i-need.to Log In How to Start How It Works Pricing Log In to Connect With Members View and follow other members, leave comments & more. Log In Good Faith Responsiveness score: Wellness aim 00 Responsiveness of the invited Firm Yes Soft Yes Equivocal Soft No Firm No no reply i # enthusiastic reciprocation # cautious reciprocation # noncommital response # not able to reciprocate at this time # never can reciprocate like this # no response after follow-up DASHBOARD: Your need-responsive exchanges text Learn More as RECEIVER of need messages as SENDER of need messages as SENDER PERSONAL needs SOCIAL needs PROFESSIONAL needs OFFICIAL needs Target TO National Storage 20260000 I need you to ensure I can access my online account Thank you for helping me restart my account. After numerous attempts and repeated trips to the local facility for help, I finally was able to access my online account. But once I logged out and try logging back in, it failed again. To experience prompted me to leave a negative review on Google Maps. I trust we can find some solution. So I can edit that review with a more positive outcome. Thank you. __ Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Need-response exchanges: 4 interactive levels PERSONAL For improving your interactions with your closest friends and family members. SOCIAL For improving your interactions with colleagues, coworkers and other peers. PROFESSIONAL For improving your interactions with professionals who hold some level of control over you. OFFICIAL For improving your interactions with government personnel and official entities. Click the tabs of the powerholder entities above to follow this program's development. Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO Peer 20260000 I need you to ensure I can access my online account Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO Peer 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO Peer 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO Peer 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Viewing this sender's personal exchanges requires membership in Sender's support circle, and agreeing to their privacy terms. Click the button below to request entry. Request to join Sender's support circle All other need-exchanges are open to the public for transparent viewing. No membership required outside of personal exchanges. as SENDER PERSONAL needs SOCIAL needs PROFESSIONAL needs OFFICIAL needs Target TO National Storage 20260000 I need you to ensure I can access my online account Thank you for helping me restart my account. After numerous attempts and repeated trips to the local facility for help, I finally was able to access my online account. But once I logged out and try logging back in, it failed again. To experience prompted me to leave a negative review on Google Maps. I trust we can find some solution. So I can edit that review with a more positive outcome. Thank you. __ Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Need-response exchanges: 4 interactive levels PERSONAL For improving your interactions with your closest friends and family members. SOCIAL For improving your interactions with colleagues, coworkers and other peers. PROFESSIONAL For improving your interactions with professionals who hold some level of control over you. OFFICIAL For improving your interactions with government personnel and official entities. Click the tabs of the powerholder entities above to follow this program's development. Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO target 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO Peer 20260000 I need you to ensure I can access my online account Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO Peer 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO Peer 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Target TO Peer 20260000 I need you Thank you for Progress toward connection steps wellness impact wellness levels impacted merit score good faith intent responsiveness gaging how responsive to needs legitimacy measurable trustworthiness Show More Target profile Viewing this sender's personal exchanges requires membership in Sender's support circle, and agreeing to their privacy terms. Click the button below to request entry. Request to join Sender's support circle All other need-exchanges are open to the public for transparent viewing. No membership required outside of personal exchanges. I need relation level charts wellness chart GFR merit Responsive Rating Law-fit Assumptions Exaction Liberty REACT - OR - RESPOND I need relation level Your impacted wellness I need... Publishing my current levels of anxiety, depression and addictiveness to expose the “inverse stigma” of powerholders negatively impacting my wellbeing. Then inviting those powerholders to seize the opportunity to shift negative impacts into positive ones. And receive credit for their improved efficacy serving their constituents, to improve their branding. Holistic Wellness self-reported measures independent measures Holistic wellness Holistic wellness includes impacts from those in positions of authority; disingenuous, privileged avoidance/alienation invert stigma from - preventative mental health - allostatic load by addressing its source, intellectually honest to the term "mental illness" serves as a synecdoche . Like the phrase "boots on the ground" or "hired hand", a portion refers to the whole thing. Unwellness occurs in part in one's mental processes, but cannot occur exclusively in one's thinking. As overwhelming external pressures decline, wellness measurably improves. Powerholders incentivized to support If powerholders can negatively impact such needs, we can turn this around to positively impact them and earn credit. Learn More Disagree mental health depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Self-reported anxiety depression addictiveness Self-reported text Learn More Disagree mental health depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for cravings generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming vainly ashamed of your obsessive cravings. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to addictive cravings. Addictiveness Addictiveness refers to any obsessive cravings , whether you act upon them or not. You can be free from any addiction and still feel overwhelmed by desires. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how constant cravings include a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you can resolve your needs because of sociocultural barriers, the more those unmet needs will opt for whatever can alleviate the desperate, unfulfilled desire. Addictions may result. There is no such thing as desire apart from the need to replenish something depleted . Disagree cravings depend on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Learn More Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for anxiety generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming needlessly ashamed of your incapacity to handle threats. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to painful anxiety. Anxiety Anankelogy defines anxiety as the body warning you that you are faced with some threat which you are not sure how to effectively handle. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how anxiety primarily involves a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you can safely handle threats presented by those in power over you, the more likely you play it safe and tolerate the increasingly intolerable. Paralyzing anxieties may soon follow. There is no such thing as pain apart from the need to remove some threat . Learn More Disagree anxiety depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for depression generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming unnecessarily ashamed for feeling immobilized. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to immobilizing depression. Depression Anankelogy defines depression as redirecting your energy from outward social foci toward an inward, neglected personal focus. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how depression includes a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you adequately nurture yourself, the more likely your body will deny you energy to give away. That's a threat to your wellbeing. Immobilization ma y soon force you to take a self-replenishing rest. There is no such thing as pain apart from the need to remove some threat . Learn More Disagree depression depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Independent identify stressors identify biomarkers allostatic load index Independent measures text REACT with laws - OR - RESPOND to needs REACT with laws - OR - RESPOND to needs Learn More Disagree mental health depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for cravings generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming vainly ashamed of your obsessive cravings. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to addictive cravings. Addictiveness Addictiveness refers to any obsessive cravings , whether you act upon them or not. You can be free from any addiction and still feel overwhelmed by desires. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how constant cravings include a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you can resolve your needs because of sociocultural barriers, the more those unmet needs will opt for whatever can alleviate the desperate, unfulfilled desire. Addictions may result. There is no such thing as desire apart from the need to replenish something depleted . Disagree cravings depend on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Learn More Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for anxiety generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming needlessly ashamed of your incapacity to handle threats. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to painful anxiety. Anxiety Anankelogy defines anxiety as the body warning you that you are faced with some threat which you are not sure how to effectively handle. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how anxiety primarily involves a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you can safely handle threats presented by those in power over you, the more likely you play it safe and tolerate the increasingly intolerable. Paralyzing anxieties may soon follow. There is no such thing as pain apart from the need to remove some threat . Learn More Disagree anxiety depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for depression generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming unnecessarily ashamed for feeling immobilized. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to immobilizing depression. Depression Anankelogy defines depression as redirecting your energy from outward social foci toward an inward, neglected personal focus. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how depression includes a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you adequately nurture yourself, the more likely your body will deny you energy to give away. That's a threat to your wellbeing. Immobilization ma y soon force you to take a self-replenishing rest. There is no such thing as pain apart from the need to remove some threat . Learn More Disagree depression depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us This is an attempt to resolve a need involving you Your "I-need" messages Learn More Rarely, do those exploiting the vulnerable realize the aggregate impact from others also exploiting the vulnerable. Eventually, the exploiters suffer some of the consequences. Until now. Instead of keeping their needs private, they post their public facing needs for all to see. To then hold the powerful accountable for their impact on their wear and tear. Not to confront them, but to offer this unique opportunity to improve their own responsiveness to such needs. To improve their professional brand. We drop adversarialism to make room for our mutuality process . Powerholders: You don't know what you don't know. Introducing "I-need" messages To restore your wellness and remove your pain, you must resolve your needs. You can resolve some of your needs on your own, but resolving most of your needs requires cooperation with others. Relying exclusively on impersonal norms like laws or policies to incentivize other's cooperation exposes you to disappointment. In fact, your current level of wellness points to likely minimal cooperation from others, who are busy struggling with their own declining degrees of wellness. The greatest impact on your wellness, and risk to your mental health, is not the quality of your thinking . No, it is how well your many needs can promptly and fully resolve . Much of which sits outside your personal control. The more your inflexible needs remain exposed to those with more social power than you, the more likely you suffer some needs, or many needs, not promptly or fully resolving. The less your needs resolve, the less your capacity to fully function. No amount of intellectual capacity or mindful cognition will stop those in positions of authority from negatively impacting your exposed needs. They typically remain unaware of their harmful impacts upon you. That is why this service exists. Measuring improved wellness To keep this service accountable to evidence-based outcomes, the need-messenger routinely fills out a well-check survey. It gauges their levels of anxiety, depression, and addictiveness throughout the program. The program anticipates improved outcomes in all three areas as powerholders enable the need-messenger to more fully resolve their affected needs. This effectively shifts the stigma from the good faith need-messenger to those powerholders presenting a lack of competence. This starts with capturing the need-messenger's baseline. Which provides a starting point with which we can compare later. We use this downloadable interactive spreadsheet tool as we test the viability of this service. Download document version (PDF) Download wellness tool Download PDF wellness form well check-p00 well check-p01 well check-p010 well check-p00 1/11 wellcheck sample-p00 wellcheck sample-p01 wellcheck sample-p10 wellcheck sample-p00 1/11 well check article A nankelogy Foundatio n

Responsivism is the belief and practice of personally responding to the needs of others instead of enaging in hostile opposition. Responsive Development Responsivism is the belief and practice that responding to the unchosen needs of others can produce more favorable results than defensive-provoking adversarial alternatives. Your every need exists as an objective fact . This truism exhorts a different approach to conflicts, to problems, and toward those in positions of power. For starters, expecting others to change their minds as a trusted way to address your needs repeatedly fails. Now we can understand why. Now we have a fresh approach, to more effectively identify and address our needs. Responsivism answers the many limitations inherent in adversarial activism. Responsivism begins with you, on a personal level. Start asking what you can do for others. No quid pro quo. Just to stretch your potential to be more giving. Activism tends to incite toxic legalism . tension between personal responsibilities and personal rights hide behind rationalizations to avoid uncomfortable exposure rely on comforting generalizations overlooking specific needs intent toward relieving pain and neglecting needs behind pain oppose each other by provoking mutual defensiveness Responsivism incentivizes mutual wellness . balances personal responsibilities with personal rights boldly self-disclose each other's vulnerable needs faithfully engages nuance to address all relevant needs intent toward resolving all needs to remove cause for pain cultivates mutual understanding of each other's needs Responsivism answers the shortcomings of legalistic activism. Replace activism with responsivism Responding to Toxic Legalism The role of law starts nobly enough. Laws impersonally convey needs where emotions personally convey needs. Problems emerge as law and authority become more important than the needs they exist to serve. Click on "Toxic legalism creeps in when..." to view each problem in more detail. Then click on the button to explore the responsive solution below. Laws hold us personally accountable. Laws curb our actions that could harm others. Toxic legalism creeps in when encouraging personal responsibility drifts into over responsibility, by overlooking collective responsibility. Problems soon arise. You can only respond to others from a capacity of others responding appropriately to you. Personal responsibility then easily slips into hyper-individualism. Illegitimate authority then targets individuals as somehow personally responsible for conditions beyond their personal control. Legalistic activism risks perpetuating such hyper-individualism by neglecting psychosocial balance between oneself and others. Responsivism counters this toxic legalistic tendency with Responsive Holism, or Holistic Responsiveness. Holistically Responsive Laws check our charged emotions wth reason. Laws ensure our interactions result in rational outcomes. Toxic legalism creeps in when rational thinking increasingly suppresses natural emotions. Problems soon arise. The more you rationalize your actions, the less honest you become with yourself and toward others. Reasoned thinking then easily slips into hyper-rationality. Illegitimate authority then allows self-rationalizations to hinder mutually safe disclosure about our honest selves. Legalistic activism risks perpetuating hyper-rationality when not encouraging each other to safely acknowledge their vulnerable limits. Their noble goals get easily coopted to serve Responsivism counters this toxic legalistic tendency with Responsive Relatability, or Relatably Responsive. Relatably Responsive Laws are kept vague to apply broadly. Laws cannot be so specific as to be excluded in some situations. Toxic legalism creeps in when vagueness becomes overgeneralizing, and overgeneralizing skips over relevant nuance of specific needs. Problems soon arise. Needs fully resolve only by fully addressing all its specific parts. Vagueness then easily slips into overgeneralizing. Illegitimate authority overgeneralizes its power when oversimplifying what must be done about each other’s needs. Legalistic activism risks perpetuating oversimplified solutions that easily magnify our public problems. Responsivism counters this toxic legalistic tendency with Responsive Specifics, or Specifically Responsive. Specifically Responsive Laws are kept impersonal to avoid favoritism. Laws must be impartiality applied to be effective. Toxic legalism creeps in when impartiality drifts into alienating avoidance, and such detachment leads to avoiding almost anything unconformable. Problems soon arise. Needs typically resolve only by meaningfully enduring its discomfort to keep you aware until that need resolves. Detachment then easily slips into normalizing discomfort avoidance. Illegitimate authority emphasizes pain relief of neglected needs over removing pain by resolving such needs. Legalistic activism risks perpetuating the mounting pain of each other’s neglected needs by normalizing such avoidance. Responsivism counters this toxic legalistic tendency with Responsive Resilience, or Resiliently Responsive. Resiliently Responsive Laws are kept punitive to compel compliance. Laws enforce social order by threatening violators with sanctions. Toxic legalism creeps in when its adversarial demeanor provokes mutual defensiveness. Problems soon arise. Authority that mindlessly coerces compliance risks reinforcing what it ostensibly opposes. Opposition then easily slips into hostilities. Illegitimate authority pits us against each other instead of encouraging us to support resolving each other’s needs. Legalistic activism risks perpetuating mutually reacting to each other by opposing each other’s inflexible needs. Responsivism counters this toxic legalistic tendency with Responsive Mutuality, or Mutually Responsive. Mutually Responsive BASE: Lay your foundation Before you try to improve your relations with others, be sure you have adequately improve yourself. Use these tools to establish the foundation of your responsiveness to each other's needs. Responsive Holism Cultivate more balance in your life and needs GO TO Responsive Relating Safely reveal more of yourself to each other GO TO Responsive Specifics Dig deeper to find the missing details of needs GO TO Responsive Resilience Stretch your capacity to bear discomfort of needs GO TO Responsive Mutuality Turn conflicts into mutual suppoort opportunities GO TO Holistically Responsive Move beyond crippling hyper-individuaism Balance your rights and responsibilities. Challenge the popular misconception of over-responsibility of hyper-individualism. See how this imbalance distorts your political outlook. Find your way back to holism again. Holistically Responsive Relatably Responsive Safely disclose more of yourself to each other Cultivate a deeper connection with your loved ones, by mutually sharing more of each other's authentic self. Grant each other opportunity to show more loving understanding. Relatably Responsive Specifically Responsive Let go of generalizations to resolve more of your needs Drill down deeper to engage the relevant nuance of your situation. Shift away from comforting generalizations to apply more and more details. Defy oversimplification to resolve more needs. Specifically Responsive Resiliently Responsive Improve your endurance to resolve needs Stretch your comfort zone. Expand your ability to embrace the natural discomfort of resolving needs. Resiliently Responsive Mutually Responsive Resolve conflicts by addressing each other's affected needs How well do you know what others need of you? How well do others know what you need of them? Replace disappointments with this proactive engagement of each other's unexpressed needs. exact Mutually Responsive Testimonials After using one of the tools above, how helpful was it for you?

< Back The Need-Response podcast 1x04 What seems to be your problem? What kinds of problems does need-response address? How is different from other options? The video will appear here in a moment Video version of the full audio podcast Show notes What kinds of problems does need-response address? How is different from other options? The Need-Response podcast Anankelogy Foundation 00:00 / 38:19 Episode transcript PDF transcript for this episode Click on the button to view the full script of this episode Featured video clips These are the video clips featured in this episode. Click on the title to view it on YouTube. You also The video will appear here in a moment The video will appear here in a moment First video feature for this episode Second video feature for this episode Audiogram shorts View the snippets of this episode we posted online. Audiogram one will appear here shortly Audiogram two will appear here shortly Audiogram three will appear here shortly Audiogram four will appear here shortly Clip 1 Clip 2 Clip 3 Clip 4 Audiogram one will appear here shortly Audiogram two will appear here shortly Audiogram three will appear here shortly Audiogram four will appear here shortly Clip 5 Clip 6 Clip 7 Clip 8 Summary update Check here for a brief update on the progress of the need-response service. 1x04 00:00 / 00:38 Engagement What seems to be your problem? Public Engagement Interact with the content of this episode by leaving a comment at our YouTube channel. Engage 1st video feature Engage 1st video feature Engage full episode We are cultivating a love-inspired culture of how best to engage each other. If we reply to your comment, or read a comment we leave for someone else, observe our uniquely responsive approach. Member Engagement You can learn more about how we cultivate more of our potential to be more loving toward one another by engaging us, and each other, by becoming a member of the Need-Responder Community . You can start for free, as a Follower . Follow the development of the need-response serve. Give your input Become a Supporter to help shape this new service. Engage us personally. Become an invested Contributor to help co-create this new service. Become one of its first professionals. Explore your membership options More Engagement NRC Follower $0 $ 0 Follow developments of creating this service Valid until canceled Select Receive updates on this service’s progress We engage your feedback on its development Follow its development Choose one that works for you best Already a Follower? Follower? Upgrade to join the discussion! Discuss at Need-Response creation forum text We invite you, financially invested subscribers, to give us your feedback to this episode. And to discuss its content amongst yourselves. If you are a Follower, you can upgrade your subscription to join the discussion here . Already a Supporter? text Follower? Upgrade to join the discussion! Discuss at Need-Response creation forum More Engagement NRC Supporter $5 $ 5 Every month Invest and co-create the need-response service Valid until canceled 7 day free trial Select Receive updates on service’s progress Engage your feedback on its development Apply your ideas to the service Vote on decisions shaping service Support its development Choose one that works for you best More Engagement NRC Contributor $25 $ 25 Every month Take the lead in developing this much needed service Valid until canceled 7 day free trial Select Receive updates on service’s progress Engage your feedback on its development Apply your ideas to the service Vote on decisions shaping service Test the need-response service Shape the need-response service Contribute to its development Choose one that works for you best Already a Contributor? Follower? Upgrade to join the discussion! text Discuss at Need-Response creation forum Next time In the next episode, we take you further into the journey of creating this pioneering service for you, with your helpful input. Previous episode Next episode

< Back The Need-Response podcast 1x07 Does innocence even matter? Steph opens up about the wrongful conviction still hampering their full potential. The video will appear here in a moment Video version of the full audio podcast Show notes Steph opens up about the wrongful conviction still hampering their full potential. The Need-Response podcast Anankelogy Foundation 00:00 / 37:30 Episode transcript PDF transcript for this episode Click on the button to view the full script of this episode Featured video clips These are the video clips featured in this episode. Click on the title to view it on YouTube. You also The video will appear here in a moment The video will appear here in a moment First video feature for this episode Second video feature for this episode Audiogram shorts View the snippets of this episode we posted online. Audiogram one will appear here shortly Audiogram two will appear here shortly Audiogram three will appear here shortly Audiogram four will appear here shortly Clip 1 Clip 2 Clip 3 Clip 4 Audiogram one will appear here shortly Audiogram two will appear here shortly Audiogram three will appear here shortly Audiogram four will appear here shortly Clip 5 Clip 6 Clip 7 Clip 8 Summary update Check here for a brief update on the progress of the need-response service. 1x07 Summary update 00:00 / 00:38 Summary update Engagement Does innocence even matter? Public Engagement Interact with the content of this episode by leaving a comment at our YouTube channel. Engage 1st video feature Engage 1st video feature Engage full episode We are cultivating a love-inspired culture of how best to engage each other. If we reply to your comment, or read a comment we leave for someone else, observe our uniquely responsive approach. Member Engagement You can learn more about how we cultivate more of our potential to be more loving toward one another by engaging us, and each other, by becoming a member of the Need-Responder Community . You can start for free, as a Follower . Follow the development of the need-response serve. Give your input Become a Supporter to help shape this new service. Engage us personally. Become an invested Contributor to help co-create this new service. Become one of its first professionals. Explore your membership options More Engagement NRC Follower $0 $ 0 Follow developments of creating this service Valid until canceled Select Receive updates on this service’s progress We engage your feedback on its development Follow its development Choose one that works for you best Already a Follower? Follower? Upgrade to join the discussion! Discuss at Need-Response creation forum text We invite you, financially invested subscribers, to give us your feedback to this episode. And to discuss its content amongst yourselves. If you are a Follower, you can upgrade your subscription to join the discussion here . Already a Supporter? text Follower? Upgrade to join the discussion! Discuss at Need-Response creation forum More Engagement NRC Supporter $5 $ 5 Every month Invest and co-create the need-response service Valid until canceled 7 day free trial Select Receive updates on service’s progress Engage your feedback on its development Apply your ideas to the service Vote on decisions shaping service Support its development Choose one that works for you best More Engagement NRC Contributor $25 $ 25 Every month Take the lead in developing this much needed service Valid until canceled 7 day free trial Select Receive updates on service’s progress Engage your feedback on its development Apply your ideas to the service Vote on decisions shaping service Test the need-response service Shape the need-response service Contribute to its development Choose one that works for you best Already a Contributor? Follower? Upgrade to join the discussion! text Discuss at Need-Response creation forum Next time In the next episode, we take you further into the journey of creating this pioneering service for you, with your helpful input. Previous episode Next episode

This platform serves as the go-to place for learning about the new profession of need-response, and its academic backing of anankelogy, the study of need. This platform is part social platform, so let's look at how you can start your exploration of this site has to offer to you. What You Can Do Here Welcome to a new way to appreciate each other’s needs. The Anankelogy Foundation is a brand new organization. But we already have a system in place to onboard you into a budding movement. Let the steps below serve as your guide for your level of interest. Focusing on the wrongly convicted innocent 1. When first checking out our website, we invite Visitors to follow our lively need-responsive discussions, at our Engagement forum ; to explore our inspiring need-responsive principles . and to explore the advantages of singing up as a site member. 2. When signing up to join us, we invite Members to reply to posts in the Engagement forum ; to create your own need-responsive posts in the forum ; join our Need-Responder Community ; and to go to our Need-Responsive Community groups page and join groups of interest. 3. When ready to be a need-responder, we invite Participants to develop their life’s need-responsive potential by progressing through our development programs . The first one is free. The second costs less than a cup of coffee. NR101 – to expand your discomfort zone. NR201 – to turn conflicts into opportunities. NR301 – to speak truth to power. NR401 – to transform social structures. 4. When ready to go the next level, we invite Qualified need-responders to help us establish a pool of competent need-responders equipped to help others more fully resolve their needs; to position themselves to be hired by powerholders who need us to improve their branding and for data impact to gage their leadership reach. These aspects have to be built for this site. So stay tuned.

Before you break up with your partner, consider if you're merely in a transitional season. It's natural to need some time away to regroup yourself. Then be reenergized to return to that relationship you've invested some much of yourself. Download this free tool and discover the naturally cyclic seasons of your relationships. About Introducing Anankelogy the book: You NEED This Anankelogy Principles Glossary Politically Homeless Optimal Politics OP Interest Need-response Need-responders Community Engagement Book Online Groups Development PH Relationally Responsive Realize how your relationships naturally cycle through seasons. Download "relationally responsive" interactive tool fresh approach - download DOWNLOAD Download this free interactive spreadsheet tool. Be sure to click 'Enable editing' so you can use it on your own device. ENTER Enter your birthdate in the white field at the top right off the downloaded document. This instantly fills in the relevant text. DISCOVER Scroll down and read the details of your life unfold with fresh insight. See the season you're in right now. Don't quit just yet! Before you break up for good with your romantic partner, realize what's going on at a deeper natural level. The "seven year itch " arrives about the time you naturally yearn for a greater return on your emotional investments. You hit the "autumn" of your relationship cycle. Nature compels you to attend your neglected self-needs . Your social needs will have to wait. Just because you need to winter in solitude for a while doesn't mean the relationship is over. Endure this natural shift and your relationship can rebound much stronger in its upcoming spring . Your natural 'focal cycle' Anankelogy identifies how you must shift your focus on different needs as they arise. This 'focal cycle' Prefocal : A need gradually comes into your awareness. Focal : A need takes center stage to be addressed. Defocal : Once addressed, it slips from awareness. Nonfocal : Once resolved, it drops from awareness. Until evoked again. Rince and repeat. As your self-needs resolve in your personal winter , your less addressed social needs "prefocal" in your relational spring . Nature ensures you focus on each set of needs in their proper season. To ensure the wellness of your psychosocial balance . Recognize the season you're now in The Western mindset generally assumes your relationships progress in a linear fashion. While moving forward in a linear direction, anankelogy appreciates how your relationships also cycle around in familiar seasons of growth. You likely don't anticipate your relationships' cyclic pattern. You may be surprised by feeling passion one moment and then disappointment soon after. Let this tool's indigenous appreciation of cycles help you reconnect with the nature within. Reconnect with nature Everyone has indigenous roots. Look back to your own tribal beginnings to appreciate these cycles. While this learns from some of the pan-Indigenous teachings of the medicine wheel that has seeped into New Age ideas and practices, anankelogy affirms anyone's openness to reconnect with the balancing power of nature in terms familiar to them. But also warns to respect specific tribal peoples by not coopting their culture for one's own personal use. We will let nature balance us in the process. Two columns layout When opening the spreadsheet, you see two parallel columns. Reading down the left column provides context for the meat of this tool on the right. The text down the right column specifically applies to you, after you enter your birthdate. Simply enter your birthdate As soon as you add your birthdate, the text in the pages below it fill in with content specific to the seasonal cycles of your life. Each page covers a progressing cycle in your life. Each of these covers your relationships, development, and your evolving "psychosocial orientation ". For 20 such cycles that could unfold in your life. Enter the birthdate of your friend and see how things line up. Or doesn't quite align. That could shed light on some conflicts you find yourself in. A 4- to 6-year cycle This tool is set at the default of a five-year cycle. I learned this from a source that cited a four-year cycle in this recurring pattern. But I observed a five-year cycle in my life. The first person I applied this to, beside myself, also presented a five-year cycle. If the pattern doesn't quite fit you, change the number here until you find it fits your life. 25 optional questions Select how well it applies Respond to all 25 items 25 optional questions 1/3 Optional 25 items You don't have to answers any of these items for the text to automatically fill in below. If you do answer all 25 items, the text for your current cycle changes accordingly. Click on each white field and select the best option from the drown list. Indicate how true each item applies to you. Then scroll down to the current season you are in. This speaks directly to your current psychosocial orientation , which informs your political outlook. Your psychosocial needs How well you can resolve your self-needs relative to your social needs affects your political outlook. The more you can resolve both on par with each other, the less less emotional strain. You either enjoy psychosocial balance , or suffer some kind of psychosocial imbalance . Your psychosocial orientation The more you can resolve both on par with each other, the less vulnerable to getting pulled into political extremes. So let's unpack our political differences . And let our psychosocial wellness heal us from much of our social and political brokenness. Left column Read through this content to gain perspective of your life's natural seasons. Let it give you proper context for what you're going through in life right now. Gain deeper insight into life. You could skip this column and still gain value if jumping right into the right column content. If that material raises any questions, you can come back here to get some perspective. 4 Seasons_01 4 Seasons_02 4 Seasons_21 4 Seasons_01 1/21 4 Seasons_24 4 Seasons_25 4 Seasons_44 4 Seasons_24 1/21 Right column Here you find the meat of this insightful tool. Read each page to discover the seasons you cycle in and out of. See your past cycles with 20-20 hindsight. Open yourself to epiphanies about your current cycles. Take a look at the patterns you can anticipate in the future. Discover how to work with nature, so nature can work her best in you. Work with nature so nature works with you Currently requires MS Excel or reader to utilize. After you download the spreadsheet, it will open in PROTECTED VIEW. Click on Enable Editing to start using it. The form will not work until you do. Ready to try a new way? 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< Back The Need-Response podcast 1x05 How well is your wellbeing? We define wellness as your ability to fully function. Not by relieving pain but removing cause for pain. The video will appear here in a moment Video version of the full audio podcast Show notes We define wellness as your ability to fully function. Not by relieving pain but removing cause for pain. The Need-Response podcast Anankelogy Foundation 00:00 / 42:38 Episode transcript PDF transcript for this episode Click on the button to view the full script of this episode Featured video clips These are the video clips featured in this episode. Click on the title to view it on YouTube. You also The video will appear here in a moment The video will appear here in a moment First video feature for this episode Second video feature for this episode Audiogram shorts View the snippets of this episode we posted online. Audiogram one will appear here shortly Audiogram two will appear here shortly Audiogram three will appear here shortly Audiogram four will appear here shortly Clip 1 Clip 2 Clip 3 Clip 4 Audiogram one will appear here shortly Audiogram two will appear here shortly Audiogram three will appear here shortly Audiogram four will appear here shortly Clip 5 Clip 6 Clip 7 Clip 8 Summary update Check here for a brief update on the progress of the need-response service. 1x05 00:00 / 00:38 Engagement How well is your wellbeing? Public Engagement Interact with the content of this episode by leaving a comment at our YouTube channel. Engage 1st video feature Engage 1st video feature Engage full episode We are cultivating a love-inspired culture of how best to engage each other. If we reply to your comment, or read a comment we leave for someone else, observe our uniquely responsive approach. Member Engagement You can learn more about how we cultivate more of our potential to be more loving toward one another by engaging us, and each other, by becoming a member of the Need-Responder Community . You can start for free, as a Follower . Follow the development of the need-response serve. Give your input Become a Supporter to help shape this new service. Engage us personally. Become an invested Contributor to help co-create this new service. Become one of its first professionals. Explore your membership options More Engagement NRC Follower $0 $ 0 Follow developments of creating this service Valid until canceled Select Receive updates on this service’s progress We engage your feedback on its development Follow its development Choose one that works for you best Already a Follower? Follower? Upgrade to join the discussion! Discuss at Need-Response creation forum text We invite you, financially invested subscribers, to give us your feedback to this episode. And to discuss its content amongst yourselves. If you are a Follower, you can upgrade your subscription to join the discussion here . Already a Supporter? text Follower? Upgrade to join the discussion! Discuss at Need-Response creation forum More Engagement NRC Supporter $5 $ 5 Every month Invest and co-create the need-response service Valid until canceled 7 day free trial Select Receive updates on service’s progress Engage your feedback on its development Apply your ideas to the service Vote on decisions shaping service Support its development Choose one that works for you best More Engagement NRC Contributor $25 $ 25 Every month Take the lead in developing this much needed service Valid until canceled 7 day free trial Select Receive updates on service’s progress Engage your feedback on its development Apply your ideas to the service Vote on decisions shaping service Test the need-response service Shape the need-response service Contribute to its development Choose one that works for you best Already a Contributor? Follower? Upgrade to join the discussion! text Discuss at Need-Response creation forum Next time In the next episode, we take you further into the journey of creating this pioneering service for you, with your helpful input. Previous episode Next episode

React Culture React culture consists of any social or cultural norm privileging anything less than properly resolving needs . react culture - privileged reactions Privileged reaction # 20 Normative alienation Standardizing estrangement from each other. properly resolving needs Normative alienation 8/8/26 1 Normative alienation Atomization culture Accountability diffusion Degraded social contract Indulgent side-taking Pathological pragmatism Projected antagonism Structural exaction Hyperrationality culture Ascribed legitimacy Dysfunction pathway Manipulative deception Permitted evil Pseudo-rationality Zero-sum thinking Hyperbole culture Bothsidesism misuse Excessive resourcing Mass institution mission creep Petty arguing debate Relativizing universal wisdom Avoidance culture Coerced compliance Gaslighting Moral conflation Premature defensiveness Self-incriminating denials Oppo culture Coerced poor options dependence Humanity loathing Normative alienation Privileged avoidance Shame shifting

Power Problems Power problems occur when impactors impede impactees trying to properly resolve needs . power problems & power-impacted needs properly resolving needs Power problem ID: A05 Universal Cultural Incompetence Insensitive to valuable differences cultural incompetence cultural competency < previous next > Cultural Incompetence Neglecting the impactee’s culturally different values or perspectives, where the impactor potentially pressures the impactee to fit into their cookie cutter cultural norms. The impactee may rightly fear some form of retribution for not fitting into the impactor’s cultural expectation. Or feel their full value remains overlooked and their contributions routinely neglected. cultural competency The further along the cultural competence continuum , the more trustworthy the impactor to those vulnerable impactees who valuably exist and properly act outside of mainstream cultural norms. Whether a healthcare provider or a different impactor, the impactor's responsiveness to impactee cultural differences fall along a recognized continuum: Stage 1. Cultural Destructiveness Stage 2. Cultural Incapacity Stage 3. Cultural Blindness Stage 4. Cultural Precompetence Stage 5. Cultural Competence and Proficiency Need-response can guide the targeted impactor to improve their cultural competency by walking them through the need-response process with an impactee. The impactor learns to appreciate the impactee's hidden value and how to properly address anything that is not appropriate simply because it is culturally different. The impactee can then contribute more of their full value when free to be their authentic selves. And their differentness can invite the impactor to inquire if the impactee sees something that the impactor cannot through the lens of their own familiarity bias. The impactor then earns legitimacy to reliably impact impactees who are culturally different from oneself. And gain competitive legitimacy when tapping into impactees' unique perspectives. Cultural Incompetence Corrupting Influence Cognitive Contraction Coercive Compliance Coerced Poor Options Dependence

< Back The Need-Response podcast 1x03 Where does it hurt? Do you settle for options that merely ease your pain? Why not let us help remove its cause? The video will appear here in a moment Video version of the full audio podcast Show notes Do you settle for options that merely ease your pain? Why not let us help remove its cause? The Need-Response podcast Anankelogy Foundation 00:00 / 42:03 Only need-response understands your pain can only exist from your unresolved needs. Only need-response exhausts all means to help you resolve those needs. Episode transcript PDF transcript for this episode Click on the button to view the full script of this episode Featured video clips These are the video clips featured in this episode. Click on the title to view it on YouTube. You also The video will appear here in a moment The video will appear here in a moment First video feature for this episode Second video feature for this episode Audiogram shorts View the snippets of this episode we posted online. Audiogram one will appear here shortly Audiogram two will appear here shortly Audiogram three will appear here shortly Audiogram four will appear here shortly Clip 1 Clip 2 Clip 3 Clip 4 Audiogram one will appear here shortly Audiogram two will appear here shortly Audiogram three will appear here shortly Audiogram four will appear here shortly Clip 5 Clip 6 Clip 7 Clip 8 Summary update Check here for a brief update on the progress of the need-response service. 1x03 00:00 / 00:38 Engagement Where does it hurt? Public Engagement Interact with the content of this episode by leaving a comment at our YouTube channel. Engage 1st video feature Engage 1st video feature Engage full episode We are cultivating a love-inspired culture of how best to engage each other. If we reply to your comment, or read a comment we leave for someone else, observe our uniquely responsive approach. Member Engagement You can learn more about how we cultivate more of our potential to be more loving toward one another by engaging us, and each other, by becoming a member of the Need-Responder Community . You can start for free, as a Follower . Follow the development of the need-response serve. Give your input Become a Supporter to help shape this new service. Engage us personally. Become an invested Contributor to help co-create this new service. Become one of its first professionals. Explore your membership options More Engagement NRC Follower $0 $ 0 Follow developments of creating this service Valid until canceled Select Receive updates on this service’s progress We engage your feedback on its development Follow its development Choose one that works for you best Already a Follower? Follower? Upgrade to join the discussion! Discuss at Need-Response creation forum text We invite you, financially invested subscribers, to give us your feedback to this episode. And to discuss its content amongst yourselves. If you are a Follower, you can upgrade your subscription to join the discussion here . Already a Supporter? text Follower? Upgrade to join the discussion! Discuss at Need-Response creation forum More Engagement NRC Supporter $5 $ 5 Every month Invest and co-create the need-response service Valid until canceled 7 day free trial Select Receive updates on service’s progress Engage your feedback on its development Apply your ideas to the service Vote on decisions shaping service Support its development Choose one that works for you best More Engagement NRC Contributor $25 $ 25 Every month Take the lead in developing this much needed service Valid until canceled 7 day free trial Select Receive updates on service’s progress Engage your feedback on its development Apply your ideas to the service Vote on decisions shaping service Test the need-response service Shape the need-response service Contribute to its development Choose one that works for you best Already a Contributor? Follower? Upgrade to join the discussion! text Discuss at Need-Response creation forum Next time In the next episode, we take you further into the journey of creating this pioneering service for you, with your helpful input. Previous episode Next episode

Follow the process from normalized perpetuating of problems, pathology and pain to cultivating mutual support for each other's affected needs. For greater wellness of us all. i-need.to How to Start How It Works Pricing Log in/Sign up How It Works I need... Publishing my current levels of anxiety, depression and addictiveness to expose the “inverse stigma” of powerholders negatively impacting my wellbeing. Then inviting those powerholders to seize the opportunity to shift negative impacts into positive ones. And receive credit for their improved efficacy serving their constituents, to improve their branding. Follow the process from normalized perpetuating of problems, pathology and pain to cultivating mutual support for each other's affected needs. For greater wellness of us all. slider Holistic Wellness self-reported measures independent measures Holistic wellness Holistic wellness includes impacts from those in positions of authority; disingenuous, privileged avoidance/alienation invert stigma from - preventative mental health - allostatic load by addressing its source, intellectually honest to the term "mental illness" serves as a synecdoche . Like the phrase "boots on the ground" or "hired hand", a portion refers to the whole thing. Unwellness occurs in part in one's mental processes, but cannot occur exclusively in one's thinking. As overwhelming external pressures decline, wellness measurably improves. Powerholders incentivized to support If powerholders can negatively impact such needs, we can turn this around to positively impact them and earn credit. Learn More Disagree mental health depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Self-reported anxiety depression addictiveness Self-reported text Learn More Disagree mental health depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for cravings generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming vainly ashamed of your obsessive cravings. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to addictive cravings. Addictiveness Addictiveness refers to any obsessive cravings , whether you act upon them or not. You can be free from any addiction and still feel overwhelmed by desires. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how constant cravings include a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you can resolve your needs because of sociocultural barriers, the more those unmet needs will opt for whatever can alleviate the desperate, unfulfilled desire. Addictions may result. There is no such thing as desire apart from the need to replenish something depleted . Disagree cravings depend on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Learn More Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for anxiety generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming needlessly ashamed of your incapacity to handle threats. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to painful anxiety. Anxiety Anankelogy defines anxiety as the body warning you that you are faced with some threat which you are not sure how to effectively handle. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how anxiety primarily involves a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you can safely handle threats presented by those in power over you, the more likely you play it safe and tolerate the increasingly intolerable. Paralyzing anxieties may soon follow. There is no such thing as pain apart from the need to remove some threat . Learn More Disagree anxiety depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for depression generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming unnecessarily ashamed for feeling immobilized. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to immobilizing depression. Depression Anankelogy defines depression as redirecting your energy from outward social foci toward an inward, neglected personal focus. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how depression includes a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you adequately nurture yourself, the more likely your body will deny you energy to give away. That's a threat to your wellbeing. Immobilization ma y soon force you to take a self-replenishing rest. There is no such thing as pain apart from the need to remove some threat . Learn More Disagree depression depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Independent identify stressors identify biomarkers allostatic load index Independent measures text Learn More Disagree mental health depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for cravings generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming vainly ashamed of your obsessive cravings. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to addictive cravings. Addictiveness Addictiveness refers to any obsessive cravings , whether you act upon them or not. You can be free from any addiction and still feel overwhelmed by desires. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how constant cravings include a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you can resolve your needs because of sociocultural barriers, the more those unmet needs will opt for whatever can alleviate the desperate, unfulfilled desire. Addictions may result. There is no such thing as desire apart from the need to replenish something depleted . Disagree cravings depend on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Learn More Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for anxiety generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming needlessly ashamed of your incapacity to handle threats. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to painful anxiety. Anxiety Anankelogy defines anxiety as the body warning you that you are faced with some threat which you are not sure how to effectively handle. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how anxiety primarily involves a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you can safely handle threats presented by those in power over you, the more likely you play it safe and tolerate the increasingly intolerable. Paralyzing anxieties may soon follow. There is no such thing as pain apart from the need to remove some threat . Learn More Disagree anxiety depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Standard understanding The conventional psychological explanation for depression generally emphasizes the personal behavior aspect. When overlooking external factors beyond your personal control, you risk becoming unnecessarily ashamed for feeling immobilized. Need-response counters with a holistic approach that balances internal with external contributors to immobilizing depression. Depression Anankelogy defines depression as redirecting your energy from outward social foci toward an inward, neglected personal focus. Holistic understanding Anankelogy appreciates how depression includes a social element. Wellness is psychosocial . The less you adequately nurture yourself, the more likely your body will deny you energy to give away. That's a threat to your wellbeing. Immobilization ma y soon force you to take a self-replenishing rest. There is no such thing as pain apart from the need to remove some threat . Learn More Disagree depression depends on both internal and external factors? Feel free to provide disconfirming evidence. Contact us Your "I-need" messages Learn More Rarely, do those exploiting the vulnerable realize the aggregate impact from others also exploiting the vulnerable. Eventually, the exploiters suffer some of the consequences. Until now. Instead of keeping their needs private, they post their public facing needs for all to see. To then hold the powerful accountable for their impact on their wear and tear. Not to confront them, but to offer this unique opportunity to improve their own responsiveness to such needs. To improve their professional brand. We drop adversarialism to make room for our mutuality process . Your need-responsive interactions Learn More text 4 TYPES: PERSONAL interactions SOCIAL interactions PROFESSIONAL interactions OFFICIAL interactions 1. I-need message 2. Mutuality invitation 3. Post-legalism 4. Earned legitimacy 5. Liberty Commitment 3.1 Law-fit 3.2 Assumptions Checking 3.3 Toxic legalism 3.4 Segue to resolution 3.5 authority While no one sits above the law, no law sits above the inflexible needs they exist to serve. Here, we fit laws to the needs they ostensibly exist to serve. Law-fit 1. Cited law, rule, policy, social norm 2. Stated purpose for such a behavioral standard 3. Actual impact from attempts to enforce it Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. Assumption Testing Almost all of our beliefs include some error . Most of the time, such errors remain insignificant. But occasionally, acting upon inaccurate assumptions can cause trouble. Sometimes more for others you impact than for yourself. Those in a position of power tend to hold onto unchecked assumptions harmful to those they impact. It can be safer for the relatively vulnerable to tolerate such errant assumptions than risk threats when speaking up. This service instills the discipline of critical thinking to test our comforting beliefs. This process checks each other's assumptions using the tools of artificial intelligence. Open the AI tool of your choice and type in the phrase "critique the assumption that" and follow with the assumption you or others take for granted. Here are some impactful examples using Google's Gemini AI. Critique the assumption that... might makes right people choose their political values from rational choice reasoning empathizing with both sides of a debate is bothsidesism or false moral equivalency emotions bias our thinking (actually, desperate needs prioritize relief-seeking, conveyed in emotions) the adversarial judicial system rarely convicts an innocent person willpower should be enough to overcome my cravings authority comes exclusively from law conflicts are a zero-sum outcome in which only one side can win we must have law and order to keep our depraved natures in check mental health occurs primarily in one's mind and in one's chosen behaviors morality is relative, so individuals must decide what is right and wrong on their own it is good to challenge others' beliefs to keep them honest Other assumptions to test yourself: "critique the assumption that ______" we must focus on individual deviation from behavioral norms since these are enough to sustain wellness wellness can be achieved by relieving pain without trying to understand what prompted the pain we must maintain law and order for a functioning society political platforms will provide satisfying results for my life people are generally stupid people are typically gullible and easily persuaded people are generally untrustworthy people would lie, cheat and steal if it wasn't for law enforcement law enforcement keep the public safe you can change someone's political stance with the right persuasive argument Testing your untested assumptions Powerholders acting on such poor assumptions risk exacting value from the relatively less powerful. Which undermines the powerholder's legitimacy. Disingenuous democracy From adversarial law to mutual principle The adversarial law-based approach tends to favor those with better access to legal services. Gaining a legal win at the expense of the less privileged provides a short-term gain that cannot last, since inflexible needs will assert themselves. Both sides waste resources better invested in mutual understanding and support, to nurture the wellness of us all. 3.3.1 Adversarialism to... 3.3.2 Alienation to... 3.3.3 Overgeneralizing to... 3.3.4. Hyperrationality to... 3.3.5 Hyper-individualism to... By what authority? The This mutuality process, as a viable alternative to the bias-riddled adversarial legal process, offers to restore legitimacy. By measurably earning trustworthiness, when cooperatively supporting the need-messenger's identified need(s). Next, improve your branding by demonstrating efficacy in enabling the need-messenger to resolve the identified need. From adversarial law to mutual principle The adversarial law-based approach tends to favor those with better access to legal services. Gaining a legal win at the expense of the less privileged provides a short-term gain that cannot last, since inflexible needs will assert themselves. Both sides waste resources better invested in mutual understanding and support, to nurture the wellness of us all. 4.1 Ascribed legitimacy 4.2 Manifest llegitimacy 4.3 Exaction invoice 4.4 Earned legitimacy 5.5 Legitimacy testimonials Initiatial "I-need" message A. AFFIRM value of recipient. B. BRING up own affected need(s). C. CONTINUE dialogue to nurture mutual understanding. Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. Follow-up reminder "I-need" message A. AFFIRM value of recipient. B. BRING up own affected need(s). C. CONTINUE dialogue to nurture mutual understanding. Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. Text Exaction Invoice Impacted needs M Anxiety costs $169 Needs X 3 needs $507.00 Depression costs $102 3 needs $306.00 Addictiveness costs $90 3 needs $270.00 Other costs $163 3 needs $489.00 Total $1.572.00 This is not a bill . This conveys the hidden costs imposed, compromising efficacy. Follow the process here. creation conditions conversion clearance certification 4.3.1 creation 4.3.2 conditions 4.3.3 conversion 4.3.4 clearance 4.3.5 certification Initiatial "I-need" message A. AFFIRM value of recipient. B. BRING up own affected need(s). C. CONTINUE dialogue to nurture mutual understanding. Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. Follow-up reminder "I-need" message A. AFFIRM value of recipient. B. BRING up own affected need(s). C. CONTINUE dialogue to nurture mutual understanding. Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Reply options Engage the identified need A. AFFIRM value of recipient. C. CONTINUE dialogue to nurture mutual understanding. Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. Rated responsiveness We rate each other's responsiveness to needs, starting with the need-messenger's need for you to acknowledge their "I-need" message. Earned legitimacy Anankelogy , the study of need, distinguishes between manipulable "ascribed legitimacy" and evidence-based "earned legitimacy". RESPONSE RANGE Firm yes Soft yes Equivocal Soft no Firm no NO REPLY Firm yes . Yes, Soft yes . Equivocal . Soft no . Firm no . No reply . Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Liberty Commitment By liberty , we mean "the freedom to fully resolve our needs in ways with minimal or no negative impact upon the needs of others". In other words, to properly resolve needs essential to sustain wellness and remove cause for debilitating pain Learn More Properly resolve needs Commitment to wellness Collapsible text is great for longer section titles and descriptions. It gives people access to all the info they need, while keeping your layout clean. 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Write your text here... Assumption testing Collapsible text is great for longer section titles and descriptions. It gives people access to all the info they need, while keeping your layout clean. Link your text to anything, or set your text box to expand on click. Write your text here... Credit for contributing to improved outcomes Contribute to our preventative mental health and receive credit Proceeding NRI NOI MOU NRA Proceeding responsiveness to inflexible needs NRI : Need Response Introduction . NOI : Notice of Intent to properly resolve needs. MOU : Memorandum of Understanding to NRA : Need Response Action to 1.1 Initial "I-need" message 1.2 Follow-up reminder 1.3 Auto-reply message 1.4 Engaging the need 1.5 Response options Initiatial "I-need" message A. AFFIRM value of recipient. B. BRING up own affected need(s). C. CONTINUE dialogue to nurture mutual understanding. Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. Follow-up reminder "I-need" message A. AFFIRM value of recipient. B. BRING up own affected need(s). C. CONTINUE dialogue to nurture mutual understanding. Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. Thank you for letting me know that you Welcome to the “I-need” message service. You recently received an expressed need from SENDER’S NAME . Thank you for promptly acknowledging receipt of this new way to improve relations. The more we know what each other specifically needs, the better we can relate to each other. They await your reply to the substance of the need itself, as expressed here: “I need you to _____________________________________________ .” You can reply with one of these options: 1. Firm yes . You can help them address this need now or very soon. 2. Soft yes . You might be able to help them with this need if you had more information. 3. Equivocal . You remain uncertain if you can help them with this need or not. 4. Soft no . You cannot help them with this need at this time. 5. Firm no . You cannot help them with this need indefinitely. No reply will be interpreted as a Firm no. But we anticipate you will choose one of these options to sustain mutual rapport, for when you are in need and require their support. Thank you for utilizing this service. next step in this process Reply options Engage the identified need A. AFFIRM value of recipient. C. CONTINUE dialogue to nurture mutual understanding. Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. RESPONSE RANGE Firm yes Soft yes Equivocal Soft no Firm no NO REPLY Firm yes . Yes, Soft yes . Equivocal . Soft no . Firm no . No reply . Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Mutuality invitation 2.1 Mutuality journey 2.2 Admitting evil 2.3 Universal principles 2.4 Engaging needs 2.5 Response options Mutuality invitation Leaving the ordinary world of toxic legalism The standard adversarial legal process generally seeks to oppose one another to endure diminished ability to function and to relieve the resulting pain . Is this the justice you seek? This typically neglects the unmet needs prompting the pain, while diminishing each other's full potential. This risks trapping each other in diminished wellness and pain . Is that what you want? The more this contacted powerholder agrees to shift from such an adversarial approach, the more confidently the need-messenger can let go of their standard adversarial options. Adversarial options to drop Adversarial options waived Ethics complaint Negative online review Lawsuit Presenteeism Civil disobedience Industry codes Tax escrow Institutional review board Better Business Bureau Alternative Dispute Resolution Ombudsman Adversarial options waived Ethics complaint Negative online review Lawsuit Consumer Reporting Agency Entering the special world of mutual regard The mutuality process specifically equips both sides to resolve needs to restore wellness and to remove pain . Why provoke each other's defensiveness? Instead, we can mutually replace hostile activism with engaging "responsivism" that incentivizes social love toward each other. Instead of disappointing toxic legalism , we find more satisfaction applying universal principles we call "character refunctions ." Mutuality process options preferred Mutual regard Mutual understanding Mutual support Mutual resolution Join us in dropping what no longer effectively serves its purpose. Leave the ordinary world of failing institutions to enter the special world of mutual regard for each other. We easily compromise each other's wellness when reacting to conflicts with such adversarial options. Why not first try to understand what each other needs? If resisting such overtures, then we may return to these. So let's save these as options B in case our options A of mutual regard go nowhere. Empirical evil . Since natural needs exist as a natural fact, as objective phenomon indendent of their perception, we recognize evil can have an objective element independet of moral beliefs. 1. Harm to subject from powerholder 2. Benefit to powerholder from such harm 3. Motivated reasoning rationalizing harmful actions (i.e., untested assumptions) 4. Less harmful alternative possibly pursued (i.e., shift from adversarial stance to engaging mutuality) Measurable evil in us all Thank you for letting me know that you Prioritize universal principles over relative norms Instead of disappointing toxic legalism , we find more satisfaction applying universal principles we call " character refunctions ." Check the box if you envision how this problem can be resolved by applying more of this principle. Foundational relating principles Gratitude Humility Honesty Kindness Gentleness Renewing relationships principles Grace Forgiveness Atonement Mercy Justice Life challenges principles Endurance Perseverance Discipline Equanimity Resilience Reaching excellence principles Patience Trustworthiness Generosity Empathy Love Mutuality process options preferred Gratitude Humility Honesty Kindness Gentleness Grace Forgiveness Atonement Mercy Justice Endurance Perseverance Discipline Equanimity Resilience Patience Trustworthiness Generosity Empathy Love Draft how you would apply one of these principles to help solve the problem. Reply options Engage the identified need A. AFFIRM value of recipient. C. CONTINUE dialogue to nurture mutual understanding. Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. RESPONSE RANGE Firm yes Soft yes Equivocal Soft no Firm no NO REPLY Firm yes . Yes, Soft yes . Equivocal . Soft no . Firm no . No reply . Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Thank you for letting me know that you what this means next step in this process Need-response exchanges: 4 interactive levels PERSONAL For improving your interactions with your closest friends and family members. SOCIAL For improving your interactions with colleagues, coworkers and other peers. PROFESSIONAL For improving your interactions with professionals who hold some level of control over you. OFFICIAL For improving your interactions with government personnel and official entities. Click the tabs of the powerholder entities above to follow this program's development. 1. I-need message 2. Mutuality invitation 3. Post-legalism 4. Costs & benefits 5. Liberty Commitment Law-Fit . Fit any relevant norms to the needs they ostensibly exist to serve. While no one sits above the law, no law sits above the needs it exists to serve . Laws are relatively arbitrary, while inflexible needs remain objective. Wellness easily declines where law or authority imposes upon inflexible needs. This process prioritizes inflexible needs over flexible norms, for the benefit of all involved. 1. Cite prevailing law and norms applicable to situation. 2. Cui bono? Who benefits from compliance to such norms? 3. What are the measurable results of compliance & noncompliance? Exaction Invoice Impacted needs M Anxiety costs $169 Depression costs $102 Addictiveness costs $90 Other costs $163 Needs X 3 needs $507.00 3 needs $306.00 3 needs $270.00 3 needs $489.00 Total $1.572.00 This is not a bill . This conveys the hidden costs imposed, compromising efficacy. Follow the process here. creation conditions conversion clearance certification Liberty Commitment By liberty, we mean "the freedom to fully resolve our needs in ways with minimal or no negative impact upon the needs of others". Properly resolve needs Commitment to wellness Learn More Mutuality over adversarialism Incentivized good faith intent Earned legitimacy Learn More Best practices for competitive advantage Free impact data Assumption testing Collapsible text is great for longer section titles and descriptions. It gives people access to all the info they need, while keeping your layout clean. Link your text to anything, or set your text box to expand on click. Write your text here... Resolution of needs (path/plan) Credit for contributing to improved outcomes Contribute to our preventative mental health and receive credit Download document version (PDF) I-need message . A. AFFIRM value of recipient. B. BRING up own affected need(s). C. CONTINUE dialogue to nurture mutual understanding. Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. 1. I-need message 2. Mutuality invitation 3. Law-Fit 4. Exaction Invoice 5. Liberty Commitment Law-Fit . Fit any relevant norms to the needs they ostensibly exist to serve. While no one sits above the law, no law sits above the needs it exists to serve . Laws are relatively arbitrary, while inflexible needs remain objective. Wellness easily declines where law or authority imposes upon inflexible needs. This process prioritizes inflexible needs over flexible norms, for the benefit of all involved. 1. Cite prevailing law and norms applicable to situation. 2. Cui bono? Who benefits from compliance to such norms? 3. What are the measurable results of compliance & noncompliance? Exaction Invoice Impacted needs M Anxiety costs $169 Depression costs $102 Addictiveness costs $90 Other costs $163 Needs X 3 needs $507.00 3 needs $306.00 3 needs $270.00 3 needs $489.00 Total $1.572.00 This is not a bill . This conveys the hidden costs imposed, compromising efficacy. Follow the process here. creation conditions conversion clearance certification Liberty Commitment By liberty, we mean "the freedom to fully resolve our needs in ways with minimal or no negative impact upon the needs of others". Properly resolve needs Commitment to wellness Learn More Mutuality over adversarialism Incentivized good faith intent Earned legitimacy Learn More Best practices for competitive advantage Free impact data Assumption testing Collapsible text is great for longer section titles and descriptions. It gives people access to all the info they need, while keeping your layout clean. Link your text to anything, or set your text box to expand on click. Write your text here... Resolution of needs (path/plan) Credit for contributing to improved outcomes Contribute to our preventative mental health and receive credit Download document version (PDF) I-need message . A. AFFIRM value of recipient. B. BRING up own affected need(s). C. CONTINUE dialogue to nurture mutual understanding. Responsiveness Status Date message sent Date message acknowledged Recipient's reply Responsiveness Rating Recipient has not yet responded. Download document version (PDF) Powerholders: You don't know what you don't know. Introducing "I-need" messages The greatest impact on your wellness, and risk to your mental health, is not the quality of your thinking . No, it is how well your many needs can promptly and fully resolve . Much of which sits outside your personal control. The more your inflexible needs remain exposed to those with more social power than you, the more likely you suffer some needs, or many needs, not promptly or fully resolving. The less your needs resolve, the less your capacity to fully function. No amount of intellectual capacity or mindful cognition will stop those in positions of authority from negatively impacting your exposed needs. They typically remain unaware of their harmful impacts upon you. That is why this service exists. Measuring improved wellness To keep this service accountable to evidence-based outcomes, the need-messenger routinely fills out a well-check survey. It gauges their levels of anxiety, depression, and addictiveness throughout the program. The program anticipates improved outcomes in all three areas as powerholders enable the need-messenger to more fully resolve their affected needs. This effectively shifts the stigma from the good faith need-messenger to those powerholders presenting a lack of competence. This starts with capturing the need-messenger's baseline. Which provides a starting point with which we can compare later. We use this downloadable interactive spreadsheet tool as we test the viability of this service. Download wellness tool Download PDF wellness form well check-p00 well check-p01 well check-p010 well check-p00 1/11 wellcheck sample-p00 wellcheck sample-p01 wellcheck sample-p10 wellcheck sample-p00 1/11 well check article A nankelogy Foundatio n

Power Problems Power problems occur when impactors impede impactees trying to properly resolve needs . power problems & power-impacted needs properly resolving needs Power problem ID: A05 Universal Cultural Incompetence Insensitive to valuable differences cultural incompetence cultural competency < previous next > Cultural Incompetence Neglecting the impactee’s culturally different values or perspectives, where the impactor potentially pressures the impactee to fit into their cookie cutter cultural norms. The impactee may rightly fear some form of retribution for not fitting into the impactor’s cultural expectation. Or feel their full value remains overlooked and their contributions routinely neglected. cultural competency The further along the cultural competence continuum , the more trustworthy the impactor to those vulnerable impactees who valuably exist and properly act outside of mainstream cultural norms. Whether a healthcare provider or a different impactor, the impactor's responsiveness to impactee cultural differences fall along a recognized continuum: Stage 1. Cultural Destructiveness Stage 2. Cultural Incapacity Stage 3. Cultural Blindness Stage 4. Cultural Precompetence Stage 5. Cultural Competence and Proficiency Need-response can guide the targeted impactor to improve their cultural competency by walking them through the need-response process with an impactee. The impactor learns to appreciate the impactee's hidden value and how to properly address anything that is not appropriate simply because it is culturally different. The impactee can then contribute more of their full value when free to be their authentic selves. And their differentness can invite the impactor to inquire if the impactee sees something that the impactor cannot through the lens of their own familiarity bias. The impactor then earns legitimacy to reliably impact impactees who are culturally different from oneself. And gain competitive legitimacy when tapping into impactees' unique perspectives. Cultural Incompetence Corrupting Influence Cognitive Contraction Coercive Compliance Coerced Poor Options Dependence