lawyers and counselors. Lawyers rely on impersonal laws . Psychotherapists focus more on individual change . Neither aims to fully resolve the relevant needs. Need-responders identify, address and work to resolve all the affected needs in a situation. That removes cause for pain . And that enables each of us to reach more of our life’s potential . Read More 2. Need-responders equalize power relations. A bulk of overlooked needs in society result from professional power relations and their unresponsive institutions. Social power silences dissent with their oppositional systems. As distrust in our institutions hit all-time lows , need-responders replace failed hostile oppositional systems —built into adversarial justice and polarizing politics—with a more engaging conciliatory process anchored in mutual respect. Read More 3. Need-responders create marketable value. The more consumers grow disillusioned with failed options, the more our need-responsive alternative may appear to fit the bill. Whether need-responders complement or compete with lawyers and counselors or other helping professionals, the value they can create may go through the roof. The more a need-responder fills a niche poorly served by others, the more their expertise will be in high demand. Read More 4. Need-responders can only be qualified here. Only the Anankelogy Foundation is currently prepared to train and prepare candidates to serve as qualified need-responders . We offer four progressing short courses to certify each budding need-responder . The first one is free. We provide internal opportunities to test their new skills. Then mentor their initial attempts to verify their marketable need-responsive skills in the real world. Read More 5. Are you a disillusioned lawyer? If you're passionate about serving people's needs with the law, but find the current legal system unresponsive to such needs, then consider becoming a professional need-responder. Learn how to meaningfully improve the lives of those disillusioned with lawyers, those disillusioned with the adversarial legal process , and disillusioned with the innocence movement . Read More 6. Are you a disillusioned psychotherapist? If you're passionate about serving people's needs with the counseling, but find psychotherapy inadequate to resolve your clients' problems, then consider becoming a professional need-responder. Learn how to meaningfully improve the lives of those disillusioned with psychotherapy , who helplessly slip into illness , and who require a less stigmatizing psychosocial approach . Read More 7. Untapped markets await you. Does innocence matter to you? It definitely matters to the countless wrongly convicted innocent overlooked by the legal system. Countless "unexonerated " people sit in prison or come home robbed of their right s . They and their family are eager to try this affordable and more responsive alternative. From broadcasting their viable innocence claim to trying our responsive innocence alternative to legal adversarialism . Read More 8. Embrace this opportunity now. Your professional skills can help the underserved to improve their lives, and the lives of others. Learn to identify and address persisting problems at its roots of unresolved needs. Discover how you can fill the gap left wide open by current options like the law and psychotherapy. Find how to incentivize the powerful to positively engage the powerless they impact. Take clients on a hero journey to a better life for all. One bold act of love at a time. And this can all start with you. Read More Test the waters Contact us if you are interest in growing this new service with us. Together, we'll make history. If you're already excited to explore this opportunity, join the Need-Responder Community to start spreading more love in this world. Become a member today for free. See for yourself if this can be a great opportunity for you today. JOIN for Free Need-responder interest form Use this to express to us your interest in helping this service grow. This form implies no commitment either way. We can explore that later. First name* Last name* Email* Select which best describes you Please check all that apply for your availability and your preferences. Availability Some weekday mornings Some weekday afternoons Some weekday evenings Some weekend mornings Some weekend afternoons Some weekend evenings Contribution preferences Test role of service client Test role of service provider Test role of support team member Test role of service powerholder Something else Additional optional comments Donation (optional) $10 $20 $30 You can help us get this vision off the ground with your one time gift. 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Wellness Initiative A wellness initiative is a loosely organized effort to incentivize mutual support for each other's affected needs. It applies "responsivism" of mutually addressing each other's needs instead of resorting to hostile legal options. Such an initiative can start with any of the offered responsive interactive spreadsheet tools. You can do it yourself for free. A wellness initiative addresses the needs on all sides of a situation. We trust such responsiveness to create better wellness outcomes than relying on hostile legal options. Or expecting psychological or medical interventions to fix things. Compared to psychotherapy or legal advise, a wellness initiative is better positioned to effectively address the unmet needs driving all of our problems . A wellness initiative begins with one of these for "responsive" spreadsheet tools. We suggest you start with the most basic one: Personally Responsive. But you may urgently need to quickly speak truth to power with a Professionally or Powerfully Responsive effort. Start your wellness initiative with the tool that best fits your currrent need. Personally Responsive : to deepen your immediate relations. Properly Responsive : to grow your social capital. Professionally Responsive : to mutually support each other's needs. Powerfully Responsive : to address the needs laws exist to serve. A wellness initiative unfolds in four progressing phases. Developing your wellness initiative and the problem level addressed by each phase of the campaign 1. ALERT phase to inform others 2. ASSESS phase to gage responsiveness 3. AUDIT phase to evaluate wellness 4. AVOW phase to resolve needs Wellness Initiative Cycle Wellness depends on resolving needs. The more of your needs can fully resolve, the more well you will be. The fewer of your needs resolve, the less well and closer you to being sick. This effort follows four key steps. 1. ALERT . You inform others of your intent to resolve needs, as mutually as possible. 2. ASSESS . You gage their responsiveness to your invitation to participate in this mutually beneficially effort. 3. AUDIT . You evaluate how well your needs and their needs can resolve with this effort 4. AVOW . You commit to continue resolving needs to improve wellness, with or with the cooperation of others. Wellness Initiative Overview 1. ALERT Your wellness initiative essentially begins when you notify others of your intent to mutually address each other's needs. You print out and send them this one-page ALERT. Send the 2nd version to anyone invited after you've already begun When starting: Announce your upcoming wellness initiative After starting: Announce your ongoing wellness initiative What gets measured gets done. 2. ASSESS Your wellness initiative reorients others from legalistic norms to relating to the inflexible needs that flexible laws exist to serve. The first step checks how responsive are others to this reorientation to improve wellness outcomes. What gets audited gets done well. 3. AUDIT Your wellness initiative builds significant momentum as you cultivate mutual support for wellness. You demonstrat e the greater value of 'mutual regard ' over toxic legalism. You chart a bold new course into cotagious wellness. AUDIT: Mutual Wellness Accountability What gets rewarded gets repeated. 4. AVOW Your wellness initiative establishes your commitment to resolve needs with or without their cooperation. You either mutually resolve needs with them or distance yourself from such unresponsive folks who threaten to your wellness. continuing Next recipient You go through these four steps with each new person you engage with a responsive tool. You add them as a follower to your initiative as you reach out to next lucky person on your contactee list. You spread the love . wrap up TESTIMONIALS You conclude your wellness initiative by providing social proof to those who supported your wellness needs with growing support. You incentivize those who impact your needs by boosting their "responsive reputation ". Wellness Initiative Deep Dive The Personally Responsive too serves as the ideal responsive tool to begin your wellness initiative. Each subsequent tool adds more features to the previous tool.. As this hart shows. To explore how to utilize each wellness responsive tool, click here. Wellness Initiative Walk Through To explore how to strategically use them, click here. Strategic Wellness Initiative To get support and guidance for optimally using these tools, scroll do Ask your questions in the forum Interactive spreadsheet tool for improving your relationships Interactive spreadsheet tool for improving your relationships Interactive spreadsheet tool for growing your social capital Interactive spreadsheet tool for growing your social capital No posts in this category Consider creating the first post to get the conversation started! Join the Wellness Initiative group Groups Wellness Initiative Private · 1 member Request To Join Get personalize support from me Receive the guidance you need as we meet together online. Responsivism Direct Support $ 60 60$ Every week 25-minute weekly online support via Zoom Valid for 4 weeks + 7 day free trial Start Free Trial Responsivism Direct Online Support Need some guidance from me? Contact me about any coupons to reduce the weekly price. Responsivism Direct Online Support Available Online One-on-one online support for using the Professionally Responsive tool Read More 25 min 60 US dollars $60 Book Now Explore Plans Pick a spreadsheet tool to start you wellness initiative Proceed at your own pace. Responsivism Tools Start a wellness initiative using any of these interactive spreadsheet tools. Wellness Tools Developmental Tools Specialization Tools

i-need.to How to Start How It Works Pricing Log in/Sign up Draft your "I-need" message Fill in this form to express your need to the recipient. Then click the "Start Drafting Your Message" button to proceed. State what you need from the recipient in one line Your name Your email Email addresses entered here are not saved. Recipient name Recipient email This email is also not saved, and only used for this purpose. Select relation level Start with a personal level until you get familiar with this process. Scroll down to learn more about your relation level . Start Drafting Your Message Mockup of for this new solution Anankelogy Foundation How can we do it better next time? Normal Text I-need msg How can we do it better next time? Normal Text How can we do it better next time? Normal Text Personal "I-need" messages Start expressing your specific needs to those you personally know. Like your close friends and close family members. Social "I-need" messages Then express your specific needs to those you do not personally know. Like coworkers and colleagues. Professional "I-need" messages Apply your growing skill to effectively convey your needs to those who you rely upon for some service. They tend to have more social influence than you. Official "I-need" messages Leverage both your sharpened skills and growing social network to redress officials in the government or elsewhere. Speak truth to power with the power of love, of honoring their needs as you compel them to honor your own. Emotions exist to address needs. But may compel you to settle for less than resolving your needs. Behaviors exist to address needs. But may revert to habits that do not resolve needs. Rules exist to address needs. But may put the needs of others ahead of your own. Let's address our specific needs to resolve them with love. To incentivize each other to honor the needs of others as our own. with "I-need" messages

Need-Response Introducing the new professional field accountably addressing our many needs resolve more needs remove more pain reach more potential What is need-response? N eed-response is applied anankelogy . As a brand new professional field, it applies all that we can learn from the discipline of anankelogy. Now we can better understand and more fully resolve our many overlooked needs. No other options offers such a comprehensive scope for addressing problems. View this 1-minute video to get a quick impression for what the fuss is about . The video will soon appear here. If it doesn't, the reload the page. Dig deeper and read the script to this short video. Need-response introduction Need more information about need-response? View this 17-minute video to get an overview of what need-response can do for you. The video will soon appear here. If it doesn't, the reload the page. Dig deeper and read the script to this longer video. Disappointed by lawyers? Frustrated by politics? Underserved by psychotherapists? Need-response exists as a viable alternative to adversarial law and to divisive politics. Those law-centered approaches too quickly divide us into opposing camps. W e will always fail, and those institutions wil l fail us, when opposing what each other inflexibly needs. We can do more to relate to these underlying needs, and to support each other's efforts to resolve those needs. With need-response , we can now work together to solve problems by working together to resolve the underlying needs. One rewarding act of love at a time. Disillusioned? Click on the image if it speaks to your disillusionment. See how need-response can be your answer. Disillusioned with lawyers? Disillusioned with psychotherapy? Are you a disillusioned lawyer? Are you a disillusioned psychotherapist? Why need-response? Ease pain only for winning side JUDICIARY & POLITICS Our legal institutions of politics and the judiciary work to offer relief from pain for the winning side of a ballot or court battle. The losing side gets ignored. Neither institution seeks to fully resolve our many underserved needs. Once dependent on impersonal law, we risk getting trapped in pain. More Info Resolve needs on all sides NEED-RESPONSE Anankelogy recognizes we all have needs. The less our needs resolve, the harder to function individually and as a whole. By addressing all the needs involved, need-response goes beyond mere law or psychotherapy. It more effectively removes pain while raising our shared functioning. More Info Only ease personal needs PSYCHOTHERAPY Psychotherapy exists to address the individual, and not so much the larger social or cultural contexts of our many problems. We can change our selves only so much to fit into a sick society before we must address this sick society. Instead of deferring to impersonal laws, let's get to the needs our laws serve. More Info Needs Come First We don’t exist to serve authority; authority exists to serve our needs . Every law and every authority exists in response to some need. Those needs emerged first as objective reality . You do not choose to be thirsty, for example, but objectively must replenish lost fluids in order to fully function. All norms and laws regarding water emerged as culturally shaped responses to it. Once your thirst is quenched, you need no authority to tell you how you can quench your thirst. Any authority of law is only as good as it results in resolved needs. Laws are kept vague to apply to a wide range of situations; they rarely speak to specific needs. Laws are kept impersonal to avoid favoritism; they tend to alienate us from each other's personal needs. Laws are enforced adversarially; they easily provoke our hostility. Laws Cannot Resolve Needs Laws do not resolve needs; people do . NR Incentivizes Cooperation We cannot solve our specific problems from the level of generalizing that created them . Instead of overgeneralizing law, NR gives you nuance. Instead of impersonal law, NR engages each other's personal needs. Instead of hostilities, NR mutually addresses each other's needs. Instead of sparking understandable anger and spreading more hate, NR nurtures more of each other's love. As our needs receive due attention, we can then suffer less pain. Less anxiety, less depression, less addictive behaviors. The more our needs resolve, the more our wellness improves. We can then function better and reach more of our personal and shared potential. Laws can guide, but we must do the love. Resolved Needs Improve Health While no one sits above the law, no law sits above the needs they exist to serve . The Need-Response Process There is no good nor bad except for need . Need-response takes you through a cyclic path of alerting others of its next need-responsive intent, assessing responsiveness to the identified needs, auditing competency to legitimately impact such needs, and avowing to more fully resolve the neglected needs. This can complement counseling and law enforcement, or compete with these institutions. Our legal institutions of politics and judiciary tend to keep us trapped in our problems with its low aims. Need-response aims higher: to resolve needs to remove pain and raise each other's functioning Resolve needs instead of eas ing needs Legal institutions of politics and the judiciary offers little more than to ease your publicly impacted needs. Need-response presents the tools to fully resolve the needs overlooked by impersonal laws. Remove pain instead of reliev ing pain Legal institutions of politics and the judiciary offers relief from the pain of unmet needs for the winning side in a ballot or court battle. Need-response removes the cause for pain by fully resolving those needs. Raise functioning over risking dysfunction Legal institutions of politics and the judiciary seeks to maintain social order that impedes your full functionality. Need-response restores you to your full potential, to function closer to your peak capacity. Proposed need-response services N eed-response is applied anankelogy . As a brand new professional field, it applies all that we can learn from the discipline of anankelogy. Now we can better understand and more fully resolve our many overlooked needs. No other options offers such a comprehensive scope for addressing problems. N eed-response offers two approaches to addressing your overlooked needs : an individualized wellness initiative and a group-focused wellness campaign . Wellness initiative . You download an interactive "responsive" tool that you personally utilize to address your overlooked needs. Each counter s or complements the limits of legalistic activism with "responsivism". That's the belief that responding to inflexible needs produces better results than pursuing defensive-provoking legalistic options. Responsive Wellness tools. These help you incentivize other's responsiveness to your needs by first being responsive to theirs. Responsive Development tools. These guide you to personally be more responsive to needs in ways hampered by legalistic norms. Responsive Specialized tools. These include two for challenging the failing institutions of criminal justice and polarized politics. Wellness campaign . You subscribe to a service that attracts support for your vision for a better world. You typically prepare for this commitment with a warmup exercise . These likely emerge from responsive wellness tools gaining traction. But can also be launched without trying any of the responsive tools or a wellness initiative. A wellness campaign likely emerges when taking a wellness initiative to the next level. Need-response has yet to road tested on a grand scale. It earliest adoption appears promising. Our established institutions of law enforcement cannot address or solve every human problem We rely on the laws and their enforcement, so what's wrong with the law? Laws are vague to apply broadly The more specific a law, the less it can apply in other situations. So laws are kept as general as possible, but this risks overlooking your specific needs. Need-response counters this vacillating between such extremes by identifying the specific needs laws exist to serve. Laws are impersonal to avoid biased enforcement The more personal the enforcement of laws, the greater the risk of favoritism. So enforcement is impartial, but this often objectifies and even dehumanizes us . Need-response counters this vacillating between such extremes by providing a disciplined path of mutual engagement . Enforcement is hostile to incentivize compliance The more gently laws are enforced , the greater the risk for non-compliance. So en forcement tends to be rough, but this too easily provokes our guard. Need-response counters this vacillating between such extremes by enforcing the higher standard of mutual love. I have spent all my life under a Communist regime and I will tell you that a society without any objective legal scale is a terrible one indeed. But a society with no other scale but the legal one is also less than worthy of man. A society based on the letter of the law and never reaching anything higher fails to take advantage of the full range of human possibilities. Need-response exists to counter the problem of putting laws ahead of needs, which it calls "toxic legalism". Learn more about this problem of 'toxic legalism' Experimenting with ways to apply this The ideas below have yet to be tested. Everything must start somewhere. Need-response provides its value through a wellness campaign, starting with a wellness warmup exercise. Wellness warmup exercise If ready to dive into a wellness campaign, first test the waters with a wellness warmup exercise . 1. ASSESS if this is a good fit for you 3. OBSERVE replies and follow up 2. LIST & INVITE those you know 4. DECIDE if this is right for you Learn more Wellness campaign A wellness campaign serves as the primary program need-response uses to address your overlooked needs. In five phases, you turn challenging power into supportive power. 1. Your BA SE phase to set a foundation. 2. Your ALLY phase to build with your accountability partner. 3. Your TEAM phase to expand your support team. 4. Your GROW phase to include powerful folks to support you. 5. Your GOAL phase to speak truth to power with inspiring love. Learn more Individual responsive tools Start with one of these interactive spreadsheet tools to get started. Start with your speciic need. Responsive Development Holistically Responsive Relatably Responsive Specifically Responsive Resiliently Responsive Mutually Responsive Responsive Development Responsive Specialization Responsive Relationships Responsive Interviewing Responsive Innocence Responsive Depolarization Responsive Specialization Responsive Initiative Personally Responsive Properly Responsive Professionally Responsive Powerfully Responsive Responsive Initiative Responsive Wellness Personally Responsive Properly Responsive Professionally Responsive Powerfully Responsive Responsive Wellness Start your own problem-solving wellness initiative Start with one of these interactive spreadsheet tools to get started. Start with your speciic need. Best Value Public Exoneration $199.99 $ 199.99 Every month Solve your stubborn problem of overlooked innocence by mutually resolving needs Valid until canceled 30 day free trial Select Grow your “responsive reputation” with love Learn to speak truth to power with courage See how to resolve conflicts with mutual respect Resolve more of your needs Remove more of your pain Reach more of your potential Receive growing support to solve a major problem Lead a team creating transformative change Public Exoneration For the wrongly convicted innocent overlooked by the adversarial legal system. ! Widget Didn’t Load Check your internet and refresh this page. If that doesn’t work, contact us. Publicly Declare your Innocence For the wrongly convicted innocent overlooked by the adversarial legal system. ! Widget Didn’t Load Check your internet and refresh this page. If that doesn’t work, contact us. Saybackr project The Anankelogy Foundation aims to create a public platform for anyone to access and benefit from this revolutionary alternative of need-response . The platform is called Saybackr . Click below to learn about this alternative to our hostile legalistic systems. Saybackr Need-Response podcast Episodes each Wednesday Subscribe to the Need-Response podcast. Episodes available 30 April 2025. View the trailer on 30 January 2025. Latest episodes Testimonials

i-need.to Log In How to Start How It Works Pricing Log In to Connect With Members View and follow other members, leave comments & more. Log In Good Faith Responsiveness score: Wellness aim 00 Responsiveness of the invited Firm Yes Soft Yes Equivocal Soft No Firm No no reply i # enthusiastic reciprocation # cautious reciprocation # noncommital response # not able to reciprocate at this time # never can reciprocate like this # no response after follow-up DASHBOARD: Your need-responsive exchanges text Learn More as RECEIVER of need messages as SENDER of need messages as SENDER PERSONAL needs SOCIAL needs PROFESSIONAL needs OFFICIAL needs Target TO National Storage 20260000 I need you to ensure I can access my online account Thank you for helping me restart my account. After numerous attempts and repeated trips to the local facility for help, I finally was able to access my online account. But once I logged out and try logging back in, it failed again. To experience prompted me to leave a negative review on Google Maps. I trust we can find some solution. So I can edit that review with a more positive outcome. Thank you. __ Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Need-response exchanges: 4 interactive levels PERSONAL For improving your interactions with your closest friends and family members. SOCIAL For improving your interactions with colleagues, coworkers and other peers. PROFESSIONAL For improving your interactions with professionals who hold some level of control over you. OFFICIAL For improving your interactions with government personnel and official entities. Click the tabs of the powerholder entities above to follow this program's development. Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO Peer 20260000 I need you to ensure I can access my online account Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO Peer 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO Peer 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO Peer 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Viewing this sender's personal exchanges requires membership in Sender's support circle, and agreeing to their privacy terms. Click the button below to request entry. Request to join Sender's support circle All other need-exchanges are open to the public for transparent viewing. No membership required outside of personal exchanges. as SENDER PERSONAL needs SOCIAL needs PROFESSIONAL needs OFFICIAL needs Target TO National Storage 20260000 I need you to ensure I can access my online account Thank you for helping me restart my account. After numerous attempts and repeated trips to the local facility for help, I finally was able to access my online account. But once I logged out and try logging back in, it failed again. To experience prompted me to leave a negative review on Google Maps. I trust we can find some solution. So I can edit that review with a more positive outcome. Thank you. __ Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Need-response exchanges: 4 interactive levels PERSONAL For improving your interactions with your closest friends and family members. SOCIAL For improving your interactions with colleagues, coworkers and other peers. PROFESSIONAL For improving your interactions with professionals who hold some level of control over you. OFFICIAL For improving your interactions with government personnel and official entities. Click the tabs of the powerholder entities above to follow this program's development. Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO Peer 20260000 I need you to ensure I can access my online account Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO Peer 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO Peer 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO Peer 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Viewing this sender's personal exchanges requires membership in Sender's support circle, and agreeing to their privacy terms. Click the button below to request entry. Request to join Sender's support circle All other need-exchanges are open to the public for transparent viewing. No membership required outside of personal exchanges. I need relation level charts wellness chart GFR merit Responsive Rating Law-fit Assumptions Exaction Liberty REACT - OR - RESPOND I need relation level Your impacted wellness I need... Publishing my current levels of anxiety, depression and addictiveness to expose the “inverse stigma” of powerholders negatively impacting my wellbeing. Then inviting those powerholders to seize the opportunity to shift negative impacts into positive ones. And receive credit for their improved efficacy serving their constituents, to improve their branding. Holistic Wellness self-reported measures independent measures Holistic wellness Holistic wellness includes impacts from those in positions of authority; disingenuous, privileged avoidance/alienation invert stigma from - preventative mental health - allostatic load by addressing its source, intellectually honest to the term "mental illness" serves as a synecdoche . Like the phrase "boots on the ground" or "hired hand", a portion refers to the whole thing. Unwellness occurs in part in one's mental processes, but cannot occur exclusively in one's thinking. As overwhelming external pressures decline, wellness measurably improves. Powerholders incentivized to support If powerholders can negatively impact such needs, we can turn this around to positively impact them and earn credit. Learn More Disagree mental health depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Self-reported anxiety depression addictiveness Self-reported text Learn More Disagree mental health depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for cravings generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming vainly ashamed of your obsessive cravings. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to addictive cravings. Addictiveness Addictiveness refers to any obsessive cravings , whether you act upon them or not. You can be free from any addiction and still feel overwhelmed by desires. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how constant cravings include a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you can resolve your needs because of sociocultural barriers, the more those unmet needs will opt for whatever can alleviate the desperate, unfulfilled desire. Addictions may result. There is no such thing as desire apart from the need to replenish something depleted . Disagree cravings depend on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Learn More Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for anxiety generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming needlessly ashamed of your incapacity to handle threats. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to painful anxiety. Anxiety Anankelogy defines anxiety as the body warning you that you are faced with some threat which you are not sure how to effectively handle. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how anxiety primarily involves a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you can safely handle threats presented by those in power over you, the more likely you play it safe and tolerate the increasingly intolerable. Paralyzing anxieties may soon follow. There is no such thing as pain apart from the need to remove some threat . Learn More Disagree anxiety depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for depression generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming unnecessarily ashamed for feeling immobilized. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to immobilizing depression. Depression Anankelogy defines depression as redirecting your energy from outward social foci toward an inward, neglected personal focus. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how depression includes a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you adequately nurture yourself, the more likely your body will deny you energy to give away. That's a threat to your wellbeing. Immobilization ma y soon force you to take a self-replenishing rest. There is no such thing as pain apart from the need to remove some threat . Learn More Disagree depression depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Independent identify stressors identify biomarkers allostatic load index Independent measures text REACT with laws - OR - RESPOND to needs REACT with laws - OR - RESPOND to needs Learn More Disagree mental health depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for cravings generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming vainly ashamed of your obsessive cravings. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to addictive cravings. Addictiveness Addictiveness refers to any obsessive cravings , whether you act upon them or not. You can be free from any addiction and still feel overwhelmed by desires. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how constant cravings include a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you can resolve your needs because of sociocultural barriers, the more those unmet needs will opt for whatever can alleviate the desperate, unfulfilled desire. Addictions may result. There is no such thing as desire apart from the need to replenish something depleted . Disagree cravings depend on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Learn More Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for anxiety generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming needlessly ashamed of your incapacity to handle threats. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to painful anxiety. Anxiety Anankelogy defines anxiety as the body warning you that you are faced with some threat which you are not sure how to effectively handle. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how anxiety primarily involves a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you can safely handle threats presented by those in power over you, the more likely you play it safe and tolerate the increasingly intolerable. Paralyzing anxieties may soon follow. There is no such thing as pain apart from the need to remove some threat . Learn More Disagree anxiety depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for depression generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming unnecessarily ashamed for feeling immobilized. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to immobilizing depression. Depression Anankelogy defines depression as redirecting your energy from outward social foci toward an inward, neglected personal focus. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how depression includes a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you adequately nurture yourself, the more likely your body will deny you energy to give away. That's a threat to your wellbeing. Immobilization ma y soon force you to take a self-replenishing rest. There is no such thing as pain apart from the need to remove some threat . Learn More Disagree depression depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us This is an attempt to resolve a need involving you Your "I-need" messages Learn More Rarely, do those exploiting the vulnerable realize the aggregate impact from others also exploiting the vulnerable. Eventually, the exploiters suffer some of the consequences. Until now. Instead of keeping their needs private, they post their public facing needs for all to see. To then hold the powerful accountable for their impact on their wear and tear. Not to confront them, but to offer this unique opportunity to improve their own responsiveness to such needs. To improve their professional brand. We drop adversarialism to make room for our mutuality process . Powerholders: You don't know what you don't know. Introducing "I-need" messages To restore your wellness and remove your pain, you must resolve your needs. You can resolve some of your needs on your own, but resolving most of your needs requires cooperation with others. Relying exclusively on impersonal norms like laws or policies to incentivize other's cooperation exposes you to disappointment. In fact, your current level of wellness points to likely minimal cooperation from others, who are busy struggling with their own declining degrees of wellness. The greatest impact on your wellness, and risk to your mental health, is not the quality of your thinking . No, it is how well your many needs can promptly and fully resolve . Much of which sits outside your personal control. The more your inflexible needs remain exposed to those with more social power than you, the more likely you suffer some needs, or many needs, not promptly or fully resolving. The less your needs resolve, the less your capacity to fully function. No amount of intellectual capacity or mindful cognition will stop those in positions of authority from negatively impacting your exposed needs. They typically remain unaware of their harmful impacts upon you. That is why this service exists. Measuring improved wellness To keep this service accountable to evidence-based outcomes, the need-messenger routinely fills out a well-check survey. It gauges their levels of anxiety, depression, and addictiveness throughout the program. The program anticipates improved outcomes in all three areas as powerholders enable the need-messenger to more fully resolve their affected needs. This effectively shifts the stigma from the good faith need-messenger to those powerholders presenting a lack of competence. This starts with capturing the need-messenger's baseline. Which provides a starting point with which we can compare later. We use this downloadable interactive spreadsheet tool as we test the viability of this service. 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Follow the process from normalized perpetuating of problems, pathology and pain to cultivating mutual support for each other's affected needs. For greater wellness of us all. i-need.to How to Start How It Works Pricing Log in/Sign up How It Works I need... Publishing my current levels of anxiety, depression and addictiveness to expose the “inverse stigma” of powerholders negatively impacting my wellbeing. Then inviting those powerholders to seize the opportunity to shift negative impacts into positive ones. And receive credit for their improved efficacy serving their constituents, to improve their branding. Follow the process from normalized perpetuating of problems, pathology and pain to cultivating mutual support for each other's affected needs. For greater wellness of us all. slider Holistic Wellness self-reported measures independent measures Holistic wellness Holistic wellness includes impacts from those in positions of authority; disingenuous, privileged avoidance/alienation invert stigma from - preventative mental health - allostatic load by addressing its source, intellectually honest to the term "mental illness" serves as a synecdoche . Like the phrase "boots on the ground" or "hired hand", a portion refers to the whole thing. Unwellness occurs in part in one's mental processes, but cannot occur exclusively in one's thinking. As overwhelming external pressures decline, wellness measurably improves. Powerholders incentivized to support If powerholders can negatively impact such needs, we can turn this around to positively impact them and earn credit. Learn More Disagree mental health depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Self-reported anxiety depression addictiveness Self-reported text Learn More Disagree mental health depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for cravings generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming vainly ashamed of your obsessive cravings. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to addictive cravings. Addictiveness Addictiveness refers to any obsessive cravings , whether you act upon them or not. You can be free from any addiction and still feel overwhelmed by desires. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how constant cravings include a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you can resolve your needs because of sociocultural barriers, the more those unmet needs will opt for whatever can alleviate the desperate, unfulfilled desire. Addictions may result. There is no such thing as desire apart from the need to replenish something depleted . Disagree cravings depend on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Learn More Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for anxiety generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming needlessly ashamed of your incapacity to handle threats. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to painful anxiety. Anxiety Anankelogy defines anxiety as the body warning you that you are faced with some threat which you are not sure how to effectively handle. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how anxiety primarily involves a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you can safely handle threats presented by those in power over you, the more likely you play it safe and tolerate the increasingly intolerable. Paralyzing anxieties may soon follow. There is no such thing as pain apart from the need to remove some threat . Learn More Disagree anxiety depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for depression generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming unnecessarily ashamed for feeling immobilized. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to immobilizing depression. Depression Anankelogy defines depression as redirecting your energy from outward social foci toward an inward, neglected personal focus. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how depression includes a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you adequately nurture yourself, the more likely your body will deny you energy to give away. That's a threat to your wellbeing. Immobilization ma y soon force you to take a self-replenishing rest. There is no such thing as pain apart from the need to remove some threat . Learn More Disagree depression depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Independent identify stressors identify biomarkers allostatic load index Independent measures text Learn More Disagree mental health depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for cravings generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming vainly ashamed of your obsessive cravings. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to addictive cravings. Addictiveness Addictiveness refers to any obsessive cravings , whether you act upon them or not. You can be free from any addiction and still feel overwhelmed by desires. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how constant cravings include a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you can resolve your needs because of sociocultural barriers, the more those unmet needs will opt for whatever can alleviate the desperate, unfulfilled desire. Addictions may result. There is no such thing as desire apart from the need to replenish something depleted . Disagree cravings depend on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Learn More Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for anxiety generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming needlessly ashamed of your incapacity to handle threats. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to painful anxiety. Anxiety Anankelogy defines anxiety as the body warning you that you are faced with some threat which you are not sure how to effectively handle. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how anxiety primarily involves a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you can safely handle threats presented by those in power over you, the more likely you play it safe and tolerate the increasingly intolerable. Paralyzing anxieties may soon follow. There is no such thing as pain apart from the need to remove some threat . Learn More Disagree anxiety depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for depression generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming unnecessarily ashamed for feeling immobilized. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to immobilizing depression. Depression Anankelogy defines depression as redirecting your energy from outward social foci toward an inward, neglected personal focus. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how depression includes a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you adequately nurture yourself, the more likely your body will deny you energy to give away. That's a threat to your wellbeing. Immobilization ma y soon force you to take a self-replenishing rest. There is no such thing as pain apart from the need to remove some threat . Learn More Disagree depression depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Your "I-need" messages Learn More Rarely, do those exploiting the vulnerable realize the aggregate impact from others also exploiting the vulnerable. Eventually, the exploiters suffer some of the consequences. Until now. Instead of keeping their needs private, they post their public facing needs for all to see. To then hold the powerful accountable for their impact on their wear and tear. Not to confront them, but to offer this unique opportunity to improve their own responsiveness to such needs. To improve their professional brand. We drop adversarialism to make room for our mutuality process . Your need-responsive interactions Learn More text 4 TYPES: PERSONAL interactions SOCIAL interactions PROFESSIONAL interactions OFFICIAL interactions 1. I-need message 2. Mutuality invitation 3. Post-legalism 4. Earned legitimacy 5. Liberty Commitment 3.1 Law-fit 3.2 Assumptions Checking 3.3 Toxic legalism 3.4 Segue to resolution 3.5 authority While no one sits above the law, no law sits above the inflexible needs they exist to serve. Here, we fit laws to the needs they ostensibly exist to serve. Law-fit 1. Cited law, rule, policy, social norm 2. Stated purpose for such a behavioral standard 3. Actual impact from attempts to enforce it Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. Assumption Testing Almost all of our beliefs include some error . Most of the time, such errors remain insignificant. But occasionally, acting upon inaccurate assumptions can cause trouble. Sometimes more for others you impact than for yourself. Those in a position of power tend to hold onto unchecked assumptions harmful to those they impact. It can be safer for the relatively vulnerable to tolerate such errant assumptions than risk threats when speaking up. This service instills the discipline of critical thinking to test our comforting beliefs. This process checks each other's assumptions using the tools of artificial intelligence. Open the AI tool of your choice and type in the phrase "critique the assumption that" and follow with the assumption you or others take for granted. Here are some impactful examples using Google's Gemini AI. Critique the assumption that... might makes right people choose their political values from rational choice reasoning empathizing with both sides of a debate is bothsidesism or false moral equivalency emotions bias our thinking (actually, desperate needs prioritize relief-seeking, conveyed in emotions) the adversarial judicial system rarely convicts an innocent person willpower should be enough to overcome my cravings authority comes exclusively from law conflicts are a zero-sum outcome in which only one side can win we must have law and order to keep our depraved natures in check mental health occurs primarily in one's mind and in one's chosen behaviors morality is relative, so individuals must decide what is right and wrong on their own it is good to challenge others' beliefs to keep them honest Other assumptions to test yourself: "critique the assumption that ______" we must focus on individual deviation from behavioral norms since these are enough to sustain wellness wellness can be achieved by relieving pain without trying to understand what prompted the pain we must maintain law and order for a functioning society political platforms will provide satisfying results for my life people are generally stupid people are typically gullible and easily persuaded people are generally untrustworthy people would lie, cheat and steal if it wasn't for law enforcement law enforcement keep the public safe you can change someone's political stance with the right persuasive argument Testing your untested assumptions Powerholders acting on such poor assumptions risk exacting value from the relatively less powerful. Which undermines the powerholder's legitimacy. Disingenuous democracy From adversarial law to mutual principle The adversarial law-based approach tends to favor those with better access to legal services. Gaining a legal win at the expense of the less privileged provides a short-term gain that cannot last, since inflexible needs will assert themselves. Both sides waste resources better invested in mutual understanding and support, to nurture the wellness of us all. 3.3.1 Adversarialism to... 3.3.2 Alienation to... 3.3.3 Overgeneralizing to... 3.3.4. Hyperrationality to... 3.3.5 Hyper-individualism to... By what authority? The This mutuality process, as a viable alternative to the bias-riddled adversarial legal process, offers to restore legitimacy. By measurably earning trustworthiness, when cooperatively supporting the need-messenger's identified need(s). Next, improve your branding by demonstrating efficacy in enabling the need-messenger to resolve the identified need. From adversarial law to mutual principle The adversarial law-based approach tends to favor those with better access to legal services. Gaining a legal win at the expense of the less privileged provides a short-term gain that cannot last, since inflexible needs will assert themselves. Both sides waste resources better invested in mutual understanding and support, to nurture the wellness of us all. 4.1 Ascribed legitimacy 4.2 Manifest llegitimacy 4.3 Exaction invoice 4.4 Earned legitimacy 5.5 Legitimacy testimonials Initiatial "I-need" message A. AFFIRM value of recipient. B. BRING up own affected need(s). C. CONTINUE dialogue to nurture mutual understanding. Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. Follow-up reminder "I-need" message A. AFFIRM value of recipient. B. BRING up own affected need(s). C. CONTINUE dialogue to nurture mutual understanding. Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. Text Exaction Invoice Impacted needs M Anxiety costs $169 Needs X 3 needs $507.00 Depression costs $102 3 needs $306.00 Addictiveness costs $90 3 needs $270.00 Other costs $163 3 needs $489.00 Total $1.572.00 This is not a bill . This conveys the hidden costs imposed, compromising efficacy. Follow the process here. creation conditions conversion clearance certification 4.3.1 creation 4.3.2 conditions 4.3.3 conversion 4.3.4 clearance 4.3.5 certification Initiatial "I-need" message A. AFFIRM value of recipient. B. BRING up own affected need(s). C. CONTINUE dialogue to nurture mutual understanding. Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. Follow-up reminder "I-need" message A. AFFIRM value of recipient. B. BRING up own affected need(s). C. CONTINUE dialogue to nurture mutual understanding. Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Reply options Engage the identified need A. AFFIRM value of recipient. C. CONTINUE dialogue to nurture mutual understanding. Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. Rated responsiveness We rate each other's responsiveness to needs, starting with the need-messenger's need for you to acknowledge their "I-need" message. Earned legitimacy Anankelogy , the study of need, distinguishes between manipulable "ascribed legitimacy" and evidence-based "earned legitimacy". RESPONSE RANGE Firm yes Soft yes Equivocal Soft no Firm no NO REPLY Firm yes . Yes, Soft yes . Equivocal . Soft no . Firm no . No reply . Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Liberty Commitment By liberty , we mean "the freedom to fully resolve our needs in ways with minimal or no negative impact upon the needs of others". In other words, to properly resolve needs essential to sustain wellness and remove cause for debilitating pain Learn More Properly resolve needs Commitment to wellness Collapsible text is great for longer section titles and descriptions. It gives people access to all the info they need, while keeping your layout clean. 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Write your text here... Assumption testing Collapsible text is great for longer section titles and descriptions. It gives people access to all the info they need, while keeping your layout clean. Link your text to anything, or set your text box to expand on click. Write your text here... Credit for contributing to improved outcomes Contribute to our preventative mental health and receive credit Proceeding NRI NOI MOU NRA Proceeding responsiveness to inflexible needs NRI : Need Response Introduction . NOI : Notice of Intent to properly resolve needs. MOU : Memorandum of Understanding to NRA : Need Response Action to 1.1 Initial "I-need" message 1.2 Follow-up reminder 1.3 Auto-reply message 1.4 Engaging the need 1.5 Response options Initiatial "I-need" message A. AFFIRM value of recipient. B. BRING up own affected need(s). C. CONTINUE dialogue to nurture mutual understanding. Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. Follow-up reminder "I-need" message A. AFFIRM value of recipient. B. BRING up own affected need(s). C. CONTINUE dialogue to nurture mutual understanding. Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. Thank you for letting me know that you Welcome to the “I-need” message service. You recently received an expressed need from SENDER’S NAME . Thank you for promptly acknowledging receipt of this new way to improve relations. The more we know what each other specifically needs, the better we can relate to each other. They await your reply to the substance of the need itself, as expressed here: “I need you to _____________________________________________ .” You can reply with one of these options: 1. Firm yes . You can help them address this need now or very soon. 2. Soft yes . You might be able to help them with this need if you had more information. 3. Equivocal . You remain uncertain if you can help them with this need or not. 4. Soft no . You cannot help them with this need at this time. 5. Firm no . You cannot help them with this need indefinitely. No reply will be interpreted as a Firm no. But we anticipate you will choose one of these options to sustain mutual rapport, for when you are in need and require their support. Thank you for utilizing this service. next step in this process Reply options Engage the identified need A. AFFIRM value of recipient. C. CONTINUE dialogue to nurture mutual understanding. Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. RESPONSE RANGE Firm yes Soft yes Equivocal Soft no Firm no NO REPLY Firm yes . Yes, Soft yes . Equivocal . Soft no . Firm no . No reply . Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Mutuality invitation 2.1 Mutuality journey 2.2 Admitting evil 2.3 Universal principles 2.4 Engaging needs 2.5 Response options Mutuality invitation Leaving the ordinary world of toxic legalism The standard adversarial legal process generally seeks to oppose one another to endure diminished ability to function and to relieve the resulting pain . Is this the justice you seek? This typically neglects the unmet needs prompting the pain, while diminishing each other's full potential. This risks trapping each other in diminished wellness and pain . Is that what you want? The more this contacted powerholder agrees to shift from such an adversarial approach, the more confidently the need-messenger can let go of their standard adversarial options. Adversarial options to drop Adversarial options waived Ethics complaint Negative online review Lawsuit Presenteeism Civil disobedience Industry codes Tax escrow Institutional review board Better Business Bureau Alternative Dispute Resolution Ombudsman Adversarial options waived Ethics complaint Negative online review Lawsuit Consumer Reporting Agency Entering the special world of mutual regard The mutuality process specifically equips both sides to resolve needs to restore wellness and to remove pain . Why provoke each other's defensiveness? Instead, we can mutually replace hostile activism with engaging "responsivism" that incentivizes social love toward each other. Instead of disappointing toxic legalism , we find more satisfaction applying universal principles we call "character refunctions ." Mutuality process options preferred Mutual regard Mutual understanding Mutual support Mutual resolution Join us in dropping what no longer effectively serves its purpose. Leave the ordinary world of failing institutions to enter the special world of mutual regard for each other. We easily compromise each other's wellness when reacting to conflicts with such adversarial options. Why not first try to understand what each other needs? If resisting such overtures, then we may return to these. So let's save these as options B in case our options A of mutual regard go nowhere. Empirical evil . Since natural needs exist as a natural fact, as objective phenomon indendent of their perception, we recognize evil can have an objective element independet of moral beliefs. 1. Harm to subject from powerholder 2. Benefit to powerholder from such harm 3. Motivated reasoning rationalizing harmful actions (i.e., untested assumptions) 4. Less harmful alternative possibly pursued (i.e., shift from adversarial stance to engaging mutuality) Measurable evil in us all Thank you for letting me know that you Prioritize universal principles over relative norms Instead of disappointing toxic legalism , we find more satisfaction applying universal principles we call " character refunctions ." Check the box if you envision how this problem can be resolved by applying more of this principle. Foundational relating principles Gratitude Humility Honesty Kindness Gentleness Renewing relationships principles Grace Forgiveness Atonement Mercy Justice Life challenges principles Endurance Perseverance Discipline Equanimity Resilience Reaching excellence principles Patience Trustworthiness Generosity Empathy Love Mutuality process options preferred Gratitude Humility Honesty Kindness Gentleness Grace Forgiveness Atonement Mercy Justice Endurance Perseverance Discipline Equanimity Resilience Patience Trustworthiness Generosity Empathy Love Draft how you would apply one of these principles to help solve the problem. Reply options Engage the identified need A. AFFIRM value of recipient. C. CONTINUE dialogue to nurture mutual understanding. Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. RESPONSE RANGE Firm yes Soft yes Equivocal Soft no Firm no NO REPLY Firm yes . Yes, Soft yes . Equivocal . Soft no . Firm no . No reply . Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Need-response exchanges: 4 interactive levels PERSONAL For improving your interactions with your closest friends and family members. SOCIAL For improving your interactions with colleagues, coworkers and other peers. PROFESSIONAL For improving your interactions with professionals who hold some level of control over you. OFFICIAL For improving your interactions with government personnel and official entities. Click the tabs of the powerholder entities above to follow this program's development. 1. I-need message 2. Mutuality invitation 3. Post-legalism 4. Costs & benefits 5. Liberty Commitment Law-Fit . Fit any relevant norms to the needs they ostensibly exist to serve. While no one sits above the law, no law sits above the needs it exists to serve . Laws are relatively arbitrary, while inflexible needs remain objective. Wellness easily declines where law or authority imposes upon inflexible needs. This process prioritizes inflexible needs over flexible norms, for the benefit of all involved. 1. Cite prevailing law and norms applicable to situation. 2. Cui bono? Who benefits from compliance to such norms? 3. What are the measurable results of compliance & noncompliance? Exaction Invoice Impacted needs M Anxiety costs $169 Depression costs $102 Addictiveness costs $90 Other costs $163 Needs X 3 needs $507.00 3 needs $306.00 3 needs $270.00 3 needs $489.00 Total $1.572.00 This is not a bill . This conveys the hidden costs imposed, compromising efficacy. Follow the process here. creation conditions conversion clearance certification Liberty Commitment By liberty, we mean "the freedom to fully resolve our needs in ways with minimal or no negative impact upon the needs of others". Properly resolve needs Commitment to wellness Learn More Mutuality over adversarialism Incentivized good faith intent Earned legitimacy Learn More Best practices for competitive advantage Free impact data Assumption testing Collapsible text is great for longer section titles and descriptions. It gives people access to all the info they need, while keeping your layout clean. Link your text to anything, or set your text box to expand on click. Write your text here... Resolution of needs (path/plan) Credit for contributing to improved outcomes Contribute to our preventative mental health and receive credit Download document version (PDF) I-need message . A. AFFIRM value of recipient. B. BRING up own affected need(s). C. CONTINUE dialogue to nurture mutual understanding. Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. 1. I-need message 2. Mutuality invitation 3. Law-Fit 4. Exaction Invoice 5. Liberty Commitment Law-Fit . Fit any relevant norms to the needs they ostensibly exist to serve. While no one sits above the law, no law sits above the needs it exists to serve . Laws are relatively arbitrary, while inflexible needs remain objective. Wellness easily declines where law or authority imposes upon inflexible needs. This process prioritizes inflexible needs over flexible norms, for the benefit of all involved. 1. Cite prevailing law and norms applicable to situation. 2. Cui bono? Who benefits from compliance to such norms? 3. What are the measurable results of compliance & noncompliance? Exaction Invoice Impacted needs M Anxiety costs $169 Depression costs $102 Addictiveness costs $90 Other costs $163 Needs X 3 needs $507.00 3 needs $306.00 3 needs $270.00 3 needs $489.00 Total $1.572.00 This is not a bill . This conveys the hidden costs imposed, compromising efficacy. Follow the process here. creation conditions conversion clearance certification Liberty Commitment By liberty, we mean "the freedom to fully resolve our needs in ways with minimal or no negative impact upon the needs of others". Properly resolve needs Commitment to wellness Learn More Mutuality over adversarialism Incentivized good faith intent Earned legitimacy Learn More Best practices for competitive advantage Free impact data Assumption testing Collapsible text is great for longer section titles and descriptions. It gives people access to all the info they need, while keeping your layout clean. Link your text to anything, or set your text box to expand on click. Write your text here... Resolution of needs (path/plan) Credit for contributing to improved outcomes Contribute to our preventative mental health and receive credit Download document version (PDF) I-need message . A. AFFIRM value of recipient. B. BRING up own affected need(s). C. CONTINUE dialogue to nurture mutual understanding. Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. Download document version (PDF) Powerholders: You don't know what you don't know. Introducing "I-need" messages The greatest impact on your wellness, and risk to your mental health, is not the quality of your thinking . No, it is how well your many needs can promptly and fully resolve . Much of which sits outside your personal control. The more your inflexible needs remain exposed to those with more social power than you, the more likely you suffer some needs, or many needs, not promptly or fully resolving. The less your needs resolve, the less your capacity to fully function. No amount of intellectual capacity or mindful cognition will stop those in positions of authority from negatively impacting your exposed needs. They typically remain unaware of their harmful impacts upon you. That is why this service exists. Measuring improved wellness To keep this service accountable to evidence-based outcomes, the need-messenger routinely fills out a well-check survey. It gauges their levels of anxiety, depression, and addictiveness throughout the program. The program anticipates improved outcomes in all three areas as powerholders enable the need-messenger to more fully resolve their affected needs. This effectively shifts the stigma from the good faith need-messenger to those powerholders presenting a lack of competence. This starts with capturing the need-messenger's baseline. Which provides a starting point with which we can compare later. We use this downloadable interactive spreadsheet tool as we test the viability of this service. Download wellness tool Download PDF wellness form well check-p00 well check-p01 well check-p010 well check-p00 1/11 wellcheck sample-p00 wellcheck sample-p01 wellcheck sample-p10 wellcheck sample-p00 1/11 well check article A nankelogy Foundatio n

Need-response offers this free service to directly communicate your needs to others. i-need.to How to Start How It Works Pricing Log in/Sign up How to start using this unique service What do you need? Because your every natural need exists as an objective fact. You have needs others affect. Others have needs you affect. You can't expect rules to address your every need, nor theirs. You can expect to get more out of directly expressing needs. Welcome to a new service that incentivizes you to honor their needs. And incentivizes them to honor your needs, using "I-need" messages. What do you specifically need from others? Why do you need "I-need" messages? Why? Overview Resolve needs Remove pain Restore wellness Progress naturally from communicating your specific needs to those you personally know, and who personally know you, to conveying your affected needs to officials who impact them . Overview (Every natural need exists as an objective fact ) See how addressing the objective fact of each other's needs with "I-need" messages helps each other to resolve such needs, remove pain, and restore wellness. 1) To resolve needs (instead of easing pain or mindlessly follow rules ) See how "I-need" messages take you from reacting to your painful feelings and relying on norms to responding mutually to each other's needs for the greater good of all. 2) To remove or reduce pain (by addressing the needs causing you pain ) See how using "I-need" messages can remove cause for pain, as your body no longer must warn you of threats to your wellbeing. 3) To restore wellness (and reach more of your life's full potential ) See how aptly applied "I-need" messages liberates your potential by enabling you to function more fully. Click the tabs above to learn more. Then explore the 4 different "I-need" message types below. Overview (Every natural need exists as an objective fact) Resolve needs (and not merely ease pain or mindlessly follow rules) Remove or reduce pain ( by addressing the needs causing you pain) Restore wellness ( and reach more of your life's full potential) 4 types A. Personal B. Social C. Professional D. Official Progress naturally from communicating your specific needs to those you personally know, and who personally know you, to conveying your affected needs to officials who impact them . A. I need from a personal friend ... To directly communicate a need to someone you personally know, and who personally knows you. B. I need from a social peer... To directly communicate a need to someone you don't personally know, like a coworker or colleague. C. I need from a professional... To directly communicate a need to those you depend upon for some professional service, who hold a level of power over you. D. I need from an official... To directly communicate a need to a government or institutional official, who is the only means to address your vulnerable need. Learn more by clicking the tabs above for each one. And follow the tips in the video. Communicate your affected needs to close friends and family Communicate your affected needs to coworkers, colleagues and the like. Communicate your affected needs to professionals who powerfully impact you Communicate your affected needs to government officials 4 types "I-need" messenger service A. I personally need... Private · 2 members Request To Join B. I socially need... Public · 2 members Join C. I professionally need... Public · 2 Participants Join D. I officially need... Public · 2 members Join My neighbors used to drive me crazy. All I had to do is ask them politely, using one of these "I-need" messages. We now get along almost like buddies. Robb Walters

Anankelogy is the new social science for understanding your needs. Need-response is the visionary service for overcoming barriers to resolve your stubborn needs. The Need-Response podcast introduces you to this alternative service. The Need-Responder Community coalesces to create this dynamic service for you. Solving our general problems by resolving your specific needs The new social science of anankelogy establishes your natural needs as objective facts . That's a game changer. Your inflexible needs cannot change for anyone. Not for laws. Not for authority. Not even for yourself. We start there. Learn more I-need messages prototype Need-response service Need-response seeks to solve public problems insufficiently addressed by the adversarial legal process. For example, the problem of not identifying and clearing the vast volume of wrongly convicted innocent persons in prison and beyond. The first specialized need-response service is Exoneration Services. It complements or competes with the slow moving legal process relied upon by the innocence movement . If you or someone you know is a wrongly convicted innocent person, and feel disillusioned by the innocence movement , this could be just what you need. If you are wrongly convicted and innocent of any role in the reported offense, this service is for you. Prove your innocence without lawyers Exoneration Services Learn more Solving the public problem of legalistic adversarialism by applying a more loving approach to exonerate the wrongly convicted innocent Exoneration Services Estimate the viability of your innocence claim. Get an instant result. Upload the results to create your Innocence Profile. Leverage toward Public Exoneration. Public Exoneration Establish your innocence beyond the confines of legalistic adversarialism. Engage and incentivize the public to recognize your overlooked innocence. Declaring Innocence Quickly convey your demonstrable innocence to the DA. Incentivize them to review your case based more on observable facts than law. Broadcast Innocence If the DA fails to promptly recognize your identified innocence, we take your case to the public. We let the people face the facts. Publicly Declare Innocence Let this short video introduce you to this fresh approach to justice. Learn more All programs Exoneration Services Publicly Declare Your Innocence 1 Participant $49.48 View Details Limited $20 off discount: Enter coupon code PDI-29.48. “We know without doubt that the vast majority of innocent defendants who are convicted of crimes are never identified and cleared.” - Samuel Gross, editor of the National Registry of Exonerations , as reported in 2015 in the Washington Post . [ click here to view ] F ollow the Need-Response podcast to discover what we're doing about it. The Need-Response podcast F ollow developments of this new service on our podca st every other Wednesday. Help shape it wih your input. Podcast episodes Together, we can build a more responsive alternative. How? Join the conversation every other Wednesday to learn how you can help shape this new service. Need-Responder Community Join us to help shape this pioneering service We'll not annoy you with requests to support us on Patreon. We get right to the point. By supporting this podcast, you help us build a better future for yourself. Start for free and see for yourself if this isn't what you've been yearning for . 3 Membership Tiers 1. Follower - FREE: Orientation Familiarize yourself to the potential of this new service. 2. Supporter - $5/month: Engagement Engage us to shape this into something for your needs. 3. Contributor - $25/month: Participation Help create this new service and potential for income. Learn more solving problems by resolving needs solving problems by resolving needs solving problems by resolving needs solving problems by resolving needs